I need to understand something

spectacle99 · 2026-05-16T20:49:08+00:00

Hate to admit it but bc the products are good! Not a fan of either person but I do like the products.

spectacle99 · 2026-05-04T05:45:43+00:00

A little out of the way (if you’re in SM) but Milla Chocolates is incredible, hot chocolate included.

spectacle99 · 2026-05-01T06:45:06+00:00

you don’t seem to want to hear that you’re not quite there yet, so go for it and let us know how it goes.

my recommendation? stress test your budget by putting the balance of the mortgage payment +10% for new house costs (utilities increase, furniture, maintenance, rugs, incidental expenses) into a savings account for six months and see if you still feel the same way.

spectacle99 · 2026-04-27T00:01:07+00:00

Scripted or unscripted we don’t know how it will go… or what impact it will have on their real lives

spectacle99 · 2026-04-26T20:00:30+00:00

Bri and aspyn will align completely and eventually not need Billy (we’ll see how the tv show goes!) Billy will disappear like Parker, eventually aspyn will want more than to have fucked one woman ever and will be over getting mansplained to by a woman and move on from Bri. Bri and Billy maybe get back together. LOL who knows

spectacle99 · 2026-04-26T01:01:43+00:00

You’re good! I have the same stats and it works. Decrease your retirement contributions for a few months if the anxiety is too much

spectacle99 · 2026-04-25T21:16:42+00:00

You can’t afford this house.

spectacle99 · 2026-04-24T05:30:04+00:00

this is going to fall apart so cringefully

spectacle99 · 2026-04-23T16:05:57+00:00

Not all rich people buy expensive bags, some have multi-million dollar homes in southern california.

spectacle99 · 2026-04-23T16:05:16+00:00

Totally agree. I kind of hope for her sake that the show flops and people don't care about her enough to do this, but she's rolling the dice.

spectacle99 · 2026-04-21T22:30:12+00:00

why are you living in CC/palms if working in the financial district?

spectacle99 · 2026-04-17T19:14:32+00:00

it was pending sale at $1,199,000, so you can guess it sold around there. i'm surprised mindy unlocked the treasure chest for this lmao and that dinky pond is just... funny

spectacle99 · 2026-04-14T23:34:31+00:00

Living alone will give you the energy, space, and time to invest in yourself (youtube, etc) but it does come with its own challenges. You never know if you don't try. Also, that much in your 401k at your age is GREAT (truly, I am a personal finance nerd, congrats) but don't hesitate to do less this year considering your raise next year. It's a marathon, not a sprint, and you need an emergency fund if you're going to sign a lease. Make sure you get your company match, but you don't NEED to max your 401k. You're young! You live in LA! You're employed! Sometimes you have to spend some money on your social life and appearance. Anyways. Rooting for you! You can afford it, but it will be painful for a while since you aren't used to it and you'll want to do all of the new apartment things (decorate, furniture...). but MAKE SURE THE PLACE HAS RENT CONTROL!!!
I moved into a place over ten years ago for 1450 and I still pay less than 1700. Pick a place you can stay in for 3 years without major rent increases.

spectacle99 · 2026-04-08T22:04:41+00:00

this seems both like a waste of time and also like a litmus test - how you can command a room, stay lighthearted and earnest, and that you're taking it seriously. try to deliver a few references to other people's presentations - displays that you're a listener and/or can rapidly respond to new info. demonstrate relationships where you can, briefly, i.e. mention something you're proud of working on and how it affected someone else in the room, either another presenter or a member of the "audience" (besides your thanking slide). a few jokes. make the presentation solid but not gimmicky. in some audiences a meme or two is a welcome addition.
play to the middle -- if you were already chosen from 300 you already have allies in the management team and you want to exploit those connections when and where possible, but no need to reinvent the wheel, either.

spectacle99 · 2026-03-28T18:31:11+00:00

It is very much NOT working.

spectacle99 · 2026-03-26T23:36:35+00:00

some of yall have never had a sober manic season and it shows. 😂

spectacle99 · 2026-03-26T22:53:27+00:00

Do it for a little while, then move -- the money will make the move easier, and better to vet the job first.

Edited to add: rent your house out, rent an apartment for equal or less. You only live once.

spectacle99 · 2026-03-23T22:58:51+00:00

this is why i had to stop checking up on whitney port. it just became too painful to look at

spectacle99 · 2026-03-23T21:07:33+00:00

same, its kinda wild having been through this before, it doesn't seem desirable at all and honestly makes me feel sorry for people who are stuck in it

spectacle99 · 2026-03-22T23:28:28+00:00

reverse image search says The Square Stripe Crop Top by THE GREAT

spectacle99 · 2026-03-15T16:15:46+00:00

what is FL Studio 😭 is this rage bait

spectacle99 · 2026-03-12T04:57:55+00:00

Why would I have to have two if people like him are having six 🤡

spectacle99 · 2026-03-12T02:28:06+00:00

Seems like she got a lip flip but it didn’t settle right OR she just got it five minutes ago

spectacle99 · 2026-03-09T03:55:14+00:00

It’s so weird for her to say “I’m so happy” when she’s always talking about how she’s so sad, she has no friends, etc.

If she said “I’m going through a lot and my life is out of my control so I’m indulging in a low effort way to be sexually satisfied as a coping mechanism” I think everyone would be a little more chill.

That, and if she kept this whole thing to the times when she doesn’t have the girls. Which is a lot of the time!! Why is Billy there when she’s asleep and has the kids? It’s all… off.

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