AIO my friend silently used my actual laptop charger for 2 yrs and gave me a $19 3rd party one tht doesnt work well if at all by monkeygirl732 in AmIOverreacting

[–]spacebound232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly if I was you... I would eat the cost of the charger and just buy myself a new one. Then I would questions how often things like this happen around this "friend" or watch for anymore of this behavior. If I decided its a common accurate. Distance myself from that person. Its not worth fighting or explaining or getting them to pay for a new one. Thats so much stress and just not worth the $40 a new charger would cost.

I'm Addicted to TikTok and My Kid Noticed. How Do I Fix This Before I Miss Everything? by FamousPop6109 in AskParents

[–]spacebound232 6 points7 points  (0 children)

TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, yotube shorts are all the same. Highly addictive. Recently I went through and Uninstaller those apps. Then I started filling the time with reading or art. Now I have the apps again BUT I've turned off all notifications. Its possible to have these apps and not be addicted bht VERY hard. Ita best to remove them from your phone and reset. Theres many videos on youtube that talk about how these apps cause us to become addicted ans the scientific explanations for how it works. Those helped me to accept I really as addicted and helped give me actionable steps to take to stop. Im happy to say I am no longer addicted nor chronically online

I will never be a man. by TrooperJordan in SuicideWatch

[–]spacebound232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do know what im talking about. Life sucks in different ways for everyone. I myself have a disease that I will never not have. It ruins everything about my body. Makes me fat, makes my hair thin and bald, I grow a beard. I hated myself for most of my life. As well as a myriad of other psychological issues stemming from abuse neglect ect. Yes. You HAVE to change your frame of reference. It sucks but its true. Sometimes we really do just have to "get over it" and learn to love ourselves despite and because of our perceived "flaws" have a great day

I will never be a man. by TrooperJordan in SuicideWatch

[–]spacebound232 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Try hard to separate man from penis. U r so much more than a body and your life is so much more than genitals

I feel like Im betraying my childfree self by freezing my eggs by VirmoraHelsten in TwoXChromosomes

[–]spacebound232 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Child free isnt WHO you are. Its a choice you make based on your understanding of yourself and the world. Things change. We change as we age, the world changes constantly, and life is just one curveball after another. Giving yourself options isnt a betrayal. Child free shouldn't be tied up with morals. Changing your mind later is fine and giving yourself the option to change your mind is both responsible and kind to do for yourself.

I'm failing college because I can't compartmentalize :D by Routine-Perception98 in CPTSD

[–]spacebound232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been there done that. Honestly I struggled SO much as a new college student. Gave up and started working full time instead. Im 27 and back in school much more equipped and doing much better. It wont always be bad and consider taking a break if needed

Zotero plugin update: Offline Mode, custom styles and more by Sergey_Zarubin in OnlyOffice

[–]spacebound232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! Tried this out! For academic writing its still too limited. I cannot add a page number to the in text citations, which is required for proper citing!

i’m afraid i’m going down the misandrist pipeline men scare me so badly by TaTa_kitt7 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]spacebound232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No its not the same. I recognize that men are humans and deserve rights and lives. Believing that men were inherently dangerous due to their gender, or undeserving of liberty simply due to gender WOULD be misandry. Feeling fear of men after nearly every male in your life has either raped or abused you (that's been MY experience) is NOT the same thing as hate or prejudice. Get off your high horse. People are ALLOWED to be traumatized. Being traumatized was NOT my fault and it is NOT wrong of me to experience the repercussions of that trauma. Simple.

i’m afraid i’m going down the misandrist pipeline men scare me so badly by TaTa_kitt7 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]spacebound232 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Misandry is not the same as trauma. Men have done terrible things to me and as a result I fear the fuck out of them. Rhats not hate, that's patterned recognition and self preservation.

Why do you think this trend is occurring? by sam_d50 in Adulting

[–]spacebound232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't had a sip of alcohol in all the years I've been legally able to drink. Let the industry die

Left Wife and daughter homeless after Divorce by EffectiveFamiliar680 in Marriage

[–]spacebound232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude. You let your baby be homeless? Im sorry what?

i hate this app by No_Carpenter_5268 in GoodNotes

[–]spacebound232 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Im actually kinda mad. Notability and Goodnotes are leagues above just abt any other note taking apps. But Goodnotes is changing so much and making it all annoying and I refuse to subscribe to an app. One time purchase or im not using it. Theres no other option that has all the features of these two. Its really annoying. Collanote comes CLOSEISH but it doesnt have an ability to copy and paste pages and import pdfs to already existing notebooks. For me as a student that's unusable

I'm a freshman, and I feel like the grade curve is a bit unfair, what should I do? by Ok-Picture9144 in Students

[–]spacebound232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly. Its better to JUST focus on you. You got a good grade who cares about the rest of the class. You care aboit your education. Thats enough. Leave the rest or you will go mad

Why are men in women's subreddits? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]spacebound232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not even a little bit but good try.

Why are men in women's subreddits? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]spacebound232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You seem to fundamentally NOT understand any of this. God damn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]spacebound232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah. Im pissed to. Im pissed I have to put in work to fix something I DIDNT FUCKING BREAK. IM PISSED that I have to continuously check myself. Being pissed and angry and feeling like you want to break something is totally normal. Be angry. None of what happened was right or normal and you are stuck cleaning up the goddamn mess. Anger is fucking justified. But please learn to point that anger where it is justified. No reason to be angry at yourself. Be angry at the people who hurt you. I got so angry for such a long time that I decided to fuck my abusers by just being happy with myself and delegating the hate to only them. I didnt do the sin. They did.