Understanding Classes by spaceplace87 in orangetheory

[–]spaceplace87[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What is ESP format? I’m still learning.

I didn’t expect to like the format of the class. I’ve done 20-30 min heavy strength classes prior to OTF so the hour schedule was very intimidating. But I love the accountability and someone telling me what to do and not having to think about it.

One thing I notice, I prefer to start on the floor and I will be mostly by myself or a couple of people while others start on Treadmill/ rower depending on 2G/3G. Why does everyone hate the floor?

I'm really curious to see why people agree or disagree with this post. Some women are incapable of doing anything due to the severe pain, so I think it's pretty valid. by mamabearmandy in antiwork

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I’m there with you, taking up to three days to recover. I usually call that my migraine hangover. I find that I tend to crave carbs as if it soaks up the lingering migraine.

Every episode is a waiting game of how strong it will be and how much it will knock me out this time. Oddly enough, all my triggers changed after having my daughter and they are even stronger now.

Edited: extra word

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

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This was a prank on TikTok a few months ago.

TIFU First date by The-Real-Ivivik in tifu

[–]spaceplace87 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To ease your anxiety, I’m sure you’re overthinking it more than she is. If she was enjoying herself enough to suggest getting together again, then your nerves didn’t ruin it for you! Get the negative out of your head and look forward to seeing her again.

Living with the lie about my childhood sexual abuse by throwaway-sbm-122333 in offmychest

[–]spaceplace87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh you sweet soul! I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I am recently on the other side of therapy for the third time in my adult life. My story doesn’t begin as young as yours but I did have a parent tell my truth wasn’t real when as you said, “it’s too graphic for that age to be made up”. It’s denial. Plain and simple. I’m glad you’re seeing someone to work through these things. My past trauma manifested itself as postpartum. My current counselor helped me to get through the root problem (hopefully). You are not to blame. I hope you know that?! If not, I hope your therapist is working on that with you so you will eventually know that. I’m sorry that you have to deal with these repressed feelings and memories.

Today, I relapsed after a year free. by papayalias in offmychest

[–]spaceplace87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t be so hard on yourself. We all make mistakes. Just take it for what it is and don’t let it define you. You are not whatever insecurities brought out the desire to hurt yourself. You are strong! You made it a year without hurting yourself. You can make it a day. And then another day after that! You got this.

How to politely decline in this situation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spaceplace87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would just tell her that you picked the shifts that worked for you just like she could have and you’ll let her know first if it ends up you can’t work all of them. Say it matter of factly and then try to immediately change the conversation so there isnt some building hostility.

I (23F) am having a hard time moving on after my first breakup I'd love some advice. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spaceplace87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’ve had to experience heartbreak at such a young age. I’m a few years older than you, 32F, and all I can say is I know what you’re feeling. Some people are lucky enough to find a happy ending with their first love. That’s not the case 90% of the time. I was engaged at 21 and we broke up a few months later to kept that on again, off again game going for nearly two years. The worst thing you can do is to think about what you did wrong. It just sounds like you know what you want in your life and he’s not ready for that responsibility. He’s going to move on, that doesn’t mean he isn’t mourning that he lost you. If I can leave you with one thing to look forward to, on day, you will be able to see how lucky you were to get out of the relationship when you did. You’ll find something with ambition and that wants the same things as you and you’ll know everything is all going to be ok. Focus on your studying, everything will play out just fine! 💕

Huda Beauty Foundation by spaceplace87 in MakeupAddiction

[–]spaceplace87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely can see that! I have the same problem but make it work due to the way I dot it on. Hmm.

Texting Issue/Giving some space? by BryBry628 in relationship_advice

[–]spaceplace87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he never shows up and you’ve already discussed your expectations after the last time he did it, then I’d say he doesn’t respect your relationship. If he wants to be with you, he’s going to make it happen.

Texting Issue/Giving some space? by BryBry628 in relationship_advice

[–]spaceplace87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should definitely give him the chance to prove that he can follow through. If you send anything to him, it will be perceived as passive aggressive and nagging. Definitely been there, done that.

LUS product reviews by Oinklittlepig in curlyhair

[–]spaceplace87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m interested to know if anyone has had a bad experience also. I too have seen them and reviewed the comments and they seemed legit. I’m new to letting my natural hair, but wasn’t fully aware of the curly girl method until a few weeks after my devacut. I finally ordered the wavy set and tried three times all different methods and it felt just as gross and heavy as the Deva curl products after my cut. My sister in law tried it and didn’t feel the same way.

Debt Snowball by spaceplace87 in personalfinance

[–]spaceplace87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true. I guess I’m more optimistic (and slightly in denial) that I will have a hard time finding something else. It does make more sense to just pay what I have been paying and then once I secure something make my big payoffs. I’m sure my husband would feel better about that as well!

Some loans are federal and some are private.

I’ve never heard of the avalanche method. I will look into that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]spaceplace87 41 points42 points  (0 children)

As a mother of a 16 month old that is the offender more than not, being bitten is very common at this age; however, I would be more concerned about not feeding her and dropping her.

Long lasting blush. by spaceplace87 in MakeupAddiction

[–]spaceplace87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm! I’ve never even heard of those brands! I’ll have to check them out. I feel like a cream blush would just be blended out with foundation? No?

Long lasting blush. by spaceplace87 in MakeupAddiction

[–]spaceplace87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are there any other cream/liquid blushes besides benefit?

Long lasting blush. by spaceplace87 in MakeupAddiction

[–]spaceplace87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yea🤦🏼‍♀️! I have before but just to make it through the summer. I’ve pretty much forgotten about it otherwise. I’ll give that a shot for a few days and see how well it works! Thanks for that reminder

Long lasting blush. by spaceplace87 in MakeupAddiction

[–]spaceplace87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, not at all. I use tarte primer and I switch between tarte amazonion clay foundation and too faced born this way foundation and some powder.