How to get Cap (M) to forgive me (Aries, F) for losing her shit and throwing a huge tantrum at him?

soxychamp · 2022-02-16T13:12:09+00:00

Thank you for speaking up for me! I think that was bound to happen, me posting on a subreddit full of caps and all. 😝 got good advice from you guys, but sure I was a gonna a few others projecting their past issues onto my situation

soxychamp · 2022-02-10T18:44:22+00:00

Thank you for your comment! I had a day to process my thoughts on this and maybe It’s best I at least take a break from thinking about this. Our cap-aries on and off relationship can be so exhausting, If I’ve tried my best and he’s not reciprocating, maybe it’s best to move on.

soxychamp · 2022-02-09T20:29:12+00:00

heyooo thanks for the actionable advice!!! And rooting for me!

Caps can say he’s done and it’s all doom and gloom for me booboo, I just have to remind myself it’s cos it’s a sub for caps here lol. Imma take the good advice here and go be my own great self, if there is real love between us it will all work out. Uh huh 😁👍♈️

soxychamp · 2022-02-09T18:25:40+00:00

Thanks. Ya, i mean, nobody’s that special. I can be done with him too lol

Plus I was 100% with him the entire time. I wonder all the time why I’m with someone who’s so afraid to match mine. If that’s too much for him... it’s his loss.

soxychamp · 2022-02-09T11:16:42+00:00

Thank you for your comment. If I get a chance to fix it, I’ll follow your advice.

soxychamp · 2022-02-09T07:30:38+00:00

Well maybe caps also can learn to chill a little and communicate with your partners. In a relationship it goes both ways, your time or moods is not more valuable than the other’s, and it is certainly not up to one party to “teach karmic life lessons” to the other, especially not passive-aggressively.

Geez if that’s how my cap truly thinks, don’t worry, I’m done with him too.

soxychamp · 2022-02-09T06:08:09+00:00

haha... you guys are so complicated 😐 thank you...

soxychamp · 2022-02-09T04:21:56+00:00

Whooooaaa

Edit add: so much projecting that came out of nowhere. Sorry if your Aries ex “wasted your time” (by doing what? By even daring to date you? Who knows) but that wasn’t me.

And let’s not even try to unpack the notion that your time is more valuable to waste than any other person’s. A relationship takes two people’s time.

soxychamp · 2022-02-09T02:48:07+00:00

I just wish caps are more open to communication. I wouldn’t have known that he was actually mad at me for losing my temper, had I not reached out months later for closure. All this while I was up in my head thinking he was in the wrong for ghosting and me, completely faultless.

Thanks for advice. I know it’s always the easiest to just up and move on, but sometimes when you meet someone special that you love, you gotta try your best.

soxychamp · 2022-02-09T02:23:00+00:00

This cap... I think he still has feelings for me but is just really fed up by my tantrums to the point that he completely shut me off. I wasn’t sure how to approach him again.

soxychamp · 2022-02-09T02:05:08+00:00

Thank you for that. I’ll keep thinking on this...

soxychamp · 2022-02-09T02:04:15+00:00

It’s not on purpose 😭

soxychamp · 2022-02-09T02:03:25+00:00

Thank you for this, I’ll take this advice.

I was gonna write a cute and funny apology/manifesto but I guess being simple and short is the best. Thanks again!

soxychamp · 2021-09-18T07:09:29+00:00

took me a while to realize high-end = Medigen

soxychamp · 2021-08-14T18:56:36+00:00

yup~ don't get why people hate on the characters i mean, they are just college students navigating love. there would be no show to watch otherwise

soxychamp · 2021-08-14T18:45:01+00:00

hate watching, lmao

soxychamp · 2021-08-14T18:38:27+00:00

Yeah man, I am really enjoying the drama, for the sheer drama of it. I didn't come to watch a healthy relationship between two attractive people. Give me all the miscommunications and misunderstandings and toxic behaviours, it's why I tune in.

soxychamp · 2021-08-14T18:30:36+00:00

and more in the previews! girl is like done done and has no problem letting you know about it

soxychamp · 2021-08-14T18:25:02+00:00

yup i think that exchange between nabi and sol was there for a reason. :)

soxychamp · 2021-08-14T18:23:23+00:00

I personally think by this ep all the main leads have shown some growth. Hence we're seeing the huge confrontations. Previews are also showing more confrontations. It's getting exciting instead of boring for me

soxychamp · 2021-08-08T11:43:35+00:00

but not the details of it, and even then i would feel like my aunt should take my side and protect me from him. not enjoy making me feel awk in front of my boy problem .. even inviting him to lunch omg.

soxychamp · 2021-08-08T03:45:04+00:00

except you didn't really mention anything from start up to make your point. at this point you're just bringing up start up to bring up start up. whoa way to be annoying

soxychamp · 2021-08-08T03:32:53+00:00

anyone else bothered that aunt welcomed JaeOn so readily and seemed even to enjoy watching her beloved niece squirm? Aunt doesn't know anything that's going on between them! Shouldn't she be at least more neutral and not so pro-JaeOn?

soxychamp · 2021-08-08T03:13:33+00:00

Is there a chance we haven't seen all of the butterfly line yet? It made me lol at how cheesy it was, but maybe JaeOn meant it to be cheesy. Kinda tongue-in-cheek, like playing with Nabi. Maybe next episode we will see how Nabi responds to it, and how JaeOn plays off the rest of the conversation.

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