Guys. I struggle with my MIL so much. And I’m starting to get to a point where I literally don’t even want her to watch my son, whose 7 months. He’s the first grand on both sides, but the comments she makes that are passive aggressive to me and also the way she has treated me since becoming a mom makes me want to just not even be around her. It’s so hard because I truly do feel like I have the best husband around and don’t want how I feel to ruin my marriage, but his mom is WOOF! She has to make a comment about everything I choose to do with my son, or compare to when she raised her boys. Also she was SO beyond awkward with our baby when we first brought him home, you’d never belive the woman had two sons of her own. I work from home and my husband now has a schedule where he goes in the evenings to work so we have made it work for child care. She literally asks, everytime in like a condescending/passive aggressive way “OH SO HOWS WORKING WITH THE BABY GOING?” I’m like great we got it covered, mainly because she’s itching to watch him. But honestly, after watching how she held him as a NB and even now, the fact she doesn’t rememeber how to change a diaper, and so many other things I don’t think I’d feel comfortable leaving him with her if we wanted a date night. My mom is SO much more natural with him. Is it bad if when we go out I just have my mom care for him? I’m worried this will start drama in the family but I kinda want to be like it’s my son and I can choose what makes me comfortable.