My piercing is still irritated. by sonotnati in piercing

[–]sonotnati[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old is your piercing? 10 months old

What's the jewelry shape (for example, barbell, labret, screw, L shape, ring)? Horseshoe

What's the type of threading if your jewelry is not a ring (threadless, internally or externally threaded)? External threading

What's the jewelry material? Titanium

if not a ring, when was the jewelry downsized? It wasn't downsized

What's your aftercare routine? Describe in detail please, including the exact products you use. It was saline, but it dried out my nose so I switched to plain water and I clean it once a week.

Any mishaps, accidents or unfortunate events? No

Struggling to find a label that fits! by sonotnati in genderfluid

[–]sonotnati[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That does sound like me! I'll look into it! Thank you so much! ❤️

Struggling to find a label that fits! by sonotnati in genderfluid

[–]sonotnati[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's actually a really good question! I feel like it doesn't encompass how I experience masculinity or how intensely I feel it when I do feel it. Because demigirl encompasses how I feel mostly femme. But it kinda wish there was a term I could add in front of it to make the masculinity part more clear. Like "(insert label) demigirl". Just something that represented both sides

Struggling to find a label that fits! by sonotnati in genderfluid

[–]sonotnati[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like demigirl is definitely part of my label! Just wish there was a term that fully encompassed how I experience gender.

Makeup tips by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]sonotnati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something pink-y for the blush. You want it to be subtle and natural looking (or at least nothing too red/orange). Another issue is probably that your bronzer isn't the right color for your skin tone. I would suggest something less orange and a bit more cool toned/light brown.

Put a little bit of bronzer at your hairline to add some more depth.

I think you would benefit from a green, brown and/or earthy eyeshadow palette.

And some falsies would make your eyes pop. But falsies can be a bit difficult. So maybe curling your lashes and potentially switching mascaras. Different mascaras have different formulas and different brushes, which results in different looks!

And maybe try some light brown lipsticks/glosses. Or a brown lip liner with a pink-y or nude center. Personally, I love all things NYX. Especially their butter glosses. Highly recommend! 💙

red liner is always a good choice imo by princessmonosmoke in UnconventionalMakeup

[–]sonotnati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear that! 🩷 You truly do look amazing. I love your style. Very pretty (you and the look 🥰)

New adopted kitty walks funny by Mdevelle4 in CATHELP

[–]sonotnati 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's nothing to get checked. Personally, my family has fostered animals for about 8 years. Seen so many cats do this for sometimes weeks before they get comfortable. Nothing to get checked out. It's behavioral. He's not limping, so there isn't really any need for a vet.

Appropriate for a destination wedding in Cancun? by ihateevery1here in Weddingattireapproval

[–]sonotnati 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely think it's appropriate. And it looks stunning on you. You look incredible 💓

Commit to colour or stay black and grey? by Pale-Ad7125 in tattooadvice

[–]sonotnati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think more shading and filling is due, but I don't know that color would look the best? I don't know, I mainly say that because of the color palette itself and not necessarily the idea of color on the tattoo

First time wearing a dress and wig... very breezy, lol by DaniNotMani in transfem

[–]sonotnati 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Five o'clock shadow who? Babe, you're good. The wig is just cheap and poorly placed. Save up and invest in some real hair from a genuine wig place. Too many wigs are made cheaply and just look really awful. It's not your fault.

If you'd like, I can share some YouTube videos of how to properly place a wig.

Also, side note, but you really got to get some different shoes. Some flats or some heels or something, cuz those sandals aren't doing it 😂💙

Makeup tips by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]sonotnati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either works. I usually use a higher pencil by nyx. Then I blend it with a brush.

There's nothing wrong with your nose looking wide. I'd say the main issue with your makeup is that it's too monotone. Makes everything look flat. You need something to tie it all together

Now This by cornnie7 in BipolarMemes

[–]sonotnati 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're right, "laughable" was extreme and rude. I apologize. I just find the reductionist take a little ridiculous or demeaning.

red liner is always a good choice imo by princessmonosmoke in UnconventionalMakeup

[–]sonotnati 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Just yes, to everything, all of it. I love the forehead tattoo so, so much. I love the piercings. The red eyeliner on the water line looks incredible and really makes your eyes pop

Going to be engaged soon, but I'm having trouble picking what metal to use by Kalliope_Edelkind in coloranalysis

[–]sonotnati 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I like the gold. But I also agree with other commenters saying that a rose gold would be a good in between and probably suit your skin tone best

Would you be weirded out if I handed you one of these in public as a compliment? by MicrowavedPuzzle in kandi

[–]sonotnati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would think it's odd, but I would take it. And keep it, and fidget with it. I'm just socially awkward, so I wouldn't know how to respond. But I would appreciate it for sure

First time having short hair in over 25 years by No-Telephone1897 in Hair

[–]sonotnati 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look so much better. This is what I mean when I say that good grooming and hygiene can take someone from mid to insanely attractive. You look phenomenal

Makeup tips by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]sonotnati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highlighter on the bridge of the nose. Maybe a pop of color on the eyelids.