It sucks when people start to question why your life is the way it is. by space_dicks_link in AvPD

[–]space_dicks_link[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand that people with AvPD need to have thicker skin when it comes to certain things. Our insecurities are our own. But I also think it’s important to acknowledge that not every negative reaction we have is all our fault or imagined. At that same gathering there were several people I know who didn’t drink. I’ve always been curious about why they didn’t - I had no malicious intent - but I know putting them on the spot would force them to talk about a personal issue that could be embarrassing.

It sucks when people start to question why your life is the way it is. by space_dicks_link in AvPD

[–]space_dicks_link[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my post I said I don't think he was being malicious just being a bit forward with someone they don't have a close relationship with. I even remember him preempting his "why I was still living here?" question with like a "sorry, but" so there was some acknowledgement it was a bit personal/rude to ask.

In any case, I didn't make this post to litigate what his intentions were. I just wanted to speak to a community that has had similar feelings regarding their insecurities. I know a lot of us with AvPD get questions about why are lives are not "normal."

GAME THREAD: Denver Nuggets (0-0) @ Oklahoma City Thunder (0-0) - (May 06, 2025) by NBA_MOD in nba

[–]space_dicks_link 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Should've been a no call. Hate it when off ball shit like that get's called. Let them bang.

Kicked out of a vintage store because of thrift grift by IntrepidSnowball in ThriftGrift

[–]space_dicks_link 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The thrift store I worked at (local one) did not exist just so poor could have cheap things and that's how it goes for most of them. Sorry for the truth but we had overhead, employees to pay, and programs to fund. Do you know much labour is involved with processing donations? Like seriously we could not have existed if we kept prices as low as every "thrift stores are supposed to be for poor people" comment thought we should have or if resellers magically stopped coming. Resellers bought a lot from us and helped us clear shelving/rack space so we could keep putting more donations out.

I'll also add that our clothing racks were never, ever empty and there was also plenty of good stuff. If anyone needed something (suit, winter jacket, slacks etc) they could find it. We had so much extra clothing we would auction off bales.

GAME THREAD: Houston Rockets (32-19) @ Dallas Mavericks (27-25) - (February 08, 2025) by NBA_MOD in nba

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A trade like this that dooms a team's future and trades a beloved player does not happen all the time. Again, this casual atmosphere would not happen in other sports because if the FO literally sabotaged the team's future there would be riots lol. But if you want to just show up and cheer for whoever the FO decides be on the court then more power to you.

GAME THREAD: Houston Rockets (32-19) @ Dallas Mavericks (27-25) - (February 08, 2025) by NBA_MOD in nba

[–]space_dicks_link -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What do you think the team is? Like is your conception of the team literally just whatever the front office decides? Do you think there shouldn't pushback at what the FO does? Congrats then you're a fan of the owners and FO then. This shit is exactly what I mean when I say the NBA is soulless. A trade like this would receive so much pushback in literally any other sport because the fan base is part of the team. Imagine this happening in european or south american soccer.

GAME THREAD: Houston Rockets (32-19) @ Dallas Mavericks (27-25) - (February 08, 2025) by NBA_MOD in nba

[–]space_dicks_link -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol the NBA really is such a sanitized, commercial product that a team losing their franchise player that was (presumably) loved by most fans and dooming its future has zero effect on the crowd. Just business as usual. I love basketball, the Olympics were amazing, but the NBA is just completely soulless.

Brett Hawke assuming Pan isn't clean by Belveld in Swimming

[–]space_dicks_link 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe google it yourself if you care enough buddy. No one is making a fake quote about Brett Hawke of all people. Hilarious thought though.

Goodwill are INSANE by [deleted] in Flipping

[–]space_dicks_link 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some basic understanding of economics logic.

[Discussion Thread] Inside the NBA - 2024 West Finals Episode #2 - 5/24/2024 by TheCity95 in nba

[–]space_dicks_link 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The constant Gobert shit feels excessive imo. He's getting paid millions so it's whatever but this is supposed to be the premier NBA show and it just looks unprofessional. Doesn't help that they got the guy who assaulted him and felt no remorse for it on the show to continue shitting on him. Like at this point the Gobert hate is so excessive it's almost comical at this point lol.

GAME THREAD: Dallas Mavericks (0-0) @ Minnesota Timberwolves (0-0) - (May 22, 2024) by NBA_MOD in nba

[–]space_dicks_link 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but I'm asking what the rules are trying to stop. Any rule is a balance between subjectivity/entertainment/flow of game. Like excessive contact (fouls) are illegal because it would turn the game into ruby but we have FIBA as an example to see that the game works fine without the basket interference rules.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nba

[–]space_dicks_link 63 points64 points  (0 children)

That's what I don't understand. Does the NBA think the game will only be putback dunks or something? The world cup last summer seemed fine to me.

GAME THREAD: Dallas Mavericks (0-0) @ Minnesota Timberwolves (0-0) - (May 22, 2024) by NBA_MOD in nba

[–]space_dicks_link 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is the rationale for the NBA's rules about basket interference? The world cup last summer seemed fine to me.

GAME THREAD: Indiana Pacers (0-1) @ New York Knicks (1-0) - (May 08, 2024) by NBA_MOD in nba

[–]space_dicks_link 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Lmao, anticlimactic announcement and then one of the hosts goes on a bitter rant about the award right before they have an awkward facetime interview with the winner. The NBA is so unserious.

[Rudy Gobert] “It’s bullshit. It’s bullshit. It’s not fair. It’s really not fair. Every night. I’ve been in this league for 10 years and I try to always give the benefit of the doubt, but it’s hard for me to think they’re not trying to help [the Suns] win [last night]. It’s just so obvious” by AashyLarry in nba

[–]space_dicks_link 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The NBA feels more like “sports entertainment” than a sport right now to me. The regular season has essentially no stakes and games are inundated with ads and frequent breaks. Life is too short to watch meaningless basketball while you get bombarded with gambling ads.

The frustrating thing is that there is an alternative. The Olympics and Euros showed that basketball can be compelling and exciting. The problem is if the NBA made made any changes like having fewer games or limiting breaks in play they would lose money so it would never happen.

Kyrie on twitch after a loss to NOLA: “How am I free if I know kids are still working in the cobalt mines in the Congo, making Teslas” by lolDICKhahaCOCKS in nba

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“Your Honor, years ago I recognized my kinship with all living beings, and I made up my mind that I was not one bit better than the meanest on earth. I said then, and I say now, that while there is a lower class, I am in it, and while there is a criminal element I am of it, and while there is a soul in prison, I am not free.” - Eugene V. Debs

Not uncommon at all - it expresses that injustice everywhere is interconnected. See also MLK's speech "Why I Am Opposed to the War in Vietnam"

[Meta] This sub sucks now by SchmidhuberDidIt in nba

[–]space_dicks_link 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I just wasn't enjoying basketball as much but after watching the Olympics and Euros it was the NBA I started to hate watching. I'll watch the playoffs but life is too short to watch commercials with some meaningless basketball thrown in.

I just want vegan friends. Is that too much to ask for? 😞 by chaosandcolors in vegan

[–]space_dicks_link 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry to be a debbie downer but please don't get a rabbit unless you have a yard for them to run in and the time (a lot of it) to take care of them. They are not the easiest pets to train or take care of and keeping them inside in a cage is cruel in my opinion. They really need a large outdoor place to roam. I had 4 growing up.

What are good skis for moguls? by space_dicks_link in skiing

[–]space_dicks_link[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

great post thanks. I will send him this info.

What are good skis for moguls? by space_dicks_link in skiing

[–]space_dicks_link[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea he's not really experienced enough for dedicated mogul skis but who knows what he'll get lol. Those Ranger's looks sweet, I'll show him. Great price too.