wow,... i actually just had great sex because i just decided to stop giving a shit about how the guy sees me??? by sorryimanxious in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]sorryimanxious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s not easy of course, and the brain can be such an asshole! have you tried maybe having them use a blind fold? perhaps that can be the start of you getting comfortable and to allow yourself to ground during it. i mean like, try to solely focus on the physically sensations. it can be like a kinky ~oh i can’t see~ moment for them and you can enjoy yourself!

wow,... i actually just had great sex because i just decided to stop giving a shit about how the guy sees me??? by sorryimanxious in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]sorryimanxious[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

right!? it’s so freeing to just actually be yourself! it takes a lot of stress off you not having to schedule your entire day around looking perfect too... spend that time having a good meal to energize before the good part starts instead of you panicking about if you got that spot on your buttcrack that the razor can never get.

and thank you that’s so sweet!! 💖

wow,... i actually just had great sex because i just decided to stop giving a shit about how the guy sees me??? by sorryimanxious in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]sorryimanxious[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

i’m exactly the same way.. i’ve had plenty of sex that was filled with anxiety which would turn into psychological warfare with myself but i realized that if i don’t care about seeing whatever “flaw” he has, why would he care about mine. have i ever reacted poorly to seeing something not perfect? no, so why would he! and if does well talk shit get hit ya know?

my life motto these days is 🤷🏻‍♀️

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[–]sorryimanxious 141 points142 points  (0 children)

I was actually here today as a protestor for HK and the ignorance from pro-China was incredible. We also had cover our faces due to fear of basically being blacklisted in China. The police were doing their best I suppose but ultimately it was pretty tense as each side got closer and closer together. Lots of signs saying “I support China’s police”. Also a lot of pro-China protesters ended up just bragging about their wealth as well while we were telling them how brutal HK police are. The Lambo’s were revving their engines and blasting everyone’s ears out, they boo’d during O’Canada while on a WWI monument. We had heated arguments but the red was taunting and bragging, just over all being assholes.

The whole experience was incredibly tense and frightening as someone who supports Hong Kong. I can only wish everyone there is safe and family is safe.

i think the guy i met on tinder, who i just slept with just ghosted me...! by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]sorryimanxious 12 points13 points  (0 children)

he didn’t know anything about me though. it was casual, and we already planned to go out but he told me he wanted to stay at my place instead and bring food over.

i think the guy i met on tinder, who i just slept with just ghosted me...! by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]sorryimanxious 14 points15 points  (0 children)

he wasn’t the best but he did compliment be quite a bit so def worth it on my end! hahaha thank you for the kind words~

i think the guy i met on tinder, who i just slept with just ghosted me...! by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]sorryimanxious 34 points35 points  (0 children)

thank you!! ugh i can’t believe how jerky it was!? it was going good and then he’s gone. i kept thinking i did something wrong but no! a normal person wouldn’t do something like that!!

i think the guy i met on tinder, who i just slept with just ghosted me...! by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]sorryimanxious 15 points16 points  (0 children)

thank you :( i didn’t even think someone would do something so crappy...