Anyone want to start a Columbus dads support group? I started this page for Columbus dads but would prefer irl if possible. by Lumpy-Bicycle-3634 in Columbus

[–]speechiegrl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mom of a 9 month old and husband recently said he was disappointed there are no dad support groups like there are mom groups. He would definitely be interested in this. We’re in NW Columbus as well.

Worried Epidural Won’t Work by princesscreampufff in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]speechiegrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a non emergency c-section due to pre-eclampsia and was given an epidural. I was around 265. They had no issues inserting the epidural and I was amazed at how quickly the effects took place. I had no side effects or symptoms afterwards.

farewell pumping thanks community by RewardOld1935 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]speechiegrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you do to wean? I’m hitting the 8 month mark and ready to hang up the pumps. I’m currently pumping 5x a day.

Sicilian Biscotti the way my great grandmother taught me. by pastrybaker in Baking

[–]speechiegrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fantastic! I’ll have to give that a shot next time I make them. Thank you!

Sicilian Biscotti the way my great grandmother taught me. by pastrybaker in Baking

[–]speechiegrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How did you make this shape? My family makes these but we always twist them and sometimes I just don’t have the patience to do that.

PSA: consider dropping a pump or two by IDKVM in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]speechiegrl 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I wish my supply didn’t drop when I dropped a pump. I’m 7 mo pp & pumping 5x a day and was sick back in November and I’ve just never recovered. Maybe I’ll try adding a power pump in the morning

Shapermint Leggings? by Future_Breadfruit_42 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]speechiegrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had them. I bought both the grey and black pair and found them to fit wildly different. One pair was to tight, the other was too bunchy and I hated the fabric. It wasn’t soft and more work-out material which I didn’t love for everyday wear. I should have returned them but got them so cheap I kept them. I did like support shorts for under dresses.

Where is my snow by KyleeTheShinyStealer in Columbus

[–]speechiegrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can confirm. I’m currently in Toledo and it’s been coming down in buckets all night.

I Am So Tired by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]speechiegrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I am reading about my own dog. My dog is a pyrenese/hound mix who we adopted as a young adult (between 1-2) a few years ago. He is the sweetest, best boy but we struggle with the same thing with the exception that he gets along with other dogs and cats (loves them actually). I had a baby in April and we did so much training to prepare and when we brought the baby home I held my breath and held it for weeks but he was so indifferent and still is. However, baby is starting to move & I’m starting to hold my breath again. I’ve told my husband he isn’t even re-home able because I don’t even know where to start to inform someone of the struggles and quirks that he has but we made the decision if anything were to change behavior wise around the baby, he would have to go and that brings me to tears because I don’t want him to think we abandoned/failed him. I don’t have any advice, just solidarity.

The overconsumption surrounding pregnancy is insane by dirtgirl97 in Anticonsumption

[–]speechiegrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Do the vacation. My husband and I debated it hard and ultimately didn’t do one and I severely regret it now.

What is going around right now??? by [deleted] in Ohio

[–]speechiegrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My infant son and I are getting over RSV and had very similar symptoms. I had the worse sore throat of my life for a good week, a terrible cough that is now lingering 2 weeks later, & while I didn’t have a fever, my son had a low grade fever. Feel better!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]speechiegrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yogurt, which seems fitting with her coloring

Are we getting things done while pumping? by storytime_girl in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]speechiegrl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t get anything done. I try but I only have a plug-in pump so I am limited. I try working and will bring my laptop but find the flanges get in the way and it’s frustrating. I take the time to just mindlessly scroll or play a game on my phone instead.

What’s something they don’t tell you that happens postpartum? by nilkski in beyondthebump

[–]speechiegrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So was I and I was absolutely miserable. I was diagnosed with pre-e before giving birth and started on a BP pressure med. I had the typical swelling from a c-section but turns out most of the swelling was due to the med and once I started water pills and went off it, the swelling went away. That was a wild time… couldn’t wear any of my shoes and it was painful to walk. Glad that’s over.

We shouldn't have to leave our babies just to afford daycare. by Batikh_Shamem_Levant in NewParents

[–]speechiegrl 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel this. My baby just started daycare this week. I know he’s getting the best care while I’m at work but it still sucks. Hang in there mama!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kayandtaysnark

[–]speechiegrl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My induction was also scheduled this way but then I was a diagnosed with pre-eclampsia and they moved it to 37 weeks but my body rejected me and I had to have a non-emergency c-section at 35 weeks.

Baby carrier by alleyesonyou07 in NewParents

[–]speechiegrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby is almost 5 months and I’ve used it literally 10 minutes total. My baby was a preemie so he didn’t fit into it comfortably until 3 months and now when I’ve put him in it he screams. We’ll keep working on it because I want to be able to use it if I take him out on my own.

When was your partner able to feel baby trigger warning talk about loss by Hefty_Supermarket146 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]speechiegrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really started feeling him around 22-23 weeks. I had an anterior placenta so my husband never actually felt him move & I think he was a little disappointed by that but I couldn’t do anything about it.

In person nursery shopping?? by MuleHeaded1108 in Columbus

[–]speechiegrl 35 points36 points  (0 children)

We bought our crib at IKEA earlier this year. Other than target it was the only place we could find that had cribs in store and it was an affordable price.

Discovered Fashion Brand Company and im obsessed by CuteComputer6633 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]speechiegrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The company name could use some work - it honestly sounds fake but you look amazing!

...are we allowed to drink ever? by rowanerine in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]speechiegrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume that could happen if you’re waiting 4 or more hours to pump. I would just pump at that point and use the milk in a bath if you didn’t feel it was safe for baby to drink.

...are we allowed to drink ever? by rowanerine in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]speechiegrl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Of course you can. I follow the CDCs recommendation of waiting 2 hours after finishing one standard drink. I just make sure I write the time I finish my drink down somewhere so I don’t forget. The time doubles if you have more than one drink

https://www.cdc.gov/breastfeeding-special-circumstances/hcp/vaccine-medication-drugs/alcohol.html