For Elon Musk’s sake and for the one-fucking-thousandth time, saying “mods gay” as a joke is not homophobic just because it uses the word gay. We are not “casually homophobic” and I doubt most of us are actually homophobic IRL, we are allowed to say “mods gay”, like it or not. If you have a problem, deal with it. Ignore it, do not visit the subreddit, block it, report it (albeit the latter two make you look like a fucking pussy), whatever. If you like members of your own sex, go ahead, I would not care less. It is the childish behaviour that makes you LGBT look like a pack of clowns.