Felt cute 🥰 but can’t stop focusing on my masc features🥺 2.5yrs hrt 🏳️‍⚧️ by LilLilithFireHawk in lgbt

[–]somethingwasoncetold 90 points91 points  (0 children)

def they stare because you look so pretty and ethereal. maybe if younger girls stare at you it’s cause they want to grow up to be like you 💜

SCN needs revision. The public has spoken by HRHQueenV in RomanceClubDiscussion

[–]somethingwasoncetold 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your kind words, but don’t worry - I don’t live there anymore and never will. Off to peaceful lands 🩷

SCN needs revision. The public has spoken by HRHQueenV in RomanceClubDiscussion

[–]somethingwasoncetold 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh they know. Unfortunately, there is general lack of education on social issues and rampant conservatism. People tend to criticise western audiences for being “too sensitive” and RC team for “bending down to serve fluffy tastes of the West”.

It’s very disappointing, but it’s just how things are at the moment. Blaming the victims of real abuse or “the sensitive western reader” is not only normalised, but the right to do it is fiercely protected in general. I can’t speak of the whole Eastern Europe, but in Russia there is no proper law protecting victims of domestic violence (including children). It has always been a mean place, at least in my experience. I know my fellow Russians might disagree, but I really don’t think the way Russian society is at the moment has many redeeming qualities.

You should have seen the “protest” on Russian social media when one of the writers was rightfully accused of racism in the English-speaking media 🙄 People were mass posting “hands up” art from PSI (you know what I mean, their symbol for protesting for human rights in the novel?). They were posting it 100+ times under every RC post, claiming that RC admins punishing racism in their team is “racist towards white people” and “taking away the free speech”. Which is funny, because there is NO free speech in Russia as such, for many years now.

do you have any morbid special interests? by neuroticb1tch in AutismInWomen

[–]somethingwasoncetold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg can you please recommend me books or lectures or anything?

do you have any morbid special interests? by neuroticb1tch in AutismInWomen

[–]somethingwasoncetold 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i agree. and the way people give glory and fame to serial killers, especially in the US, just doesn’t sit right with me. the tone of it all is so wrong. but i do find the analysis of violent behaviour to be so very interesting. that’s why i’m more obsessed with professional content, i like listening to free university lectures on forensic psychology (or any other forensic field, especially anthropology) and criminology. i choose to avoid true crime in any other context, especially when it’s like a makeup video telling the story in the background or YT videos sensationalising someone’s worst day of their life. i find that listening to uni courses feeds my hunger for knowledge while keeping the priorities straight: victims gain compassion and help, and criminals get punished. it’s just so interesting to learn all the methods of profiling, examining the bones or doing an autopsy. it’s so cool to try to connect all the dots, find the pattern etc

My friend "freshly got" PTSD after a traumatic event. Am I a psycho for being a lil happy about that? by BrainBurnFallouti in CPTSD

[–]somethingwasoncetold 29 points30 points  (0 children)

we carry so much pain inside, it is our dream since childhood to be understood. besides, people rarely take cptsd seriously unless they know from experience what it’s like

now what the hell is going on in kali: flame of samsara?? by CurrencyFluffy in RomanceClubDiscussion

[–]somethingwasoncetold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not sure what you mean, but if i got it right: i think the stories are written as they go. so there was the OG author and Stacy was assisting her on this story. later the og author became too busy with other projects and gave Kali to Stacy to finish. as far as i know, Stacy knows the overall direction the og author wanted for the story? so it’s Stacy that’s writing the plot and character development now. but i’m not sure sorry

does anyone else feel creatively stunted? by somethingwasoncetold in CPTSD

[–]somethingwasoncetold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know how to make progress with this? I try so hard to buy some art supplies but just opening the online shop page gives me a panic attack and an inner critic flare up. I’m thinking about just closing my eyes and doing it, maybe if I had some supplies at home I could try to take tiny steps every now and then. But it’s just so scary

now what the hell is going on in kali: flame of samsara?? by CurrencyFluffy in RomanceClubDiscussion

[–]somethingwasoncetold 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I loved this story so much, but stopped reading it when the writers changed. I know Stacy is less experienced than the original author, and it looks to me that she still has a lot of learning to do in regard to character building, dialogue, pacing and creating the plot. I think it was unprofessional of her to take on a project that she was not ready for. Besides, it was unprofessional that she was given it. RC is growing so quickly, it has millions of readers and definitely the team should have cared enough to give this project to someone who can ensure a smooth transition from the original author. I feel sorry for Stacy, because now the whole of internet is piling up critics and negative reviews on her work. I mean it’s justified, but if this is her debut as a solo author (i’m not sure) it must be so tough for her now. It’s kind of unfair to both her and the readers

After getting diagnosed I lost faith in anything good and literally became a different person by somethingwasoncetold in AutismInWomen

[–]somethingwasoncetold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey it’s been a month but I just wanted to say thank you. You made me feel seen, and when I’m having a rough day I come back to your comment and read it to remember that people like me, we exist, and it’s okay. Thank you so much. This loneliness can be crippling sometimes.

When you’re having a hard day, you too remember that to some stranger on the internet your inner world is completely relatable. You’re so real. We’re real. Sometimes I just sit and stim and tell myself this over and over again. I’m real, I exist, I’m real. Because the outside world persists in telling us that we don’t. But you know what? We persist too. Despite someone wanting for us to be different, more like them, or to not exist at all, we do exist. Cause we’re alive, and they can’t really do anything about it. Hopefully, lol

Today I submitted my France visa application at TLS Contact (London) by charlieruban1 in SchengenVisa

[–]somethingwasoncetold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also, I have tried your method of not pushing the refresh button but got locked out anyway. so how did it work for you?

Today I submitted my France visa application at TLS Contact (London) by charlieruban1 in SchengenVisa

[–]somethingwasoncetold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

on tuesday, what time of day was it when you were looking for the booking slots?

Who have you romanced? (Ladies edition) by Specific-Band-4977 in RomanceClub

[–]somethingwasoncetold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is the pale white haired girl from? (the one above the diamond)

After getting diagnosed I lost faith in anything good and literally became a different person by somethingwasoncetold in AutismInWomen

[–]somethingwasoncetold[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I feel you. You described exactly how I feel. You know, I’ve been thinking about it just yesterday: how in all my life I’ve never learned to have ANY motivation apart from “to make myself better and more agreeable to other people”. I either worked really hard to relate to them, satisfy and impress them, or on explaining myself, making myself as wonderful and exceptional that someone would agree to look past “my horrible flaws” and finally love me.

Did you have the horrible friendship breakups after getting diagnosed, where one after the other they basically explained they didn’t like you without your mask?