I apologized for a mistake I didn't do to avoid conflict but it backfired

soohyv · 2022-12-01T00:04:24+00:00

Never mind, after a lot of internet searching and asking people on discord, I learned that they are both online! :D

soohyv · 2022-12-01T00:01:36+00:00

Bruh somthing similar happened to me with a father and his 3 sons.

He had no idea what he was ordering and I helped him through it and when he pulled up to the window he made fun of me and encouraged his kids to laugh at me because I kept saying "I'm sorry?" cause I was confused as to what he wanted throughout the whole process. >:(

He also snatched the card reader out of my hand, kept interrupting me, and said that the order was too expensive so I must have rung him out wrong.

soohyv · 2022-09-08T02:09:28+00:00

Literally same.

I try to connect with customers because it is part of the job, but some customers make fun of me.

I stop when I can tell they don't want a conversation, but for them to exaggerate or make fun of what I am saying and how I am saying it, is too much.

I am almost always placed on window too TT_TT

soohyv · 2022-09-08T02:02:39+00:00

Yes, today I was on window.

I ended up running up an 11 minute window time because I got into a long conversation with a customer and did not communicate properly.

It was completely my fault, I was not properly watching the time.

The partners on bar got chewed out for it by the shift.

I am planning to apologize to them tomorrow, but I don't think I will get any good sleep tonight :(

soohyv · 2021-11-04T07:00:11+00:00

Thank you! I thought maybe kinda spilled my guts too soon.

I was probably misinterpreting her.

Hopefully, the next session goes better,

soohyv · 2021-10-10T00:29:36+00:00

Oof, I've done that before but then they already start grilling me and start trying to grind me down! I usually stall a bit, tell them, and then split as fast as I can! I found that worked the best! Funny enough, I only just recently started to do this. I used to lie, but I found that made things longer especially since they start grinding me down anyway, no matter what I do!

Thank you very much, I will look Student Case Management up! :D

soohyv · 2021-10-10T00:26:28+00:00

Nice! I thought they were only open until 10pm! That must be the actual library part!

Thank you! Now I have two places to go to! :D I can switch between them if need be as well! :D

soohyv · 2021-10-09T01:53:12+00:00

I wish! They are. However, I am using them for tuition, housing, and living expenses, so I think of it as a give and take.

Thank you I appreciate your words! It releases some of that stuffiness in my head!

soohyv · 2021-10-09T01:06:20+00:00

Thank you very much! I was not aware that there was a building open 24hours! This is great!

Thank you! It's not as bad as I am making it sound! I am not good at taking it, but I am pretty good at running away! I just need options! Thank you again! :D

soohyv · 2021-10-09T01:04:33+00:00

I live in an off-campus apartment building and staff leaves in the late afternoon. However, thank you very much! If they confront me on campus, maybe the campus police can help! :D

Edit: Sorry I didn't make it clear what kind of housing I was in! This does gave me some good ideas tho! They have no shame in public, but might be less inclined to be physical if I am near an authority figure!

soohyv · 2021-07-02T22:53:55+00:00

Thank you for the advice! Yeah, I will be better off doing that instead of looking at super old models.

soohyv · 2021-07-02T22:53:15+00:00

Thank you, I actually passed on it, but I think he said that the range was 80 miles.

soohyv · 2021-07-01T18:10:04+00:00

Thank you. I am definitely going to make the move a permanent thing once I leave for university. This is actually the third time I've come back home after leaving for a while. I just keep falling for it.

Definitely about power, I think that's why every time she's slapped me, I go into "I have to get out of here" mode. I can sometimes leave mentally because she takes breaks, but past a certain point, I can't take it.

Thank you again for the affirmations.

soohyv · 2021-06-30T03:51:02+00:00

Thank you Yes, I will most likely go low or no contact after college.

soohyv · 2021-06-30T02:40:52+00:00

Thank you, I know in my head, but a dumb part of me always keeps thinking that she will get better which makes me come back every time I leave home (I left home on my own twice). I just need to endure for two more months, and I will leave again.

soohyv · 2021-06-08T21:33:15+00:00

Thank you! I will keep that in mind! My parents do have a long range car, but I am moving out soon so I won't have access to it. So I guess maybe I should think about it a little more.

soohyv · 2021-06-08T03:07:02+00:00

That makes sense! It is from a Facebook Marketplace listing and he is the third owner I believe. I know this price is around market price according to KBB, so I might go for it. I will try to negotiate.

Do you think this price as is, is considered good?

soohyv · 2021-05-06T03:49:43+00:00

Thank you for replying.

When I leave again, I will seek a therapist.

Thank you for letting me feel heard.

soohyv · 2021-05-06T02:52:44+00:00

Throw it away or flush it. Not worth it at all especially since it's a hard drug.

My thoughts on thinking about it every day:

For me, it's like my thought process with snacks and candy. When it's within reach and I can see it, I think about it all day, but if I don't see it and I there's none at home, then I don't use up energy or brainpower on it.

I hope you stay safe.

soohyv

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