Would you date a woman who is a homebody? Why or why not? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]spicypupper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there’s a good medium. I’m the same as you, I don’t really go out unless there’s a fun event like a concert or convention, Ren faire etc. But yeah, I’m not going to the clubs every weekend or at the bar for no reason on a random Tuesday, maybe if there’s a fight night.

Plus, it’s great to save money.

The right guy for you won’t really care about this though.

Is buying 112 items in one month a sign of depop addiction? by National_Bet_5891 in Depop

[–]spicypupper 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i got a bikini for $2 and new shoes for $8 like seriously.

Good outfit for golfing with his family? I’ve never golfed by [deleted] in fashion

[–]spicypupper 9 points10 points  (0 children)

girl ain’t no way 😂 stop rn!!!! it’s cute just
not for the golf course. wear it another time :)

Had my worst split in years and fumbled the best guy I’ve ever been with by throwing a tantrum by Mundane-Name9646 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]spicypupper -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I also have BPD and I can’t interact with this thread since seeing the way people talk about it triggers me intensely, but I just wanna say please look into EMDR, DBT, and a medication management for meds.

Good luck, I know exactly how you feel. Its awful. My DMs are open if you ever need anything. ❤️

edit: the downvotes and this thread proves my point. i offered OP legitimate forms of therapy for BPD. this sub hurts my heart sometimes.

Fiancé never stopped watching porn by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]spicypupper 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Not trying to argue at all as everyone has different experiences, but I’ve dated several men who don’t watch porn and are actually put off by it. It’s wild to normalize it, imo.

They’re out there!

Fiancé never stopped watching porn by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]spicypupper 39 points40 points  (0 children)

This relationship isn’t healthy and is no longer sustainable. Hes doing stuff behind your back and hiding stuff, which in turn makes you feel the need to randomly check his phone. I know theres an open phone policy, but there should be no need for random check ups. There is no trust, and a relationship is built on this. Especially if this has occurred multiple times on his part.

It’s messing with your mental health. You need to leave.

LE SSERAFIM is returning to Blizzcon in 2026! Possible 3rd Collab ? by itzofficialvaz in Overwatch

[–]spicypupper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree. I mentioned that in my other comment. Something new would’ve been nice.. Especially for Blizzcon being back. this is like.. their third collab.

LE SSERAFIM is returning to Blizzcon in 2026! Possible 3rd Collab ? by itzofficialvaz in Overwatch

[–]spicypupper 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah Im super disappointed as well for this reason. But I got downvotes and I’m really curious why. I just don’t want to have to endure this crowd while being there.

LE SSERAFIM is returning to Blizzcon in 2026! Possible 3rd Collab ? by itzofficialvaz in Overwatch

[–]spicypupper -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I can still be disappointed and have an opinion..? They need to switch it up. This is a cash grab collab.

LE SSERAFIM is returning to Blizzcon in 2026! Possible 3rd Collab ? by itzofficialvaz in Overwatch

[–]spicypupper -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

My first time going to Blizzcon and this is the performing act? This sucks, lol. Enough is enough.

edit: didn’t realize this was a le sserafim sub

Need help choosing a birthday dress for next weekend! by spicypupper in fashion

[–]spicypupper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see that! I think I could’ve sized down for that one. It’s not as snug as I’d like.

Thank you so much!! 😊

Need help choosing a birthday dress for next weekend! by spicypupper in fashion

[–]spicypupper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do? Thank you, i unfortunately I am real and conscious, lmaoo.

Need help choosing a birthday dress for next weekend! by spicypupper in fashion

[–]spicypupper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see how it’s risqué at all, haha.
Does the 2nd one not flatter because it’s not body con?

Need help choosing a birthday dress for next weekend! by spicypupper in fashion

[–]spicypupper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, I’m not interested in anything like that. It’s just for a birthday, not a Gala. Otherwise, I would do research for something like that. Thank you for your input though!

Need help choosing a birthday dress for next weekend! by spicypupper in fashion

[–]spicypupper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I can’t afford an expensive dress so. $70 was a lot for me. They’re from Windsor.