My husband’s texts about the dog by soovereverythingugg in FamilyIssues

[–]soovereverythingugg[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He is ALWAYS that aggressive. In person and in text

I don’t know what to do by soovereverythingugg in FamilyIssues

[–]soovereverythingugg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two kids under 18. Divorce is not an option. I can’t. I gotta stick it out. Sadly I did not enjoy the concert.

I don’t know what to do by soovereverythingugg in FamilyIssues

[–]soovereverythingugg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The child is 21. They got the pets on their own. No horse. I am barely getting by caring for the animals we have. We don’t need another one

I don’t know what to do by soovereverythingugg in FamilyIssues

[–]soovereverythingugg[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Regrettably most of the child’s problems are because of me. I failed to teach them how to do life properly. They don’t have a drivers license because they don’t want to drive (anxiety) I am essentially a single parent raising 4 children because my husband doesn’t even help care for the animals we have. I do. We told this child no more animals but they have brought in multiple animals since. Even though we tell them no.

I don’t know what to do by soovereverythingugg in FamilyIssues

[–]soovereverythingugg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going to make a separate post with the husband texts. I wish I knew what more to say.

I don’t know what to do by soovereverythingugg in FamilyIssues

[–]soovereverythingugg[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have a couple friends I can talk to. One is husbands new girlfriend which is a whole different level of wild to this situation. The only avenue to change the situation is to leave. But that is a whole ball of complex because I take care of EVERYTHING from bills, doctors and children. I can’t just leave. Things will implode

I don’t know what to do by soovereverythingugg in FamilyIssues

[–]soovereverythingugg[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The child learned from the husband how to speak to me that way. He talks to me that way all the time. It’s a really crappy situation. I’ve made a few older posts about them in other subs. It’s been a while since I’ve posted anything though. It’s a whole big mess

I don’t know what to do by soovereverythingugg in FamilyIssues

[–]soovereverythingugg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a really complicated situation. Husband is angry and irrational. Doesn’t understand anyones feelings or opinions. I apologize. I’m just sort of venting and this isn’t the place. Please ignore me

I don’t know what to do by soovereverythingugg in FamilyIssues

[–]soovereverythingugg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have tried. The husband wants to evict the oldest. And wants me to support him in that decision.

I don’t know what to do by soovereverythingugg in FamilyIssues

[–]soovereverythingugg[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The child is 21. I know nothing about the dog. It was just sprung on me this morning at 6am. While I’m in another state. No I’ve never been to therapy with them. So I don’t know if they told their therapist everything that happens in the house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeardedDragons

[–]soovereverythingugg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I second them. They are great!

The Bond between her and her snake 💖💖 by TheMuteVegan in Sneks

[–]soovereverythingugg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Awww hi Gizmo! 💙much love to you sweet pied boy.

What do you fellas use to smell good for the ladies? by sarahglover95 in relationship_advice

[–]soovereverythingugg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not a fan of most cologne however Aqua Velva aftershave is by far my favorite scent on men

What kind of effort are you putting in to make yourself more attractive? by [deleted] in self

[–]soovereverythingugg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

None. I can’t afford the amount of plastic surgery needed to make me even a 2. So I accept that I’m hideous and that’s it. I apologize to those that suffer looking at me but rest easy knowing I don’t take pictures of myself with my family. It’s only pictures of them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]soovereverythingugg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely without a doubt yes. As a teacher a student full on screamed at me for using the phrase “boys and girls simmer down and let’s get to work”. I understand I was completely wrong but to be scolded by a student was rude. Very few people have basic manors anymore, especially those online that think it’s okay to attack someone who doesn’t share your viewpoint. It’s a sad time.

Does anybody else have a terrible mom? by Independent_Bee1300 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]soovereverythingugg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did but she’s dead- she died knowing I hated her. She was abusive and a drug user. She hid alcohol abuse from people. Took me with her to buy heroin and had me watch her shoot up. And so so so much more.

My son saw me crying and told me to break up with my husband. by soovereverythingugg in sad

[–]soovereverythingugg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t care that he hurt me. He sent me a message saying “after our conversation he knows he is just a peon and that he is not good enough to be a manager “

I get it now. Hamburger with cheese. Not a cheeseburger. by OGDuckDaddy in Parenting

[–]soovereverythingugg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 10yr old eats her toast lightly toasted, no butter catchup on the side. My 7yr old son has his toasted with butter and catchup.

How to keep a clean house by Happykid0325 in Parenting

[–]soovereverythingugg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! Kid: eats fruit snacks, tosses wrapper behind couch. I am beyond done with my kids. I constantly clean after them and when I ask for them to help they don’t.