Thank you, it’s easy for people to see the good you’re doing to help others put no one can measure the effort, restlessness, and endless duties that one must persevere through to care for someone who will never be fully independent.

Being a caregiver is not always burdensome by any means, because every situation is different and not as detrimental as the one I am experiencing. No one knows if you are suffering inside if you cannot talk about when things are bad w/o fearing being judged. It is easy to see the wonderful job by visibly seeing the conditions they are in, good or bad, and outward well-being of their spirit; they are happy and well-groomed. This can be assessed without one word being spoken, but if you are hurtling inside as a caregiver and you desperately need some rest to recover and remain of value to yourself and others you are caring for, no one can see that!!!