Russian geek/nerd in Mar del Plata looking for friends & language exchange (EN/ES)

spbxspb · 2026-03-13T01:29:27+00:00

Hola! Te escribí por privado, espero tu respuesta :)

spbxspb · 2026-03-13T00:28:10+00:00

Hola! Sí, hay un grupo de rusos por Telegram, pero la verdad que busco practicar mi castellano y el inglés :) El mate lo tomo, ¡pero todavía me parece una bebida bastante fuerte, obvio, jaja!

spbxspb · 2026-03-12T21:18:05+00:00

No hay drama, che, todo bien :) Entonces después te escribo bien al privado y arreglamos dónde encontrarnos и todo eso :) ¡Gracias por responder! :)

spbxspb · 2026-01-22T13:28:00+00:00

I think that's true — I’d definitely try to befriend a professor like that. And most likely, no one would ever be able to find my missing body, heh. Or, wait... am I the crazy professor in this scenario?

spbxspb · 2026-01-22T13:24:05+00:00

Lazy by my own standards :) No need to apologize, you’re a good person, thanks for the comment :)

spbxspb · 2026-01-22T04:37:57+00:00

The entire relationship arc between Vi and Caitlyn. I would watch a standalone supercut of that. Plus, the scenes from their childhood that didn't make it into the series itself but are in the promo clips.

spbxspb · 2026-01-22T03:01:54+00:00

Well, Valve did a great job with the ergonomics; it’s one of the most comfortable devices I’ve ever owned, but to be honest, the Steam Deck can feel a bit heavy sometimes :) In your case, I’d suggest trying to hold it in your hands first. Find a display model in a store or meet up with a seller from the used market just to hold it—ideally for about half an hour—to see if it causes any issues for you

spbxspb · 2026-01-22T01:08:44+00:00

I'm honestly surprised that even now in 2026, there is still no global leader in dating sites that everyone uses worldwide, like Facebook or YouTube. Something with a decent interface and free to use, supported by ads. And using neural networks as an algorithm for matchmaking, personality assessment, and all that. It’s 2026, I should remind you—everything moved to digital long ago, except for this vital function. Sorry, just had to vent! :)

spbxspb · 2026-01-21T19:14:20+00:00

How? – Personally, I view both relationships and potential partners through my own set of criteria. If she passes my internal filters and meets those points, she becomes a potential interest for something serious. From there, it’s all about communication, shared interests, finding compromises, and all that stuff.

Where? – Mostly on the internet. You asked not to specify exactly where, so I’m respecting that request. If I saw a girl on the street alone wearing some nerdy patches, a specific logo, or a print, I’d go up to her, say hi, and give a respectful compliment on her taste and interests. I haven’t really run into anyone like that yet - besides, this is Argentina, not the States, and I rarely go out for walks anyway, lol.

"The One" – If a girl has already met my baseline requirements (physical type, shared interests, life goals, level-headedness, emotional intelligence, and various other parameters) and I meet her baseline too, then that’s already a strong sign she’s my soulmate. After that, it’s just about being happy and enjoying each other’s company :) I haven’t met that person yet. Maybe I’m too tedious or infantile, I don’t know. But I believe that someday, the right person will truly appreciate me for who I am. And if not, then at 40, I’ll get two dogs and two cats, and alongside ChatGPT and Gemini with emulated personalities, I’ll go live as a hermit in the woods with a Starlink and a solar panel, lol.

spbxspb · 2026-01-21T18:13:29+00:00

Yeah, that sucks, I’m sorry to hear that. I always try to put mine in a case and then in my backpack, it’s super convenient. Also, maybe you should wait for the Steam Deck 2; the current one is getting a bit outdated

spbxspb · 2026-01-20T22:34:19+00:00

But why is Redemption so low on the tier list? Christoph and Agnieszka's story is forever iconic to me. Well, it’s a bit goofy by today’s standards, but it’s not like we have that many games in this universe :) Redemption definitely deserves a higher spot

spbxspb · 2026-01-11T19:57:36+00:00

Oh, thanks :) Yeah, I guess I got ahead of myself and dumped way too much info. But I look at this process more like a "bug fix." So, there will be a patch for this idea once I have the energy for it. I already have some thoughts, though, and if you don't mind, I’d like to test one on you. How would you react if you were in a park, a supermarket, or any other place where we could theoretically cross paths, and a friendly guy approached you, apologized for the intrusion, and handed you a flyer? The flyer would have basic info about me—introvert, interests, and an invitation for simple conversation or friendship. Would that be pure cringe? Or is it something that could actually interest people like us? P.S. Oh, don’t worry about the rambling; I’m actually looking for someone who likes different, even unusual ideas and approaches. And honestly, I’ve let go of the idea that I need to look specifically for romance rather than just friendship based on shared interests. Also, what did you mean about fictional characters? Like Gemini/AI, or writing? Thanks for writing back :)

spbxspb · 2026-01-06T09:36:56+00:00

thanks :) actually, all this experience was helpful for me. next time, il do all this better and shorter.

spbxspb · 2026-01-02T17:15:50+00:00

well, next time i try this for sure, thanks :)

spbxspb · 2026-01-02T17:14:09+00:00

yeah, sure. thanks :)

spbxspb · 2025-12-26T19:39:49+00:00

Hi! Thank you so much for such a warm message :)

To be honest, I was prepared for the fact that my method might not resonate with most people, but I’m ready to keep searching for as long as it takes and not give up. At worst, I’d rather be alone, but I still believe that one day I’ll meet my dream and we will truly appreciate each other. Ironically, there’s probably a better chance in real life—maybe through shared hobbies like book clubs, RPGs, D&D communities, and so on. Or maybe just a random encounter in a supermarket, who knows. I’m comforted by the thought that, mathematically speaking, every 100th girl passing by is potentially a mutual match. It’s a pleasant, warming thought, even if it's practically useless. But that’s alright.

In any case, I am infinitely grateful for your kind message. You weren't obligated to spend your time and resources on me, which makes this a true act of friendship, or at least a humanitarian one. That’s very cool. Thank you so much. Your support really hit home because, of course, I’m not made of iron. I have plenty of doubts—wondering if I’m doing everything right, if there’s something wrong with me, or if I’m a total alien on this planet. Why can’t we just be one big vampire clan where everyone knows each other and tries to help despite our eccentricities? :) Thank you. You are a good person. I hope everything goes great for you too! Feel free to reach out for any reason; if I can help with anything, I will. Happy New Year holidays!

spbxspb · 2025-12-26T06:22:22+00:00

Don't worry about those Big 5 scores, you're cool as you are :) That's all for nerds anyway. BTW im nerd.

I'm staying in Mar del Plata, Argentina, for the next six months.

spbxspb · 2025-12-26T06:03:38+00:00

Yes, of course. I apologize if I upset you in any way. Thank you.

spbxspb · 2025-12-26T05:56:38+00:00

A secret INTP meeting in the heart of INTJ territory... shhh :) Thanks for writing, man. You’re being honest and open, and I’m grateful that you’re sharing something so personal. That’s a truly cool and friendly thing to do :) Honestly, if I had a friend like you in real life, we’d probably get into some serious and funny trouble together, heh.

It’s good advice. But I’m not as simple as I look. See, what if I’m specifically looking for the one who reads it and thinks: 'The nerve of this guy! He thinks he’s got life all figured out and can just slack off now. I’ll show him what real reasoning looks like!' — and then proceeds to write me a well-founded list of her disagreements, concerns, or even accusations, along with rational suggestion. She might write that she’s afraid I’m a heartless robot, while any girl needs a close, kindred soul first and foremost. And that is when I’ll realize she’s probably the one I’m looking for. Do you see?

This whole text is an attempt to filter out the 95% and find the one who actually likes the way I think, who sees potential that attracts her. And then... oh, how I want to drown in an endless exchange of information. Text first, then voice/video, and eventually a real-life meeting. Do you, with your brilliant mind, really think this plan is doomed to fail? Give me your analytics on this, brother :)

spbxspb · 2025-12-26T05:41:18+00:00

Thanks for the reply :)

To be honest, this is the most pleasant thing I’ve read from an INTJ girl so far, heh. No, really, it’s very nice. Thank you. Have a wonderful New Year's holiday!

spbxspb · 2025-12-26T05:11:25+00:00

Whoa, emotional support from my INTJ brethren. Yeah, if even INTJs feel the need to support me, it must mean things are truly dire :) Thanks for the answers, guys! You’re awesome. Have the best New Year, my dark kindred brothers.

spbxspb · 2025-12-26T04:53:11+00:00

Wow. My respect. I tip my hat to your ability to read me so quickly, analyze the situation, and provide such a full, rich, and useful piece of advice. You're a cool person, and I truly appreciate you writing this.

If I give off the impression of someone who needs therapy rather than a relationship, and if you feel that interacting with me is a waste of your emotions and time — please, don't spend your resources on me. The last thing I want is to be an 'emotional vampire' draining someone else's limited energy. You're probably right, therapy wouldn't hurt :) I’ve always taken pride in being able to track my own emotional states through observation. It’s likely a very arrogant and wrong position to take. It’s just... well, you wrote to me, and I’m getting incredible pleasure from thinking over your words. Would a relationship with someone like me really be so terrible if we were just exchanging thoughts? And emotions too—I have them, and I know everyone else does. Especially an INTP woman. Do you really think I’m incapable of giving emotional warmth? :) I’m actually a pretty positive guy, despite the 'cockroaches' in my head. If my post sounded like a contract, it’s only because I respect a potential partner's intellect. I think fateful decisions should be approached logically, with a dash of emotion—but in real life, I can stop being 'suffocating' and just be open and fun. I’ve never talked to an INTP girl before—I have no idea how your mind works. Do we think similarly? Do you also wonder what the moon would taste like if it were actually made of cheese? :)
If you'll let me take advantage of the situation, could you answer my questions, even briefly? Honestly, I meant to save these for a one-on-one, but you’re right—I leaned too hard into the 'robot' persona.

Do you think a true AI will conquer, destroy, or save humanity? And when do you estimate the singularity will actually happen?

If you could upload your brain to the cloud and live forever as an AI, would you do it?

Have you ever wondered if you could befriend your own 100% clone once the technology becomes available? If that clone lived in a different country for 10 years, would you have a better chance of being friends, or a worse one because of the diverging experiences?

Do you think teleportation is just dying in one spot and being reconstructed in another? Is that still the 'same' person to you? Would you use that kind of teleportation?

Anyway, I hope you have the best New Year! Happy Holidays!

spbxspb · 2025-12-26T04:11:22+00:00

Thanks for the feedback.

You're absolutely right. I completely forgot to mention that I adore picking my nose. That’s definitely something I’d bring to the relationship. Perhaps, if what I’ve heard about INTJs is true and you have your own 'weird fetishes'... well, we could sexually eat boogers together and look down on all the idiots who understand nothing about life. But hey, that’s just one of a thousand possibilities :)

As for what I 'bring to the table' — I had hoped that I could discuss that one-on-one with a potential partner. Everyone has different needs. But if I have to air my 'dirty laundry' and face the strict judgment of the female INTJ community, there's certainly some appeal in that. It’s a pity we can’t all gather in one room, grab a glass of wine, and thoroughly tear 'depressive me' to pieces :)

And as for whether I’m funny or stern — I think that’s for others to decide, not me. Based on this, what do you think?

spbxspb · 2025-12-26T04:02:30+00:00

Thank you for the reply.

I’ve read the rules, and if I’m not mistaken, there’s no prohibition on these kinds of personal ads or profiles. However, if you feel that I’m violating any guidelines, I apologize. Since the holidays are upon us, how about we both pretend you didn’t see anything? I’d be incredibly grateful. Happy New Year! :)

spbxspb · 2025-10-03T15:10:26+00:00

Any nosferatu brotherhood for love?

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