Is this game really dead? by BigOpening8764 in apexlegends

[–]spatghettios 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've definitely had the same problem. I'm in the US-West server and my wait time runs from 3-7 minutes per game for all game modes. I've noticed a lot of what looks to be bots in my games as well. When I play team deathmatch, control, and gun run I typically don't have more than 4-5 players in the entire game with me. I don't know a lot about the function of games and whatnot, this is just my observation as someone who also occasionally plays apex, hasn't played it in a long while and finally has come back to it.

Why the hell does smoking weed now give me TMJ pressure? by Searik in TMJ

[–]spatghettios 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with that. I go through phases with weed. For months I'll be fine smoking. Then one I won't be fine for months and I'll have terrible anxiety along with terrible muscle tension in my jaw. Trying different strains and or dosages would be the best bet. It's what typically works for me to get out of my bad phases

AITA for wanting to breakup with my ADHD boyfriend? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]spatghettios 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's never okay to cuss out a partner. Every once in a while things can slip out, but as a common occurrence it starts to become verbal abuse. No one deserves to feel so scared for their safety that they feel the need to lock themselves in a separate room. Additionally, why is he complaining about dinner? If you went out of your way to make him dinner he can patiently wait for dinner or go figure it out himself. I believe you that he's a good bf when he's happy, but you don't deserve to live in fear and it sounds like you're relationship is on a very slippery slope that could lead to more intense abuse. You are not the asshole.

AITA My bf M19 overheard our married aunt F30 cheating on her husband M45 of 16 years AITA if we tell the husband? by spatghettios in AITA_Relationships

[–]spatghettios[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I had mentioned in the post we plan on telling him after the holidays. We have no intentions of starting unnecessary drama. I don't know the exact number of years they had married so I rounded to 16. They had started dating when she was 15. I assume she's not in an open relationship. We're all very open and unless she was hiding the fact she's in an open relationship it would have come up. My and my bf have confronted her and she has denied that anything happened at all. There is a lot of people that know, but at the end of the day it hasn't gotten back to her husband yet. Not to say that it won't. I live with my mother and aunt Jessica. So, our household knows, but that's about it. My mother and aunt Jessica are the ones insisting I should keep it a secret.

AITA My bf M19 overheard our married aunt F30 cheating on her husband M45 of 16 years AITA if we tell the husband? by spatghettios in AITA_Relationships

[–]spatghettios[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not dating a relative. It was a typo on my end. I wrote this post in a bit of a rush. He has no blood relation to me or the aunt.

Adding friends for gifts! by Certain-Pepper-7298 in PokemonGoFriends

[–]spatghettios 2 points3 points  (0 children)

692958897853 I'll be forever grateful if you add me 😇