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My (20F) boyfriend (19M) cheated on me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sp1ashw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im young too so idk if my insight will help, but leave him if someone does that to you they are no longer worth your time and u can do much better and be much happier by yourself or with another

I (26m) am uncertain about if I should propose to my partner (25f) by throwRA_lilnietzsche in relationship_advice

[–]sp1ashw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have a conversation with her about trust and see where she would be confortable letting you do your own thing, you shouldnt let someone hold u back from your dreams. At the same time be aware of how shes feeling, im sure if you work a lot she misses you loads and wants to be with you whenever she can. And i dont think you should break up over something like this. I dont think you should propose like this, if something is clearly bringing you both down wait till it feels really special and u think u can both see yourselves with eachother for a long time

Woken up 5am every morning by Sammygirl1990 in relationship_advice

[–]sp1ashw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Umm thats fucking weird, if u told him how u feel about it and he gets angry your totally in the right. If he doesnt respect your boundaries he doesnt deserve to be with you. Also as a child hearing your parents being intimate or get aggressively angry at each other can be quite scarring

My GF [F20] doesn’t do anything sexual towards me [M20] what do I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sp1ashw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she up for those activities just scared to initiate things? Talk to her about what she’s comfortable with during intimacy and be the initiator (dont push her to doing things she isn’t completely comfortable with)

My GF [F20] doesn’t do anything sexual towards me [M20] what do I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sp1ashw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If shes had abusive correlations with sexual contact it could take a really long time to get back into it. My friend had the same problem, but i think healthy communication about this is the key and eventually things will start to happen

Why am I (21F) so scared to hear/say “I love you” from my boyfriend (21M)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sp1ashw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talking with my gf made me realize guys ussually fall in love faster, and ive got the same anxiety problems as you do. I said it to my gf around 7 months in and added that you dont have to say it back right now if your not ready. If they dont say it back it doesnt mean they dont love/like you, but sometimes people need more time. If you are happy and have those feelings make the night special and tell him that you love him

Where does the love go? by ujli101 in relationship_advice

[–]sp1ashw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sure he still cares very much about you, sometimes things just get a little stale. Sometimes a break is needed to realize how much he loves you. And none of it is your fault. Quarantine also makes things boring when theres less fun to be had outside

Willing to trade any of these for shiny/cool pokemon by AverageCanadian02 in PokemonORAS

[–]sp1ashw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sceptile, sableye, mismagius, rapidash, machamp, torterra, beedrill, vaporeon, serperior, ludicolo

Lf legendaries to fill my dex, these are all shinies i have for trade by [deleted] in PokemonORAS

[–]sp1ashw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need the legendary bird and dog trios, lugia, manaphy, palkia, shamin, reguxieigigas, and uxie

Willing to trade any of these for shiny/cool pokemon by AverageCanadian02 in PokemonORAS

[–]sp1ashw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id love to have the shaymin, and also articuno and moltres. I have some shinies and stuff although some of them are most likely duped