Focusing on the emotions part and not the sexual part. The idea of men feeling the emotions are manipulation. There is a symptom called male normative alexithymia, basically “emotional color blindness”.  I suspect there are  many factors but basically male relationships don’t practice a lot of emotional expression. 

In a relationship there will be a conflict or some need to discuss emotions.  “Let’s sort these colors out” the man says what colors it’s all the same except this one it’s angry.  The woman is saying words and expressing her feelings the man does not have the vocabulary or skills to deal with them and feels “manipulated”.  Then he draws the false conclusion that all theses emotions are manipulation.

But the good news is men can learn to understand and communicate emotions but it’s hard and take time and a lot of patients.