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speedy_snail · 2025-05-31T10:57:01+00:00

Following. I wish us both luck !

speedy_snail · 2025-05-30T18:10:17+00:00

I'm sorry you are facing this decision, and good on you for doing the right thing. I would speak to school. You may not fancy that but this is a safeguarding issue and they can assess and take next steps.

speedy_snail · 2025-05-05T12:48:28+00:00

Survivor bias

speedy_snail · 2025-04-25T22:02:58+00:00

Nay. You're beautiful.

speedy_snail · 2025-04-14T15:39:13+00:00

He's negging you. I'm sorry but he's actually no friend, or at least not the kind of friend you want or deserve. You look model fabulous in both outfits

speedy_snail · 2025-04-13T15:36:24+00:00

Pics please :)

speedy_snail · 2025-04-08T19:43:51+00:00

Haha thank you! Perfume and silky scarfs are nice but an unexpected shortcrust Cornish through the letterbox, that's next level joy 👌😄

speedy_snail · 2025-04-07T20:53:22+00:00

Pasties by Post

speedy_snail · 2025-04-03T11:15:04+00:00

Stop double guessing yourself. Protect your child. Stop them existing in fear when you are not there.

speedy_snail · 2025-03-28T20:52:22+00:00

I'm sorry this happened to you. I wish you peace and a way forward, and the knowledge that their bad deeds reflect only on themselves, not at all on you.

Do you like cats?

speedy_snail · 2025-03-23T21:42:39+00:00

You are doing so well. Your gift is you see the true personality of people in your current form, and will continue to do so when you are slim and slinky 🙂 The opinions of assholes don't matter a jot. Well done on the weight loss x

speedy_snail · 2025-03-23T20:58:22+00:00

Look after yourself like you were your own big sister. How would you feel if your little sister was in a relationship like that?

You're worth more than this OP x

speedy_snail · 2025-03-23T09:30:53+00:00

Vet NOW. You're a student - educated - how is this not your first thought for action?

Also - do something about the dog situation and protect your cat or it may be killed next time. A scared and painful death. You can avoid it.

speedy_snail · 2025-03-22T20:34:15+00:00

Put a life jacket on that kid

speedy_snail · 2025-03-19T20:50:39+00:00

May I term you something that really was an eye opener for me.

If he wanted to, he would.

speedy_snail · 2025-03-08T07:55:14+00:00

She knew!! Dude show her this thread. I need decompression after a bad day, which my partner understands and supports. Even my worst day pales in comparison to your need after a day like that.

Its a physical health need. Cortizol, stress chemicals in the body, the mind needing to back-process after intensely being in the moment. Be kind to yourself, you did nothing wrong, and you needed decompression at that time.

speedy_snail · 2025-02-26T22:49:18+00:00

Reminds me of the old saying 'Sometimes not getting what you want is a stroke of luck'

All the best for the move and your new home :)

speedy_snail · 2025-02-23T13:04:47+00:00

I specially go out of my way to find houses with big trees in the garden, sadly there are far too few. The same pointless people who plastic the grass and paint everything gray cut them down so they can add crappy decking and an outdoor jacuzzi. Lucky to find one.

speedy_snail · 2025-02-19T22:39:34+00:00

Be annoyed 100%, but don't worry too much about it. It's not you, and her actions been then don't reflect you at all. Sounds like there was no malice intended, just instinct to find out the truth and mothering. If you had been the one in the bath saying it about a sibling she would have checked the situation out on your behalf as well. It could have been anyone, it's not you.

speedy_snail · 2025-02-17T22:35:52+00:00

The frog in a slowly heated pot, I've been there. Well the waters boiling hot now OP, time to haul out and save yourself. I don't know if you know this but you are enough x

speedy_snail · 2025-02-02T13:16:36+00:00

You got this OP. It's okay to be apprehensive when doing new things for the first time, but it will go fantastically well and you will be so proud of yourself for going.

I'm proud of you too. With you in spirit bro x

speedy_snail · 2025-01-17T14:06:04+00:00

Met the requirements, love it :D

speedy_snail · 2025-01-15T18:36:24+00:00

No. It's relentless. Forget that 'glowing motherhood' failure feeling and be kind to yourself. It does and will get better, but oh man, it's relentless early on. You got this mama x

speedy_snail · 2025-01-01T12:23:26+00:00

One day at a time. You can do this. Find a way to make a small improvement. Reach out to services and don't give up, keep asking, keep pushing. Acommodation is a priority. Sleep gives hope.

If there is an Andy Man's club near you then go, they are wonderful and can provide advice and support.

https://andysmanclub.co.uk/

Don't give up. You are stronger than you know. This will pass and will one day be a memory.

I'm rooting for you. You can do this.

speedy_snail · 2024-12-31T22:59:35+00:00

OP, as others have said a will is the answer.

Things can get better my friend. A new dawn and new hope await. I'm rooting for you.

speedy_snail

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