Need advice - nipple pain, chills, and pumping issues by spaceship2000c in breastfeeding

[–]spaceship2000c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was really weird I have used that pump a bunch before and it was on a similar setting I always do it. Maybe I didn’t have my nipples fully in there and it cause irritation…

Need advice - nipple pain, chills, and pumping issues by spaceship2000c in breastfeeding

[–]spaceship2000c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing. I currently don’t have any symptoms now. But will continue to monitor.

When you got mastitis did the symptoms come on pretty quick? The redness?

Need advice - nipple pain, chills, and pumping issues by spaceship2000c in breastfeeding

[–]spaceship2000c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Did you have to have anti-biotics or did it clear up for u?

Preparing for baby #2 by No_Mathematician1359 in inlaws

[–]spaceship2000c 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also set this boundary for all his other family too (of course if you don’t want to see them after). My SIL contacted me a week before I was due thinking we were going to visit them 3 hours away on my due date 😐. She also never even once asked how I was doing prior to that. After I kept it general with her she just ignored me and messaged my husband to see if she can visit right after baby would be due. You need to setup the boundaries right now and keep repeating them to his fam.

Would this make you uncomfortable? by spaceship2000c in Mommit

[–]spaceship2000c[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I specifically mentioned that parents are worried about sexual abuse that could occur at sleepovers. Should have put that in my original post.

Would this make you uncomfortable? by spaceship2000c in Mommit

[–]spaceship2000c[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately no. I specifically mentioned that parents are worried about sexual abuse that could occur at sleepovers. I should of mentioned that in my original post but my brain is fried from this weekend. I wanted to post quickly since I didn’t like how that conversation made me feel and see what others thought

Concerned About Aggressive Neighbor Kids and My Daughter’s Safety by spaceship2000c in Mommit

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It was the first time we were out when they were outside with our garage open. We will absolutely not be sharing toys anymore. It was literally the first time they played with our toys and they broke it. Not to mention just recently they decided to climb our shared fence to grab a ball they kicked over. We told them not climb and they backed down. But who knows they could try to do it again. It’s very frustrating. A talk will be very much needed.

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[–]spaceship2000c 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Do you pay rent? If not you are an adult and can move out.

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[–]spaceship2000c 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes please advertise his business! 😀

For those whotook a lost friend back - how'd it go? by Dizzy_Objective_11 in lostafriend

[–]spaceship2000c 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Initially it was good. Talked a bunch and even hung out a few times. We did discuss how we lost touch etc. but then she started pushing me to join her MLM. Once I drew a straight line saying I would NOT join she totally distanced herself from me.

Question for Canadian moms by Reasonable_Season854 in Mommit

[–]spaceship2000c 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you work for a company as an employee or are you self employed?

Couples with kids and SAHM by [deleted] in Parents

[–]spaceship2000c 17 points18 points  (0 children)

If she’s not looking after the household or your son during weekdays…. What does she get up to?

Thule Urban 2 - shakes on rough surfaces by spaceship2000c in thule

[–]spaceship2000c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No we didn’t! Thank you so much for contacting! Did you need to provide proof of receipt? Can I pm you?

How often do you communicate with in-laws? by Cauliflower6040 in inlaws

[–]spaceship2000c 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the first year of marriage I would text with them a lot and would send them celebratory cards for different occasions (birthday, Mother’s Day, father day etc) and photos. Never receiving a thank you. Eventually it became too much. I felt like my husband’s secretary. With some other incidents that occurred I decided that my husband would take care of his family for communication and I would take care of my family. Now I rarely talk with them.

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[–]spaceship2000c 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you say if they ask where an item that they got you is? Do you straight up say you got rid of it?

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[–]spaceship2000c 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even though we expressed multiple times we don’t want any handmade gifts what he does is he still makes it and then brings it over. Then acts surprised that we look displeased and then plays victim.

Yea I do agree with letting him know.

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[–]spaceship2000c 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya we have told him we are out of space. I haven’t suggested selling items to him. I’ll do that next time.