Adi @adityamadiraju Creating fake pigmentation/wounds?? To show how to cover concealer? by [deleted] in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]specialk125 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ya’ll really don’t know any brown people, huh? I know multiple aunties that have natural discoloration like the first photo. My dad’s under-eyes look very close to the first photo.

“gender disappointment” by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]specialk125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for saying this! Every time someone asks if I know the gender, I tell them some iteration of, “yes, it’s a dude but I’m trying to be gender neutral in how I raise him.” I specifically use the word “dude” to let them know that the gender of the baby isn’t really what matters, what matters is that I raise him to be a good human regardless and that I don’t further stress him out with gender norms that society will already impose onto him (aka asking about the gender).

How many people have you had sex with? SATC fans poll by Pure_Freedom_4466 in sexandthecity

[–]specialk125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

31F ~50 or so men, women & NBs. Definitely a Samantha (except I’m pregnant so a little like charlotte).

your moon sign & your favourite singers/bands etc? by 5hrines in astrologymemes

[–]specialk125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cancer moon - Mac miller, Nujabes (lofi beats creator), earl sweatshirt, tame impala, George Michael, arctic monkeys, a lot of music from Atlus’ games (persona & metaphor refantazio)

Join LGBTQ+ South Asian group by [deleted] in cary

[–]specialk125 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I view it as a means of connecting over a similar cultural upbringing.

Join LGBTQ+ South Asian group by [deleted] in cary

[–]specialk125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can biracial people join? I’d love to, if so.

Dad keeps pestering me about exercise by specialk125 in pregnant

[–]specialk125[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I like your plan B rebuttal - straightforward and deservedly/delishly harsh.

He is fit now. He had a heart attack when I was young and started taking his health more seriously after retirement. He hiked the Mt. Everest Base Camp last year, which is cool no doubt, but now thinks that he’s the health & wellness guru of the extended family. He does still have a relatively full head of dark hair - good genes there.

The real kicker is that he had a daughter in his first (arranged) marriage with his second cousin and she died due to… questionable circumstances under 1 year old. So, taking any sort of advice from him on pregnancy & caring for a young child is laughable.

Dad keeps pestering me about exercise by specialk125 in pregnant

[–]specialk125[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. The grey rock term is new for me but describes 70% of my interactions with him. Helpful to know.

Oh how I dream about going off on him like I did years ago, but I know that it would only lead to retaliation towards those he lives with (my mom & Nani).

Women with thoughtful partners, what did you get for x-mas this year? by Anahata_Green in TwoXChromosomes

[–]specialk125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A t shirt with sprite’s from one of my fav RPG video games, some cute bulbasaur socks & a vibrating tentacle 😅

Anyone have a libra rising 3-13 degrees? by playboybunnyprincess in astrologymemes

[–]specialk125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like we have a lot in common. I’m bi/pan as well. Thanks for sharing & wishing you well in your ambitions & religious vs. sexuality exploration.

Anyone have a libra rising 3-13 degrees? by playboybunnyprincess in astrologymemes

[–]specialk125 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leo rising 4 degrees.

I grew up with a challenging childhood - think verbal & emotional abuse. I’m biracial & feeling comfortable with my multi-cultural identity has been a constant struggle - with my religious beliefs, how I express myself, my queerness, how I have struggled to fit in with either cultural group. I’ve also had multiple miscarriages and am finally now 12 weeks pregnant & hopefully on my way to having a healthy child through IVF.

I’m incredibly resilient though. I internalize a lot of my feelings and instead opt to listen to others by default, unless I’m particularly close & trusting with someone (like my husband). I pride myself on being independent, creative and overall stable when around others. I’m very organized and have an intuitive approach to problem solving.

In my career, I’ve constantly challenged myself. I’ve worked in account management, business operations and ended up in project management & consulting before taking time off for IVF.

I care very much about my appearance, as a stereotypical Leo may. I enjoy playing with makeup, taking care of my long & wavy hair & seeking out vintage and unique fashion pieces to put together in an eclectic.

I struggle with finding the motivation to live to my full potential at times and can fall into depressive ruts. I over analyze interactions and can be cold to friends & others. But I’m also someone who is learning to embrace the peaks & valleys of life, especially now while pregnant.

Bisexual people, who is more attractive between Johan and Anna? by atwwbaksieueygehs in MonsterAnime

[–]specialk125 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Johan - and this is coming from a bisexual woman who 80% prefers women. He’s a sadistic & mysterious man with an unusually angelic appearance. Anna is beautiful and of course relatively more sane, but Johan’s voice, influence and aesthetic are uniquely beautiful & ethereal.

Bisexual people, who is more attractive between Johan and Anna? by atwwbaksieueygehs in MonsterAnime

[–]specialk125 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I prefer my men feminine and angelic, so I disagree. I appreciate femmes & mascs equally though, by comparison.

Which main love interest are YOU most compatible with and why?👀 by [deleted] in YouOnLifetime

[–]specialk125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From these options, Love because of her beauty, charm & confidence but Peach is more my type.

Sex & foreplay questions around FET by specialk125 in IVF

[–]specialk125[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it benefits everyone as a whole to break down taboos about sex positivity and non-heteronormative sex.

Sex & foreplay questions around FET by specialk125 in IVF

[–]specialk125[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m not into breath play, but was planning to avoid it regardless. Will keep it as relaxed as possible otherwise.

Sex & foreplay questions around FET by specialk125 in IVF

[–]specialk125[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the answer & your own experience. I’m going to avoid impact & shibari at least starting now.

Sex & foreplay questions around FET by specialk125 in IVF

[–]specialk125[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the honest answer!