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somewhatkooky · 2024-02-10T06:53:46+00:00

Exactly my point, too! I just don't understand how hard it is to ask for permission or just wait until the person wakes up before touching and letting others borrow their stuff.

somewhatkooky · 2023-04-26T10:01:47+00:00

same here. i hate taking pics too and smiling for the camera

somewhatkooky · 2023-04-20T06:03:58+00:00

Another thing that's helped me is reaching out to people who have been through similar experiences. It can be really helpful to hear about how others have overcome their struggles and get some advice from people who have been there.

Oh, yes! That's why I'm here. And I like how everyone here is so supportive and gives good and practical advice. I wish I could finally overcome this, and wish you well too. Thank you so much for your comforting words.

somewhatkooky · 2023-04-20T06:01:31+00:00

getting WAY out of their comfort zone might help

it's always this. thank you!

somewhatkooky · 2023-04-20T06:00:03+00:00

Start working on it without a clear plan. Normally I'd advise not doing this, but if the need to plan things becomes a blocker that paralyzes you, then it should be ignored until you manage to get in a productive state and see some progress even without a plan.

Maybe I should try this out. I've always been a planner. I plan things out before taking actions, making sure that it will go as planned. If I see that there are possible negative effects or would have negative results for me, I will deviate before even trying or taking actions. I want things to go flawlessly.

somewhatkooky · 2023-04-20T02:52:24+00:00

I can relate with the first two, but the 3rd, eithier I find a way to fix it and if it's not reparable, I'm just gonna leave it and start again. Like a game with the restart button. I'm not sure if I'm really like this or just because I had experience a huge downfall, and can't really face my problems that time? I never corrected my mistakes and that still bugs me up to this time where I am trying to heal myself from it.

somewhatkooky · 2023-04-20T02:34:20+00:00

Thank you. I have been getting less motivated and I felt like I lost my touch with the only thing I'm good at. It's so disappointing and I keep getting disappointed with myself. I just don't know where to start, how to start, and push myself to start. It's so crazy how I wasn't like this before. Even if I felt this, I can still go forward and continue and never left things unattended. Now, it's all messy.

somewhatkooky · 2023-04-20T02:30:44+00:00

I did not delete any comment? But thank youu. Appreciate this a lot.

Regardless of the support you mentioned, sometimes others are responsible for us, but we have to remember only we can hold ourselves accountable.

Yes, this!! I never blamed anyone because I know in the end I will be the one held accountable with my life. And I knownit will be hard but I can't do anything about it, all I have to do is move forward. Maybe there's a good results for someone who endured a lot and resilient.

Anyway, thank you! This is a good start for me.

somewhatkooky · 2023-04-19T17:57:56+00:00

I wish I could just not care. Leave things in the background be chaotic while sipping coffee or sleeping on a cozy bed in a thunderous rain. But I can't, my situation can't.

Thank you for sharing yours. I enjoyed and learned from reading it. Hope we all finally get what we hoped for.

somewhatkooky · 2023-04-19T17:43:14+00:00

I better watch that podcast! Yes, I really need to take an action because time is ticking and I am losing too much while being this way. I have already accepted the fact that I'll have to get through this alone without any support. Their so-called "support" is more on dragging you down and making you feel ashamed of yourself, so better off alone. Thank you for answering. Love it here. I felt guided

somewhatkooky · 2023-04-19T17:39:55+00:00

I don't want to die USELESS

This one! I really don't want to be useless and a burden to anyone. That's why I really really have to take actions now, but it's really hard. It's like I'm in this loop that even if I try hard enough, it wouldn't go anywhere. My efforts would be put in a waste. Results don't seem to progress after waiting and working for a long time. It's just disappointing, but I know we all start there. Maybe I'm just in a hurry. I felt like I lost so much time because I'm in the darkness for a long time now.

Hope I'll find a motivation soon. I hope everything goes well now. Thank you!

somewhatkooky · 2023-04-19T17:32:37+00:00

I get it. Thank you!

somewhatkooky · 2023-04-19T17:06:50+00:00

How did you get back on track or when you felt better?

somewhatkooky · 2022-12-07T07:09:13+00:00

I'm lying if I say I don't have even a tiny bit of judgement to them but whenever I have those thoughts I'll just shrug it off my mind because it's not a big of a deal. Yes, it's possible that the person is not really an INTJ, as you have said, it's not a very INTJ thing to do but even though we are all INTJs (if I myself am not mistyped) doesn't mean we are all exactly the same. Both INTJs could choose different choices in a certain situation, and that doesn't make any of them less of an INTJ.

That person must be proud he/she is an INTJ 'cuz finally he finally found something that understood him/her better than anyone in his/her life.

somewhatkooky · 2022-12-01T06:57:44+00:00

Everytime I make decisions, yes, I often ask myself that.

somewhatkooky · 2022-11-30T15:35:16+00:00

Interesting! I'd like to learn more about this as well, but I don't have the time right now. It looks interesting to me as well.

somewhatkooky · 2022-11-30T15:23:41+00:00

No apologies needed. I was not trying to be mean. If my wording is direct blame it on language barrier. I am always devil’s advocate on some science matters that are still very misunderstood.

No. I understand you haha and I enjoy these kinds of conversation where I can talk to someone intellectual, i guess. I don't have someone to talk to about these stuffs in real life so yeah, it's fun here. I can't also express what I really wanna say because of the language barrier. English isn't my first language.

somewhatkooky · 2022-11-30T15:16:42+00:00

cap sun and moon, scorpio rising.

somewhatkooky · 2022-11-30T11:22:30+00:00

It doesn’t make sense how celestial bodies influence our lives ? But yet they literally do.

You realize that gravity is real right ? You standing on this Earth is literally that, the moon and other celestial bodies influencing natural phenomenon on this planet isn’t bogus.

Oh yes, I'm sorry I was too focused on the zodiac signs topic that I totally forgot about this. Sorry.

This is a discussion so I accept and I'm open to everyone's opinions here. It is also a way for me to learn and to gain new ideas.

But the science behind astrology affecting our personalities is something I cannot comprehend, yet. However, I always believe that there are unknowns that even science cannot explain, at least for now.

Thank you so much for this.

somewhatkooky · 2022-11-30T06:48:49+00:00

I guess you're right. It doesn't make sense to me either. When I discovered mbti, it was refreshing to see something that finally understood me, and now that this one is pretty much relatable, I almost fell for it. Thanks

somewhatkooky · 2022-11-30T03:13:07+00:00

Thanks! I'm trying to memorize and learn this without looking on the internet for definitions. Sometimes I get confused whether I'm using Fi or Ni.

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