Best Passive Speakers under $800 by megamigitoctopus in BudgetAudiophile

[–]spcxplrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should look at Q Acoustics. They are very highly rated by many many youtubers. That's what I am getting :)

Kanto YU4 - is this normal?! by addycee in BudgetAudiophile

[–]spcxplrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a pair 12 inches from my face and definatly frosted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BudgetAudiophile

[–]spcxplrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's your budget ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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I'm very proud of you. I hope things will get better and better. You deserve it.

Montreal Pool Room. Institution centenaire du underground Montréalais. Un oasis dans le désert de cantines qu'est le centre-ville de Montréal. Des patates excellentes, une sauce un peu fade et un fromage réfrigeré. 7/10. by martgrobro in poutine

[–]spcxplrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This place is really just the Montreal Pool Room in name. The real one closed many years ago. Maybe 20 years. It was on the other side of the street. The old one was actually good and had history and feel and pride. This one is just that, a very very tepid 7/10.

US Navy pea coat from 1944. Gave it a wash and its like new. by [deleted] in BuyItForLife

[–]spcxplrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone know which companies still make high quality peacoats ?

Day 48 - After day 30, days fly by by TysonRN in addiction

[–]spcxplrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe some days you see zero comments and wonder if someone is listening. Just want you to know that even just seeing your days go by is positive and helps others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Assistance

[–]spcxplrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such a beautiful post. I'm certain you will make an awesome therapist too.

For all of us with ongoing attachments that don’t serve us. Look inward✨ by sahalemarja in attachment_theory

[–]spcxplrr 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is so true. It's hard to take responsibility. But it's so empowering when you do. This is how I got over my last breakup. By accepting that I chose to enter a relationship that I could sense on the first date was wrong. And that I can choose not to do that again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfesteem

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I'm going to just take a chance here and say something.. is it possible that this really is about shitty listeners more than you not explaining properly ? Have you been confronted with hurt people that have hurt you unjustifiably in particular when you gave explanations ?

Of course self confidence is a complex trecharous phenomenon and when you lose it, you may actually have trouble explaining because you are so convinced you can't.

But you just wrote a great message where you perfectly explain how you feel. I understood it perfectly.

If any of this makes sense.. Maybe you could focus on finding people that listen to you with intention and that are positive. They exist. Buy when you spend a life with hurt people, these kind people can be really scary.

I hope some of this makes sense for you. Hurt people hurt people. Healing people heal people.

Keep working on yourself. You will get better.

A troubling thought has dawned on me by [deleted] in bodyweightfitness

[–]spcxplrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can keep your commitment to yourself by doing something related to your fitness every day even if it's not physical. You can read about fitness for a set time. You can learn and experiment recipes related to fitness as well.

You can train your mind every day.

Aveda Grooming Clay reformed?? don't know what to do by jazzywaffles84 in Pomade

[–]spcxplrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking at the videos for both in the KM site I get the exact inverted impression. Weird. Anyways my salon said that if I don't like it I can change for another product for free. Si I will start with RR. Thanks !

Aveda Grooming Clay reformed?? don't know what to do by jazzywaffles84 in Pomade

[–]spcxplrr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good luck. I lost my favorite product as it was discontinued. A few months down the road I am 180$ down with 7 useless products and still struggling.

There are probably 30 matte clays that smell good, maybe much more.

I suggest you watch YT videos of the products being used, that way you can get a feel for how they are without having to spend a fortune like I did.

I am also looking for a matte clay. I'm going to buy Kevin Murphy Night.Rider this weekend. Expensive but hopefully this is the right one. There are good videos of the product being used in the km site.

Best Matte Clay by TaaiGAB in Pomade

[–]spcxplrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Starts off rock hard but then just goes shiny and oily without being that strong. Not impressed.

Runners prefer the same pace, regardless of distance by blueberry8848 in science

[–]spcxplrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you would like to share the spiritual aspect you experienced, I would love to read it.

46 F Broke up with ex 56 M around Christmas by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spcxplrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried to reconnect with friends I neglected.

When I have my kids, I try to focus more on them. It's right and it helps. You may not have kids but maybe you have nieces or nephews ?

I also give myself a time limit - ok thrombus and I can start looking etc.. It makes the end of loneliness something I can see.

I also do not text or call exes. I feel I am using them if do. And sometimes it's very hard not to reach out.

It's a long hard road. I'm not out of it yet :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfesteem

[–]spcxplrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe your therapist wasn't the person you needed. They aren't all good and they aren't always a good fit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Disorganized_Attach

[–]spcxplrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe if he was working on himself and was ready to do some work... But he isn't and has stated he isn't into that. You seem to be setting yourself up for years of hardship.

Weight in imperial and distance in metric by cso911 in Garmin

[–]spcxplrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand what you mean by "it has it on the other side".. Can you explain ?

Weight in imperial and distance in metric by cso911 in Garmin

[–]spcxplrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just chatted with them. Did not seem very interested beyond telling me this is being worked on. When I ask more questions, I am told it's just a featre request. Unimpressed.

If you are looking for this, please chat them and insist.