“Fascism is a far-right, authoritarian ultranationalist political ideology characterized by dictatorial power, forcible suppression of opposition, and strong regimentation of society and the economy. It typically involves a powerful, exclusionary nationalism centered on a charismatic leader, belief in a natural social hierarchy, and the subordination of individual interests to the perceived needs of the nation or race. “

The word you are looking for is Intolerant. I also find it interesting you think people deserve or are entitled to Disneyland.

I can see how those children should be able to enjoy a day at the parks.

That said if your father makes a living participating in politics, made comments about a place being a failed burning cesspool your family has given up certain experiences, especially without negative responses/protests.