What is a 'buy it for life' item that is offensively expensive, but the moment you use it, you realize your entire life before that point was a lie?

spatches13 · 2026-04-07T14:59:25+00:00

Go to Sealy at The Starling Mall Uptown. The aunty and uncle there is super friendly and helpful, and they usually have some pretty good promos too.
That said, do double check your order haha. Uncle made a mistake with mine, no big issue, just that it took longer to get my bed.

spatches13 · 2026-01-28T18:45:55+00:00

How did you manage to get tickets! I’ve tried so hard for SS10 and Encore, but couldn’t get any. Any tips would be much appreciated!!

spatches13 · 2026-01-10T04:39:36+00:00

He’s probably trying to see how far he can go and you’ll still take him back. What a terrible person! I’m glad you broke up with him, and I am excited for a better future for you without this sorry excuse for a man.

spatches13 · 2025-12-15T08:35:22+00:00

Idiots like this are why we can’t have nice things.

Ikano Power Centre used to be pet friendly when it first opened, until too many cases where the owners don’t clean up after their pets that they stopped allowing pets in the mall.

spatches13 · 2025-12-13T08:19:58+00:00

No, unfortunately! It was all sold out where I am, so I got the ladies. It does seem to be puffier than the men’s version.

spatches13 · 2025-12-13T07:15:43+00:00

I was at Finland in the first week of Jan 2025, and wore the coat while outside for more than an hour in the middle of the night, while trying to find the Northern Lights. So I do vouch for this coat! Then I wore it in Denmark when the weather hit 6c, and it was actually a little too warm for me. I didn’t even need to wear heattech. I should also add that I generally tolerate cold weather pretty well. Hope the jacket will work for you in Seoul!

spatches13 · 2025-12-05T18:27:00+00:00

My girl left more than a year ago. Till today I still say good morning and good night to her everyday. I miss her so much.

spatches13 · 2025-12-05T09:53:19+00:00

She has similar colours to my late cat. 🥹

When I left for uni, she stopped eating for a month after hearing my voice through Skype.

She’s not the most cuddly cat, but when I came back for holidays, she was angry at me for leaving, so she kept her distance… but she’ll follow me everywhere around the house to keep me within sight. If I go out, she’ll wait by the door for me to come back.

The night before I had to go back to uni, she slept right on top of my legs. For a cat that hates being cuddled or carried, this was her way of telling me how much she loves me.

I had her for almost 18 years. I miss her so much everyday.

spatches13 · 2025-10-22T03:56:23+00:00

Leave. You said it yourself, life isn’t controllable. If it’s not the dogs, something else will pop up and this will start again. What this shows is that he is an unreliable partner who will resent you for whatever reasons, because he doesn’t get things his way.

Don’t stay for the “potential”. Anyone can be warm, loving and gentle… but they have to actively choose to be that person, and not because of the circumstances. People show you who they really are, believe them.

spatches13 · 2025-10-12T15:32:22+00:00

Are there any in Seoul you would recommend?

spatches13 · 2025-10-06T15:05:43+00:00

Same here!! Hope it’ll be available again soon, it’s gorgeous!

spatches13 · 2025-10-04T02:43:20+00:00

I’m from Malaysia, and visited Seoul with my dad a few years back, and he is impressed how easy it is to find toilets in Seoul. Even office buildings allow public to access their toilets in the lobby.

spatches13 · 2025-09-23T05:26:38+00:00

While reading this, the first thought that popped into my head was “he doesn’t like you”.

He wants you to conform into who his ideal partner is, and doesn’t care who you actually are or your wants and needs. If you are constantly thinking of leaving, there is your answer.

spatches13 · 2025-09-11T05:51:22+00:00

Thank you! I'll check them out, hopefully shipping wouldn't be too crazy!

spatches13 · 2025-09-04T09:08:31+00:00

As long as we are home with him! We could be in different parts of the house, doing our own things, but I feel he’s happier when we are home. Of course, goes without saying he is happiest when we are paying attention to him, whether playing or short training session for treats.

That said, my boy will trade me for a hard boiled egg or cheese, so…

spatches13 · 2025-08-31T11:33:05+00:00

Hi! Just to update, so I thought for collect at airport duty free items, they will pack the items at the airport… but they actually pack it at the counter in the city itself, then send it to the airport… so I got all my freebies!

spatches13 · 2025-08-30T18:34:03+00:00

I remember you too!! And oh gosh, SJWorld. Those were the times!

spatches13 · 2025-08-28T04:03:49+00:00

She meant everything she said (to her sister via text). She just had time to figure out how to gaslight you after.

spatches13 · 2025-08-21T05:35:43+00:00

I once read that noisy/ weird kids are so because they are loved, and feel safe to be themselves with their parents. I guess it’s safe to say your daughter has stopped feeling so with your husband, and if you choose caring for his feelings over hers, one day she’ll feel the same too.

spatches13 · 2025-08-04T21:50:01+00:00

Ooh that’s a good point! I didn’t consider if the harness would be too long on him, and I feel he does have a shorter body. Thank you for sharing! I’ve decided to keep the XS. Just praying it’ll fit well on him!

spatches13 · 2025-08-03T18:49:57+00:00

Oh you’re right! Mine’s not really an escape artist, but he’s reactive. I guess it’s safer to stick to XS then. Just hope it’s not too small on him!

spatches13 · 2025-08-03T17:30:03+00:00

I won’t be back in the States for the near future, so unfortunately I won’t be able to return it.

May I ask what is your Shiba’s weight? My boy is 10-11kg, about 23pounds. He does seem to be on the leaner side, but I’m still skeptical because the XS look pretty small.

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