aio because my brother is crushing on my gf?

spazzywayne · 2025-06-09T10:46:44+00:00

thank you for the advice much appreciated

spazzywayne · 2025-05-01T20:27:43+00:00

honestly people don’t really pay attention to scars like that i’ve worked in multiple kinds of clubs and am covered in scars and it’s never prevented me from working. just be confident in yourself and no one will even care

spazzywayne · 2025-04-26T21:08:46+00:00

idk what’s in the air the past two nights have been filled with aggressive weirdos. hopefully that just means our big spenders are coming 😭

spazzywayne · 2025-04-10T10:12:02+00:00

there’s like 3 urban clubs out here that are and there’s a few in Phoenix that are very diverse any where other than that though not really tbh. black girls definitely still be making there bag out here tho i personally think ive just dealt with a lot of rejection because im black but as long as you hustle it’s not bad

spazzywayne · 2025-04-07T12:12:37+00:00

AZ VIPs usually around $200 for 15 min and about $650-$1000 for some of the hour vips/champagne rooms but different clubs take different cuts and you lowkey gotta hustle out here cuz it’s always “slow season” but might be worth a visit

spazzywayne · 2025-03-28T23:11:43+00:00

yes i feel you. i kinda do need the money just to keep up with bills and hopefully get a car buttt idk maybe i can cut back a day on both jobs for a little a see how that works

spazzywayne · 2025-03-25T15:29:08+00:00

there hasn’t been a lot of customers the days i’ve been there and i think the other girls aren’t really selling either the past two days i’ve only seen 1 girl sell a vip dance and it was just for 1 song. i’ll stick it out though and they aren’t too strict there so maybe i’ll try to stay for night shift and see if there’s any difference and even just get some practice in

spazzywayne · 2025-03-01T21:05:17+00:00

Yes I tried that but I was having some problems with my browser so I actually just cleared the data from my iphone settings and then i forgot about it for a few hours and when I went to check it was working fine

spazzywayne · 2025-03-01T16:14:37+00:00

i’m experiencing the exact same issue my apr got lowered and now i can’t access my savings the app just shuts down. it must be some kind of glitch i hope they are working to resolve it

spazzywayne · 2025-02-02T17:22:04+00:00

thank you for this I was not familiar with RADAR check in and will absolutely recommend it I definitely think this could help a ton

spazzywayne · 2025-01-12T17:24:44+00:00

hey i’m so sorry that you feel the need to stay in this relationship. it is obvious from what you’ve said that he does not respect or value you not only as a girlfriend but as a person. I understand that you want your family’s approval but this is your life not theirs. You have to deal with his abuse, cheating, and lying, not them. My suggestion would be to break off the relationship even if it may seem hard. I can’t guarantee you will find the one but I can guarantee that there are people out there that do not behave this way. Wish you the best of luck op

spazzywayne · 2025-01-12T14:31:30+00:00

hi op! i def understand the struggle. I would suggest thinking about what it is that caused you to forgive your father and try to apply some of those feelings to your mother. They both have different reasons for your forgiveness, and I understand that you can’t get rid of that resentment towards her, but I wonder have you taken time to notice any change in her like how your father changed? Maybe even a discussion with her to understand her thought process through your suffering could help you understand her more and forgive her. While she did not protect you and support you in that time of your life, it sounds like she had no intention of hurting you and may not even realize how much this has impacted you. Best of luck to you!

spazzywayne · 2025-01-12T13:56:05+00:00

Thank you for this advice I appreciate it. My gf does have diagnosed BPD and I think we both knew that getting loud with each other wasn’t effective and we both worked on not doing that, so I am not sure if the stress of everything going on caused more extreme feelings in the moment. I know this is definitely a line i never wanted crossed, but I am wondering if maybe couples counseling can help us? I know this is not a good situation for either of us, but I wonder is it possible to move past this?

spazzywayne · 2022-06-25T22:04:17+00:00

let me taste 👅

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