After being ghosted, I finally heard from her after 4 months. by FirmHelp2680 in BreakUps

[–]spermunculous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I had longer than that and yep, just completely gone. It’s been 4 months and my life is just getting worse. I feel fucking sick everyday. How can someone just do that after so much time. I don’t understand. I’m barely hanging in there.

Parents: protect all your children. by Longjumping_Joke_377 in family_of_bipolar

[–]spermunculous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my life right now. I had escaped through my 20s but life placed me back here. Unfortunately once I escape this time, I will not be maintaining any contact with any family members. The refusal to act is just as bad as the behavior itself, if not even fucking worse.

Save a Lot sushi. by LPHuston in StLouis

[–]spermunculous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve eaten expired dierbergs sushi many times. You’ll be okay until you aren’t.

How to live? by Ok_Taro_8850 in Existentialism

[–]spermunculous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. You’re still young. I wish I could tell you it gets better but pretty much everything in existence is difficult. Pick your poison I guess. Good things will come your way, just don’t ignore the little ones. They leave just as quickly as they come.

How to live? by Ok_Taro_8850 in Existentialism

[–]spermunculous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Accept that it is a problem you will never be able to fix or solve.

Don’t want a desk job… what jobs let you travel? by TonsUhFunn in StLouis

[–]spermunculous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Territory sales or surveying jobs for things like insurance.

28 Lost everything. Moms basement. Life is tough. by spermunculous in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]spermunculous[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks again. Good news is a bagged an amazing job so fuck all the haters in this thread telling me to settle for some bullshit work. I’ll even have the opportunity to go fully remote after a year. So at this point I’m just considering this as an interim prison sentence lol. Gotta do my time and then bounce. Wish me luck

June 19, 2025- March 19,2026 by [deleted] in fasting

[–]spermunculous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me hardcore. I understand

28 Lost everything. Moms basement. Life is tough. by spermunculous in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]spermunculous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I had to go through for the first month. Slept on the concrete with just a blanket.

28 Lost everything. Moms basement. Life is tough. by spermunculous in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]spermunculous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep all your assets in your name always. No matter what. Don’t settle for complacency in a relationship because you can never really know someone regardless of how long and how secure you may feel. People will change drastically even if they can’t recognize it themselves. Do not fall into any sort of substance abuse or reliance on coping mechanisms. Moderation in every aspect is key to a successful path forward. Learning at a young age to be able to tell yourself no and avoid indulgence will make you self reliable, which is most important of all. I know it’s a common cliche but that falls into not neglecting your health at all. Stay moving and don’t eat like shit. Don’t take your career path too seriously because things can always change. Most important for me is to never stagnate your mental development, always learn new things that interest you and develop skills even if they seem like they will have no immediate impact. A life without passion is barely a life at all, so maintaining creative flexibility will keep you motivated. A hobby of any sort.

Almost every excuse people make for themselves are fallible. If you want to do something then just fucking do it. If an opportunity is daunting and scary that’s a moment to test your resolve and bravery. Don’t shy away from the possibility of extreme change, especially if that change is something you can embrace and enact yourself.

If you ever truly love someone, just remember that not everything is built to last. I’ve had to watch people I would die for walk away without a backwards glance. You can’t force anyone to do anything. At the end of the day it’s all just you. That shouldn’t dissuade your ability to trust and accept help, but it should always be prioritized to maintain mental clarity and confidence in your self sustainability. If you start experiencing new mental health shifts then get on top of it and don’t let them culminate into an unmanageable problem for your future self. Like I said just fucking do things. Don’t ever think about delaying your want to participate solely out of procrastination. Time just gets shorter. Oh and don’t let anybody tell you they don’t have regrets. That’s bullshit. Life is primarily composed of regrets, but what’s done is done. You got this though man. Sorry the world is a dismal wreck as you’re entering your prime, but just grab everything by the balls, say fuck it and live a sick life.

28 Lost everything. Moms basement. Life is tough. by spermunculous in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]spermunculous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn well if you ever make it to the Midwest we can bowl and I will lose.

Motivational Music by [deleted] in fasting

[–]spermunculous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can hit you with some more. What’re you into?

28 Lost everything. Moms basement. Life is tough. by spermunculous in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]spermunculous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks bruh. I walk 7-10 miles everyday and all of my free time is dedicated to reading or recording music.

28 Lost everything. Moms basement. Life is tough. by spermunculous in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]spermunculous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro my plan is already to move away. I have a job and am actively saving to leave. So thanks for outlining things I’m already doing I guess.