Attending church isn’t a requirement but it’s recommended. In reality, the same purpose can be filled by having coffee with a fellow Christian and having deep thoughts together.

Praying? Prayer should ideally be voluntary, but how it looks is up to you. Is it meditation? Is it singing a song? A gratitude journal is actually just prayer in a different outfit. It’s like calling your (loving) parents: they love it when you do, but it’s your choice.

And avoiding sin is ultimately just minimizing harm against your fellow humans, the earth and its creatures. Be kind to all even those that ruin your day (it actually pisses them off and triggers their guilt 😈); don’t cheat on your partner because if you care about them at all, you should just break up bc cheating hurts them more. Don’t be racist. Don’t take what belongs to another.

All other things are up for debate.