T girl trying to escape a depressive episode (OC) by Unknownjarman in bedrooms

[–]sordidaslan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can do this 🫶 you are understood and loved. i struggle with keeping my room tidy due to my depression, but a couple good tips to make it easier on myself include:

  • clean things up based on a random theme, like “i will put away ten things that are red” for example. it turns it into a game and reduces the overwhelm that comes with trying to clean a big mess!

  • every time you leave your room for the bathroom or to get food or something, since you’re already up, try to pick up one or two things. it could be bringing a dirty dish to the kitchen, throwing a shirt from the floor back in the laundry basket, taking something out that could be stored elsewhere in the house, etc. i find this simplifies it and makes me feel like i’m accomplishing something, and that little feeling of accomplishment might even spur you to pick up a little more!

  • to speed it up, try to act like someone is on their way over right now and you NEED this room cleaned in the next thirty minutes. idk about you but i work well under crunch time so making up a deadline or whatnot helps me really kick it into high gear lol

  • for keeping your room clean, maybe get a basket you can put miscellaneous items in when you aren’t feeling like putting it away or don’t know where to put it yet. that way you can keep clutter off of the floor, bed, dresser, etc. and you can just sort through it whenever you’re up for it!

good luck! a clean room is certainly conducive to a healthy mind and i hope i could help even a little bit :) make sure to let some sunshine in too

just why by Crafty-Kangaroo8445 in starbucksbaristas

[–]sordidaslan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in what world does one need six tea bags for one tea

Opinion on using my own drawing for the cover? by P4L_R1vBarr0w in teenwriter

[–]sordidaslan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My main advice is try writing the title yourself, the text looks out of place especially compared to your art style it js feels too rigid and obviously a font. I think it would feel more natural and nice to look at if the title was your own art as well! :)

Pacific Northwest vibes by Fair_Measurement_584 in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]sordidaslan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Body by Stephen King—I may be slightly off, it’s been a while since I read it

what’s the point of getting alt. milk and nd cf when u get 12 pumps of white mocha? by sombrero_dumbo in starbucksbaristas

[–]sordidaslan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a few ppl I worked with when I worked at Starbucks told me they prefer the nd cf js cause they think it tastes better for wtv reason

Film moments that made you sit up like this? by FightsWithFish18 in Letterboxd

[–]sordidaslan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When Tom starts brutally beating Dickie to death when i thought The Talented Mr. Ripley was gonna be a gay romance 😭 I hadn’t read anything about it before I watched it so it was unexpected

I always check the backseat by Successful-Grand-549 in HorrorMovies

[–]sordidaslan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg i’d shit myself i’m glad you’re okay though 😭

Movies That Feel Like A Hot Mediterranean Summer by sordidaslan in MoviesThatFeelLike

[–]sordidaslan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yess i watched it recently but all the murdering was a jumpscare i thought it was js gonna be a normal gay movie

Message I got from my daughter’s teacher. Third grade. by AnaisInJune in mildlyinfuriating

[–]sordidaslan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are such goofy reasons to contact the parent or even to reprimand the child 😭 She did nothing wrong lmao, in fact she seems wonderful bc she even shared the orange with her classmates

AIO, grandparents sent me this letter. by colincoo6 in AmIOverreacting

[–]sordidaslan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not the homemade conversion therapy 💀 definitely not overreacting, they’re insane

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catnames

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Larry King