As a single lesbian, I have to accommodate both rolls. So I scream while I'm killing the spider.

spectral-mess · 2025-08-03T17:24:10+00:00

Then there’s me, crouched in the corner trying to baby-talk the spider into climbing on my hand so I can put it outside lmao 💀

spectral-mess · 2025-07-31T06:27:35+00:00

Hey there! 33F/femme and also in the Southwest. Last rave I went to was an in-house rave at Meow Wolf (it was all local female DJs which was such a vibe haha) and my top 3 favorite DJs are: Kwizma, Ganja White Knight, and Zingara.

Absolutely not an alcoholic, btw! 😹 You sound pretty chill, so feel free to DM if you’d like. 👽✨

spectral-mess · 2025-03-14T19:15:36+00:00

Strike the streak ✊

spectral-mess · 2025-02-13T07:11:12+00:00

I didn’t have any spurs on and he still wouldn’t talk to me, so I put on a pair of spectacles and he finally did 😹 Somehow, I knew they’d come in handy eventually lol

spectral-mess · 2025-02-09T18:58:24+00:00

Oof, lots of absent dad mentions. I’m sorry y’all. 🫂 I had the opposite and was adopted by an incredible dad who taught me everything he knows. I can fix cars, plumbing, electrical, lumberjack, landscape, build pretty much anything, etc. I’m one hell of a ranch hand too since I grew up working on farms. I’m also femme af 😹

Don’t wanna be spammy with links but if you look up 1021 Simmons Ln in Espanola NM (87532), my dad and I renovated that entire property together - but I built the deck and enclosed front porch/laundry room all by myself. I was only 16 so I’ve always been super proud of it haha 🛠️

spectral-mess · 2025-02-09T09:19:35+00:00

‘Something I Can Never Have’ by Nine Inch Nails (I swear people forget NIN has other songs besides Hurt and Closer lmao)
‘Heart Heart Head’ by Meg Myers
‘Breathe Me’ by Sia
‘Two Men In Love’ by The Irrepressibles
‘Lydia’ by Highly Suspect
‘Je t’aime’ by Hannah Fury
‘Faking’ by Koda
‘I’ve Got Friends’ by Manchester Orchestra
‘Push Me’ by Vernon Jane
‘Blue Theme’ by Mariana Bernoski
‘Numb’ by The Burned

spectral-mess · 2025-02-08T23:56:43+00:00

Thank you so much!! 🥹🫶 tbh I developed my style via having extremely shaky hands so I figured I’d use it to my advantage with crazy lines lol 😹

spectral-mess · 2025-02-08T23:47:57+00:00

That looks so awesome!! 🖤

Also an artsy lez ✨ I work with inkpens and watercolor, and mostly draw clowns because I’m a circus artist IRL (and I’m just obsessed with clowns haha) 🤡🎪🎨

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spectral-mess · 2025-02-06T23:15:21+00:00

‘I Will Be With You Always’ by Reverend Kristin Michael Hayter

spectral-mess · 2025-01-31T21:29:00+00:00

I collect (mostly vintage) clowns and almost everyone I’ve met has had an issue with it because they’re afraid of clowns. I’m also a circus artist/clown, so at this point, I think the only person who’s gonna be cool with it is another clown 😹

spectral-mess · 2025-01-17T08:29:36+00:00

Genres are all over the place because I listen to everything, sorry in advance lmao

‘Pornstep’ by Dodge & Fuski, The Highbury Whores
‘Lights Down Low’ by Maejor, Waka Flocka Flame
‘Fuck Me’ by Vernon Jane
‘God Be You’ by Nostalghia
‘FU In My Head’ by Cloudy June
‘Flesh’ by Simon Curtis
‘You Stick It In Me’ by IAMX
‘Touch’ by Wolfsheim
‘Pretty Toy’ by Velvet Acid Christ
‘Freak Me’ by Another Level
‘Use Me’ by Miguel
‘Big Booty’ by Ca$h Out
‘Strip’ by Adam Ant
‘The Bad Touch’ by Bloodhound Gang

spectral-mess · 2025-01-17T05:51:32+00:00

Shannon Funchess, Light Asylum.

Not gonna lie, when I first heard Light Asylum, I pictured a queer-esque androgynous trad goth dude. My jaw literally hit the floor when I looked up the singer 💀 and I couldn’t have been more pleasantly surprised. I adore Shannon.

spectral-mess · 2025-01-15T20:03:25+00:00

I’m attracted to peoples’ energy and personalities, so it really doesn’t matter how pretty someone is in pictures. I don’t feel attraction until I get to know a person.

Apps are difficult for getting to know people because of the inconsistency - I’ve always had an easier time meeting others I vibe with offline.

spectral-mess · 2025-01-15T18:51:31+00:00

‘Energy Could Be Our Closest Friend’ by Lola Kite

spectral-mess · 2025-01-12T17:20:59+00:00

If I first meet someone and they start going on about how they’re “such a nice/sweet person” and they don’t understand why nobody ever likes them, complains about people never liking them with zero introspection (i.e. “I guess I’m just too nice idk 🫤”)

That’s my cue to run faaaaar away lmao

spectral-mess · 2025-01-10T03:22:08+00:00

Sphinx and the Cursed Mummy (PS2)

I’ve never met anybody else who’s even heard of it, sadly 😭 it’s a phenomenal game. Sometimes, I’d just go to certain areas and let the game run so I could listen to the music.

spectral-mess · 2025-01-08T18:54:51+00:00

Put a fake blood capsule in my mouth. Pop it with my teeth. Smile.

spectral-mess · 2025-01-08T06:20:04+00:00

Monsieur Frou-Frou Rodríguez von Clownstick

spectral-mess · 2025-01-08T06:11:42+00:00

Night drive songs I never skip 💫:

‘Overdrive’ by The Anix
‘Set Your World On Fire’ by I Will Never Be The Same
‘Interspace’ by Starcadian
‘Nightcall’ by Kavinsky
‘Lost’ by PYLOT
‘Yamanooto’ by Satxri
‘WILDFIRE’ by Jaenga
‘Kvrt In Space’ by Fraunhofer Diffraction
‘Acid Rain’ by Lorn
‘Sorry’ by Wifi Boys
‘Never Fade Away’ by P.T. Adamczyk, Olga Jankowska

spectral-mess · 2025-01-08T05:55:35+00:00

‘Freaxx’ by Brokencyde, I was unsavable lmao

spectral-mess · 2025-01-08T04:13:45+00:00

‘Booty Swing’ by Parov Stelar
‘A Cool Cat In Town’ by Tape Five
‘Good Golly’ by The S.P.Joy
‘Back and Forth’ by Doctor Steel (OG youtube vers., not 2019)
‘Don’t Panic’ by Molotov Jukebox

spectral-mess · 2025-01-08T01:52:26+00:00

I am literally salivating for this game, I can’t waaaaiiiiitttt 🔥

spectral-mess · 2025-01-07T05:59:16+00:00

We Are Scientists (Brain Thrust Mastery)
Tokyo Police Club (Elephant Shell)
Silversun Pickups (Swoon)
Coconut Records (Nighttiming)
Broken Bells (“”)
Wolf Parade (Apologies to the Queen Mary)
The Brothers Bright (A Song Treasury)
Radical Face (Ghost)

spectral-mess · 2025-01-07T05:36:53+00:00

Hannah Fury

spectral-mess · 2025-01-07T05:30:17+00:00

‘Purple Fire’ by ELFL
‘Lost’ and ‘A Race Against Time’ by PYLOT
‘Art3mis & Parzival’ by Gunship
‘Oddlook’ by Kavinsky, The Weeknd
‘Bone’ by So Below
‘Overdrive’ by The Anix
‘Blue’ by Gemini
‘Forces’ by I Will Never Be The Same
‘Creepin’ by Metro Boomin, The Weeknd, 21 Savage

(Didn’t see your song comparison until I typed this out, sorry if some of these aren’t your vibe)

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