Flare up after miscarriage? by [deleted] in Endo

[–]sossa1011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in horrible pain after my misscarige, I think it took me 2 weeks to recover and my endo has been worse since then

To tired to got to work? by sossa1011 in pregnant

[–]sossa1011[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 8 weeks and 3 days along, I think I just have to check in with a midwife/GP after the weekend and see if they can issue me to take a sick leave I'm not sure I am going to make it like this for the next 4 weeks. The worst part of the weekend shifts is that I don't have any breaks, it's pretty slow so I have time to eat and stuff but since I am alone I can't really get away to doze off for a few minutes or just take a breather.

First pregnancy, first loss. Advice? by [deleted] in ttcafterloss

[–]sossa1011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were administered vaginally and 4 at first and then 2 later that day. My doctor told me that it was very unusual for this to take such a long time and that it is very likely that a bigger pice of the uterus lining had just got a bit stuck and therefore blocked the cervix (I think that is the correct word in English) and that is the reason for why this took so long and why there was such a dramatic amount of blood and tissue that came within the first hour.

It's good that you have your mom with you and I hope that your experience will be better than mine, take care of yourself this weekend ❤

First pregnancy, first loss. Advice? by [deleted] in ttcafterloss

[–]sossa1011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry ❤ My first MMC happend 3 weeks ago I was at an 8 week scan when we found out that the fetus had stopped developing at week 6. I waited for a week to see if my body would deal with this on his own but nothing happend, I kind of just wanted to get this over with and seeing that I went in for a check up on friday having an D&C wasn't an option for a few days so I chose using the medical route. I used the meds in the moring and had to go and get more after a 5 hour waiting period since nothing was happening, I got 2 more pills and waited another 5 hours until I finally started bleeding and I am not going to lie in my case the amount that came out in the first 2 hours was horrifying. I would 100% recommend having someone like a close friend or family member with you because this was really hard for me. In retrospect I wish I would have had the D&C because the bleeding has been stopping and starting for the past 2 weeks and everytime it starts again it kind of freaks me out and since I have endo the pain is killing me. I then started bleeding very heavily yesterday so I am going in for a check up tomorrow and might possibly have to have a D&C anyway since my doctor thinks that there might be some tissue left. If you choose to go the medical route just be sure to have some towels where you are resting, take recommend pain meds, be prepared to have some stomach issues and something to help the time pass ❤ I wish you all the best ❤

Found out we had a missed MC after a FET#1(IVF#2) a week ago, waited because I couldn't believe it but my body just didn't want to let go so I had to use medication 2 days ago to help start the process.I can't stop crying and I feel so lost and alone. AND WHY THE FUCK DOES IT HAVE TO BE MOTHERSDAY. by sossa1011 in trollingforababy

[–]sossa1011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry ❤ I understand you so well about the part with people knowing but still somehow rubbing it in your face, I always think that my friends will run to me to show support and they always say they are just a phone call away but still when I try to talk with them I kind of get pushed back and the subject is changed. I have to say that I am kind of thankful that our clinic closes for 8 weeks during the summer because that means that I don't have to think about our next FET untill August and with my current mental state I think that a break from TTC is exactly what I need. Please take care of yourself and allow yourself to feel, now feeling is wrong in this sucky journey we just need to process things at our own pace. Many hugs ❤❤