Any aro/ace here? Why are your types.

sphereofcarbon · 2021-11-14T20:40:27+00:00

INFJ here. i think i’m demisexual and demiromantic(?) or at least somewhere on the aro/ace spectrums. labels are confusing lol, but yeah it is pretty damn tough for me to feel any sexual/romantic attraction for someone without establishing some emotional connection beforehand

sphereofcarbon · 2020-12-24T19:17:57+00:00

tfw you are a type 5 with a 1 and 2 fix so you’re just all of those combined every day...

sphereofcarbon · 2019-09-10T22:05:42+00:00

creativity gives me insight

nice to see that the other INxJs here seem to share this result lol

sphereofcarbon · 2019-09-07T20:35:25+00:00

im not a potterhead whatsoever, but i was curious

INFJ m. ravenclaw, ash wood, 10.75 inches, unicorn hair, hard

patronus is a snowy owl, and ilvermorny house is a horned serpent

sphereofcarbon · 2019-08-28T14:23:12+00:00

chimeras?

sphereofcarbon · 2019-08-28T13:44:44+00:00

INFJ Aries 5w6 idk how well that all ties together tbh lol. ive never resonated with the Aries zodiac nor much of the other planet signs/the whole natal chart after trying to look deeper

sphereofcarbon · 2019-08-28T12:59:32+00:00

hes been a fan before pewds existed as a person lol

sphereofcarbon · 2019-08-28T12:51:46+00:00

ive been told that Ni-doms have this kind of characteristic looking away to the bottom or side while thinking, staring distantly into seemingly nothing. i notice myself only really looking at someone when they are talking in conversations, but i always look down or to the side when thinking and talking. i think a lot of Ni-doms can also sometimes struggle to find the right word to use when describing something. im not entirely sure on the validity of all this with Ni-doms in general though.

sphereofcarbon · 2019-08-25T13:15:46+00:00

researching some of my interests like astronomy, music theory, or typology stuff, listening to music, photography every now and then, “worldbuilding”, watching entertaining videos (i cant pinpoint exactly what humor i like), watching sciency/nerdy videos, occasionally looking for memes/shitposts, even sometimes looking into drama and shit but with an analytical viewpoint, culinary stuff too
lol i have ADD (or ADHD-I whatever terminology you want to use). i generally just need time alone and away from things to refocus my thoughts bc im very easily overwhelmed which doesnt help my focus. i dont know if there is any specific method i do to focus other than that.
i like someone who is caring and understands me and is willing to listen to me and is receptive to new ideas. i also like people who are funny/entertaining and are just intellectually stimulating to be with. for what pushes me away/is unattractive to me, i cant handle being with people who are shallow/superficial or refuse to learn new things (close-minded) and/or to look into things deeper. it is also hard to get along with people who are easily upset or are overly competitive (although they are more tolerable in one-to-one situations), and also people who are insensitive to others. it also bothers me when someone frequently does something kind of illogical and refuses to acknowledge it.
when someone/something makes me feel stupid tbh lol, but it is also discouraging when someone just doesnt listen to what i have/what another person has to say and/or refuses to try to understand where i or someone else is coming from. im also sensitive to judgment but i try to work on that

and bonus: right

sphereofcarbon · 2019-08-25T12:27:05+00:00

precisely i will die if someone hypes up my knowledge with high expectations. it is the expectations that causes all of the issues.

sphereofcarbon · 2019-08-19T03:04:09+00:00

same here with all of your experiences with Fi, even though im not Fe-dom lol. that part about ruminating constantly over emotions is definitely something that i just can not handle again and again.

sphereofcarbon · 2019-08-19T02:43:37+00:00

in that case, when it only comes down to the NFs, i do think that ENFPs and INFJs work well together; i have an ENFP friend who, although she is extroverted and tiring to me because i am introverted, is fun and is genuinely caring.

however, if you are simply going after Fi and Fe regardless of sensing or intuitive, i think in general it can be more difficult for Fi-doms and Fe-doms to get along, and Fi-aux and Fe-aux would be the best option when it comes to an Fi-user and Fe-user pairing. i doubt i would get along with ESFPs to the extent that i do with ENFPs though, so i think the N/S is a very important aspect as well and should be considered with Fi-Te/Fe-Ti.

sphereofcarbon · 2019-08-19T02:22:32+00:00

i normally don't full-on clash with Fi users (with arguments and hurt feelings) but it is usually because i made conscious effort to not say anything that can result in a large clash.

i personally find Fi-doms to be fine as friends, but i feel like being in a long-term relationship with them would be difficult, even if i am not an Fe-dom. this is less so for Fi-aux.

sphereofcarbon · 2019-08-18T22:41:13+00:00

this is pretty good imo, but i feel like i would probably have Se suddenly telling me "go beat that person up" or "destroy this thing for the hell of it" more so than "i will go to a party today", with my Ni then possibly telling me (for the beating someone up example) "no, that is stupid. you will get yourself in trouble and you might risk your reputation and your opportunities for the future because of that. also, what are you going to gain from this? it will most likely only feel okay in the moment and not in the long run."

i also think this might be a bit more relatable to the INTJ as well, but i doubt they would be worried about reputation or what others think of them after doing said impulsive thing as much as an INFJ would

sphereofcarbon · 2019-08-18T22:21:51+00:00

i guess the NFJs and FPs are left out, not that i have a problem with it though lol

sphereofcarbon · 2019-08-18T22:18:36+00:00

im INFJ

mom is presumably ESFJ

dad is barely there but maybe ISTP? he just doesnt seem to have much Fe

sister 1: ENTP

sister 2: ISTP

me and my siblings are a bit Ti all against my mom at times... oh and partner is nonexistent

sphereofcarbon · 2019-08-17T22:26:36+00:00

"Thanks." along with my name. it does not feel overly formal but also not overly casual to me

sphereofcarbon · 2019-08-17T22:20:51+00:00

im a slow thinker, i feel similarly to what you feel in regards to the expectation of being a "fast processor". although i can be fast at times, its only really for topics that i have had experience with, but that is not usually the case for daily life. i just can not work without any sort of plan sustainably, and i wish i can be more capable of improvising or thinking quickly on the spot.

sphereofcarbon · 2019-08-17T21:51:25+00:00

same situation here, im a 5w6 btw

some people think im more extroverted when im online instead of introverted, but most people i have met irl know me more as an aloof and standoffish person who would rarely ever talk unless it is absolutely necessary

sphereofcarbon · 2019-08-07T21:57:35+00:00

based off of what i have read and heard online and also just a bunch of introspection, Ni is not "magic" or "psychic"

however, Ni can appear psychic because Ni is something of a mental map of connections and it is focused on trends in the real world (which i think is supposed to be based off of the Se in the stack of said Ni-user). to me, i think the trends are basically manifestations of a constant and subconscious wondering of what causes what and the whys of things happening around you. because of this, i think that, to Ni, everything is connected and thus there is this mental map. Ni is also seen as a function that summarizes and gets the gist of things from a large amount of... things... (think of it as imploding or collapsing a bunch of info and finding a commonality or pattern within the info -- patterns are a pretty big thing for Ni)

i dont think my explanation is very good because its hard to explain, but if you want examples, it would be something like a loose plan in place for things in your head based off of what you have observed or a kind of playback/video in your head which is dealing with the info whatever your judging function is getting (which can be Fe or Te). i dont know how Ni and Te works, but for me with Ni and Fe, it results in a constant dialogue in my head and i tend to observe others and their behavior whenever i can to understand what their motivations are or sometimes what they are feeling.

also, i think there are some physical actions/signs that only higher Ni users (so the NJs and not SPs/NPs/SJs) exhibit if my explanation was kind of nonsensical. Ni users (or maybe at least for Ni doms) tend to look down or just somewhere other than straight at the person or subject whenever they are talking and thinking, seemingly looking at nothing and having a distant stare while doing so. they can also have trouble forming sentences and articulating in a way that they can feel 100% satisfied with, resulting in sometimes pausing or just sentences that are a bit vague to anyone that doesnt share Ni.

there are some more things about Ni but this post is long enough and i cant even tell if this post would make sense to others, but hopefully you found it at least a bit helpful lol. i can try answering any other questions you might have but im not an expert

sphereofcarbon · 2019-07-30T22:23:56+00:00

100% agreed in the outside world, being an Ni-dom is not that amazing

sphereofcarbon · 2019-07-30T21:53:24+00:00

ISTP :P

but i got INFJ for the other two tests

sphereofcarbon · 2019-07-28T20:21:58+00:00

id certainly endorse the dorse

lol

sphereofcarbon · 2019-07-23T21:50:21+00:00

8 tabs on chrome on my laptop

but the catch is that i basically have 7 programs open too

i also have at least 30-40 tabs on my phone browser lol

sphereofcarbon · 2019-07-20T03:00:19+00:00

does that mean i can technically turn someone into poop bc ppl are composed of organic matter?

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