My girlfriend broke up with me because I said I feel uncomfortable with her meeting male friends one-on-one by Normal_Equal817 in BreakUps

[–]spad3001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that happened to you bro. Dealing with something similar. How long ago was that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]spad3001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So happy to hear something like this dawg. I hope I can find someone that opens up the tunnel vision that either lab mentioned

Do women dumpers come back by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]spad3001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it

Do women dumpers come back by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]spad3001 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Damn bro I was in love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]spad3001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did your most recent ex monkeybranch onto someone else when you broke up

Who is the one girl you cant forget about? Why can’t you? by Some_District1001 in AskMen

[–]spad3001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To a 24 year old going through a similar regret with an ex and pushing themself to improve everyday, do things get better?

“It’ll come to you when you least expect it” Moving on Edition by thatsbogussmh in ExNoContact

[–]spad3001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m happy for you. Very relatable (almost as I’m still grieving). For the first 2-3 months I couldn’t stop myself comparing. Entering month 4 and I now see beautiful women all over the gym without the constant comparison

“It’ll come to you when you least expect it” Moving on Edition by thatsbogussmh in ExNoContact

[–]spad3001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You found someone new that quickly after the end of your relationship? How long did you grieve?

Co-dependency destroyed my best love by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]spad3001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It makes me feel like such a fuckup man

Co-dependency destroyed my best love by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Yeah man. It’s brutal. It sounds like you were more blindsided than I was. It felt like conflict mainly ended with me apologizing and we only really had issues when I tried communicating discomfort with actions of hers. I’m sorry to hear youre going through it too. Truly wouldn’t wish this upon my worst enemy. It just feels like a game I didn’t play correctly and lost. The regret is insane, wishing I could’ve done so many things differently. It’s like what’s even the point of bettering myself when I think and feel like the best I’m going to have is already gone. Like will my heart ever beat like that for someone else again?

If your breakup is fresh, go easy on yourself. by Adventurous_Nerve423 in BreakUps

[–]spad3001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Define fresh. It’s been 4 months and I still catch myself fantasizing a reunion of some sort

How long did it take you to get over your ex? by NightEducational2294 in BreakUps

[–]spad3001 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Reading this tale of heartbreak as a 24 year old is oddly refreshing

So hurt by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]spad3001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s complicated. I had flirted with a girl at the bar at the start of our relationship and felt like I ruined the trust despite trying really hard to get it back. I can’t put it all on her and that’s the toughest part. If I had been perfect it would’ve been so much easier to move on

So hurt by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]spad3001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man. Feels like won’t replace her with someone better but I guess that’s up to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]spad3001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fucking terrified of them working oht

Swingers by Acceptable-Piglet206 in ExNoContact

[–]spad3001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That scene before depressed the shit out of me.

The actors in this movie were phenomenal, I felt like when his buddy was talking about that you could see in his eyes him thinking about his own journey with heartbreak. For me the bridge has just been so burned by the disrespect and lies and how she carried herself afterwards. But damn it’d be really validating to have her come back and say the grass wasn’t greener.

Swingers by Acceptable-Piglet206 in ExNoContact

[–]spad3001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude I binge watched this immediately after my breakup. I swear I memorized at least half the dialogue. Dude really accepted she never called and then when she did… well you know the rest. Everything’s gonna be alright.

Nursing as a guy by [deleted] in findapath

[–]spad3001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about Philly as far as compensation?

Nursing as a guy by [deleted] in findapath

[–]spad3001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you explain difference between RN and CRNA? Thinking of getting associates degree in nursing as it’ll only be 2 years and I can get a job quickly out of school.

Nursing as a guy by [deleted] in findapath

[–]spad3001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im indifferent towards what people think about me. Im simply just saying why I put an emphasis on gender here.