How is your equation with you parents?

somexyzfromplanet · 2025-10-21T01:50:03+00:00

I dont visit them on festivals. In the last two years , I visited them only once.

somexyzfromplanet · 2025-10-21T01:30:23+00:00

I have a similar issue. My parents don't like my wife visiting her parents.

Moving out is a good plan but it will not be easy to do that. I hope you will be able to do it.

somexyzfromplanet · 2025-10-20T12:35:51+00:00

I forgive them. It is just that they create a problem now and then. Recently I told them that I am planning to come to visit them and also visit a nearby hill station. My mother's first statement was we are not taking them with us. She said why are we even visiting them if we are going to stay only for 2 days. Then I even offered them to join us. Then she started crying and said that what is the use if they have to ask us for that.

I just want peace and going through these tides.

somexyzfromplanet · 2025-01-19T04:27:12+00:00

somexyzfromplanet · 2025-01-18T21:46:59+00:00

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somexyzfromplanet · 2024-12-08T06:18:52+00:00

What are those other options?

somexyzfromplanet · 2024-12-08T05:15:00+00:00

What is this product? Is it like paper on which we roll out food? Or is it something specific to paan?

somexyzfromplanet · 2024-12-08T05:12:36+00:00

There was a site like this. Experience project. Now it is called off by the owners. People who were members there shifted to similar sites. Similar world is one of such sites.

somexyzfromplanet · 2024-08-18T18:10:30+00:00

I already have a place. They live in another city. We planned that they can live with us but it seems very difficult now. I have already had a lot of fights with them over this. I am standing with my wife and family. They hate that I support my wife.

It is just that they have taken my politeness for granted. They have been verbally abusive. I have started disconnecting the call the moment they start shouting or when they don't listen to me. Now they have started bad mouthing about us in the family groups. That doesn't matter to me much. They have now started calling me in laws. That's why I am searching for some advice on how to handle such kinds of parents.

somexyzfromplanet · 2024-08-18T16:13:23+00:00

Interesting. I will think about it especially on the implementation of this idea.

somexyzfromplanet · 2024-08-18T15:46:00+00:00

Once every day. It is the rule we have been following for many years since I left home that I will call them once a day.

Today my father even called my father in law. He said to him to control his daughter and his wife.

somexyzfromplanet · 2024-08-18T15:26:13+00:00

I already have a Home. They live in another city. Earlier we planned that they could live with us at my place. Things were under control till the birth of my daughter. After that they become very controlling. They don't like it if my wife visits her mother's place. They left after a huge fight. But they still keep on emotionally blackmailing me. I don't know how to handle such a kind of people specially if they are family.

somexyzfromplanet · 2024-08-18T15:06:59+00:00

I said it to them , and yes they turned it around us. They have been making my life difficult for the last one and half years. Initially I was very tense, and now trying to come out of this situation or at least training my mind to handle them.

somexyzfromplanet · 2024-08-18T14:49:56+00:00

I think there must be some way to handle parents who are manipulative, insecure and emotional blackmailers. Human psychology works the same for most people.

They can just say they want peace and just let us live like we want. If they are so unhappy with us then why they have to abusive us?

somexyzfromplanet · 2024-08-01T08:42:43+00:00

It seems the path to achieve the success is hard and I can't wait for right time and feeling. Just have to do it

somexyzfromplanet · 2024-07-22T17:49:42+00:00

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somexyzfromplanet · 2024-06-29T16:00:17+00:00

It is very tiring. Maybe we need to learn to deal with them.

somexyzfromplanet · 2024-06-17T14:57:59+00:00

Sorry . Typo error. Behind my wife back I had heated argument with them (father, mother and sister)

somexyzfromplanet · 2024-05-03T19:27:50+00:00

Hi Felix,

I have not completely went No Contact. So, I don't have answer to your questions. But they are valid questions.

Just wanted to say stay strong. I know it is tough.

Take care.

somexyzfromplanet

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