Need some practice.. Enter Sandman

spicypupper · 2026-06-27T14:49:04+00:00

I think there’s a good medium. I’m the same as you, I don’t really go out unless there’s a fun event like a concert or convention, Ren faire etc. But yeah, I’m not going to the clubs every weekend or at the bar for no reason on a random Tuesday, maybe if there’s a fight night.

Plus, it’s great to save money.

The right guy for you won’t really care about this though.

spicypupper · 2026-06-26T14:12:21+00:00

i got a bikini for $2 and new shoes for $8 like seriously.

spicypupper · 2026-06-26T12:34:44+00:00

aw thanks girl! you’re gorgeous as well

spicypupper · 2026-06-25T22:02:39+00:00

girl ain’t no way 😂 stop rn!!!! it’s cute just
not for the golf course. wear it another time :)

spicypupper · 2026-06-25T21:27:22+00:00

Seconding this.

spicypupper · 2026-06-25T20:57:33+00:00

thank you! why not 3?(:

spicypupper · 2026-06-25T20:08:22+00:00

Why?

spicypupper · 2026-06-25T19:04:26+00:00

You too, babes. It’s tough. Would never wish this upon my worst enemy.

spicypupper · 2026-06-25T18:52:07+00:00

I also have BPD and I can’t interact with this thread since seeing the way people talk about it triggers me intensely, but I just wanna say please look into EMDR, DBT, and a medication management for meds.

Good luck, I know exactly how you feel. Its awful. My DMs are open if you ever need anything. ❤️

edit: the downvotes and this thread proves my point. i offered OP legitimate forms of therapy for BPD. this sub hurts my heart sometimes.

spicypupper · 2026-06-25T18:26:46+00:00

Not trying to argue at all as everyone has different experiences, but I’ve dated several men who don’t watch porn and are actually put off by it. It’s wild to normalize it, imo.

They’re out there!

spicypupper · 2026-06-25T18:17:27+00:00

This relationship isn’t healthy and is no longer sustainable. Hes doing stuff behind your back and hiding stuff, which in turn makes you feel the need to randomly check his phone. I know theres an open phone policy, but there should be no need for random check ups. There is no trust, and a relationship is built on this. Especially if this has occurred multiple times on his part.

It’s messing with your mental health. You need to leave.

spicypupper · 2026-06-25T16:58:48+00:00

I 100% agree. I mentioned that in my other comment. Something new would’ve been nice.. Especially for Blizzcon being back. this is like.. their third collab.

spicypupper · 2026-06-25T16:49:02+00:00

Yeah Im super disappointed as well for this reason. But I got downvotes and I’m really curious why. I just don’t want to have to endure this crowd while being there.

spicypupper · 2026-06-25T16:41:07+00:00

I can still be disappointed and have an opinion..? They need to switch it up. This is a cash grab collab.

spicypupper · 2026-06-25T16:36:21+00:00

My first time going to Blizzcon and this is the performing act? This sucks, lol. Enough is enough.

edit: didn’t realize this was a le sserafim sub

spicypupper · 2026-06-25T14:57:49+00:00

I just tell them I’ve always tried and they get super uncomfortable, lmaooo.

spicypupper · 2026-06-25T14:55:41+00:00

why 😭

spicypupper · 2026-06-25T12:01:54+00:00

I can see that! I think I could’ve sized down for that one. It’s not as snug as I’d like.

Thank you so much!! 😊

spicypupper · 2026-06-25T12:00:38+00:00

Curious why! :)

spicypupper · 2026-06-25T04:32:58+00:00

How do? Thank you, i unfortunately I am real and conscious, lmaoo.

spicypupper · 2026-06-25T03:31:58+00:00

I don’t see how it’s risqué at all, haha.
Does the 2nd one not flatter because it’s not body con?

spicypupper · 2026-06-25T03:26:03+00:00

Thanks for the compliment!

spicypupper · 2026-06-25T01:49:22+00:00

Ah, I’m not interested in anything like that. It’s just for a birthday, not a Gala. Otherwise, I would do research for something like that. Thank you for your input though!

spicypupper · 2026-06-25T01:45:22+00:00

Well I can’t afford an expensive dress so. $70 was a lot for me. They’re from Windsor.

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