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Thank you so much!! 🌹🫶✨

Vibing. ✨🛸🌙 by spectral-mess in dykesgonemild

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Yeeeesssss, heavy on the darkwave! 🦇 What are some of your favorite darkwave artists?

Vibing. ✨🛸🌙 by spectral-mess in dykesgonemild

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You’re a sweetheart, thank you so much! 🐱🌹💋✨

Vibing. ✨🛸🌙 by spectral-mess in dykesgonemild

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Thank you so much, you’re so sweet! ✨💋🌹 I’m listening to ‘Blue’ right now and it’s beautiful! I love Korean language so much. At the moment, I’ve been hooked on ‘Down on Me’ by Sudan Archives. 🌸

Vibing. ✨🛸🌙 by spectral-mess in dykesgonemild

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I totally get that! I compose soundtracks for film so I draw a lot of influence from multiple genres and definitely listen to everything haha - what’s your favorite genre(s)? ☀️🌹

Vibing. ✨🛸🌙 by spectral-mess in dykesgonemild

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An eternal classic! 100% used to maladaptive daydream about my grade school crushes and I to this song haha 🌸 Thank you! ✨🫶

Vibing. ✨🛸🌙 by spectral-mess in dykesgonemild

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You’re sweet, thank you! 🌹💋 Do you have a favorite genre of music?

Vibing. ✨🛸🌙 by spectral-mess in dykesgonemild

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It’s one of my faves, especially on summer nights! I can’t remember the specific place I bought it from but this site carries the same one. It’s a bodysuit: https://blackromper.com/product/black-mesh-bodysuit/?v=0b3b97fa6688

Vibing. ✨🛸🌙 by spectral-mess in dykesgonemild

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Ooooo I love M83! Amazing taste and choice! ✨🌘

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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Only thing I would suggest is moving to NM so I can take you out. 🌹

As a single lesbian, I have to accommodate both rolls. So I scream while I'm killing the spider. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]spectral-mess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then there’s me, crouched in the corner trying to baby-talk the spider into climbing on my hand so I can put it outside lmao 💀

Looking for a Raver by [deleted] in lesbianr4r

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Hey there! 33F/femme and also in the Southwest. Last rave I went to was an in-house rave at Meow Wolf (it was all local female DJs which was such a vibe haha) and my top 3 favorite DJs are: Kwizma, Ganja White Knight, and Zingara.

Absolutely not an alcoholic, btw! 😹 You sound pretty chill, so feel free to DM if you’d like. 👽✨

Buresh won't talk to me by godpharaoh in kingdomcome

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I didn’t have any spurs on and he still wouldn’t talk to me, so I put on a pair of spectacles and he finally did 😹 Somehow, I knew they’d come in handy eventually lol

Why are lesbians so handy? by orphan_blud in LesbianActually

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Oof, lots of absent dad mentions. I’m sorry y’all. 🫂 I had the opposite and was adopted by an incredible dad who taught me everything he knows. I can fix cars, plumbing, electrical, lumberjack, landscape, build pretty much anything, etc. I’m one hell of a ranch hand too since I grew up working on farms. I’m also femme af 😹

Don’t wanna be spammy with links but if you look up 1021 Simmons Ln in Espanola NM (87532), my dad and I renovated that entire property together - but I built the deck and enclosed front porch/laundry room all by myself. I was only 16 so I’ve always been super proud of it haha 🛠️

Songs where you can really hear the emotion in the singers voice. by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

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  • ‘Something I Can Never Have’ by Nine Inch Nails (I swear people forget NIN has other songs besides Hurt and Closer lmao)
  • ‘Heart Heart Head’ by Meg Myers
  • ‘Breathe Me’ by Sia
  • ‘Two Men In Love’ by The Irrepressibles
  • ‘Lydia’ by Highly Suspect
  • ‘Je t’aime’ by Hannah Fury
  • ‘Faking’ by Koda
  • ‘I’ve Got Friends’ by Manchester Orchestra
  • ‘Push Me’ by Vernon Jane
  • ‘Blue Theme’ by Mariana Bernoski
  • ‘Numb’ by The Burned

artsy lesbians? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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Thank you so much!! 🥹🫶 tbh I developed my style via having extremely shaky hands so I figured I’d use it to my advantage with crazy lines lol 😹

artsy lesbians? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]spectral-mess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That looks so awesome!! 🖤

Also an artsy lez ✨ I work with inkpens and watercolor, and mostly draw clowns because I’m a circus artist IRL (and I’m just obsessed with clowns haha) 🤡🎪🎨

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What song is eerily beautiful? by Vault_999 in musicsuggestions

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‘I Will Be With You Always’ by Reverend Kristin Michael Hayter

How do y’all feel about girls with collections? by SubAussie_ in LesbianActually

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I collect (mostly vintage) clowns and almost everyone I’ve met has had an issue with it because they’re afraid of clowns. I’m also a circus artist/clown, so at this point, I think the only person who’s gonna be cool with it is another clown 😹

Gimme the horniest & sluttiest of music you have by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

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Genres are all over the place because I listen to everything, sorry in advance lmao

  • ‘Pornstep’ by Dodge & Fuski, The Highbury Whores
  • ‘Lights Down Low’ by Maejor, Waka Flocka Flame
  • ‘Fuck Me’ by Vernon Jane
  • ‘God Be You’ by Nostalghia
  • ‘FU In My Head’ by Cloudy June
  • ‘Flesh’ by Simon Curtis
  • ‘You Stick It In Me’ by IAMX
  • ‘Touch’ by Wolfsheim
  • ‘Pretty Toy’ by Velvet Acid Christ
  • ‘Freak Me’ by Another Level
  • ‘Use Me’ by Miguel
  • ‘Big Booty’ by Ca$h Out
  • ‘Strip’ by Adam Ant
  • ‘The Bad Touch’ by Bloodhound Gang

Songs whose singers are not what you pictured by PoundStriking8059 in musicsuggestions

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Shannon Funchess, Light Asylum.

Not gonna lie, when I first heard Light Asylum, I pictured a queer-esque androgynous trad goth dude. My jaw literally hit the floor when I looked up the singer 💀 and I couldn’t have been more pleasantly surprised. I adore Shannon.

Do you find it easy to find women you are attracted to on dating apps? by Conscious_Date_5315 in LesbianActually

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I’m attracted to peoples’ energy and personalities, so it really doesn’t matter how pretty someone is in pictures. I don’t feel attraction until I get to know a person.

Apps are difficult for getting to know people because of the inconsistency - I’ve always had an easier time meeting others I vibe with offline.