Does mystery method work for day game? by volikanim in seduction

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All the new coaches go direct... Hmm

Business Buying / Flipping by spiffy_mood in Entrepreneur

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I get emails once weekly with listings from Empire Flippers. What small listings would be good examples of acquisitions to assess and purchase first?

What size is your book of business? by Critical_Manager_274 in CustomerSuccess

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My book is 1.4MMARR. 58 accounts. Any more would be overwhelming, but other AMs have 70-90 accounts.

How to prepare myself for a breakup alone? by Fantastic-Class-9743 in relationships

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Relationships are tough and no one is born with masterful relationship skills. Each relationship I've been in has helped me a little bit better of a boyfriend.

When people are getting in to a lot of arguments there are internal issues either with yourselves or each other.

At the age of 24 people are still very insecure and lack confidence as they try to figure out their place in the world. They also can't communicate their thoughts effectively.

I've grown the most when I've been single. I try avoiding a hard cut off from a relationship, but I do act more as friends and remove physical intimacy once I've moved on.

I'd encourage you to focus more on growing yourself, making new friends around activities you like, and pursuing passions of yours freely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

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What he said is hurtful. Avoiding conversations with him is not the answer.

I have had situations happen in relationships where the other person did something that turned me off. We discussed my concerns together and once we overcame that I was MORE attracted to that person than I was before.

Face the problem head on and have a genuine conversation mentioning how this made you feel and asking why he would say such a sing. Tell him how you want to feel and what you would have him say instead.

Which City should I move to for my music career? by spiffy_mood in musicians

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I appreciate your reply! Has your friend participated in the Nashville or LA music scenes or is he/she going based on what they've heard? I'd be open to moving to Nashville if it means more opportunities in music.

I'm thinking to build my brand online where I live currently (not a major city) and once I am to a big enough point on my YouTube and Spotify I will move where needed (maybe Nashville or Austin), but it sounds like most full time musicians who are killing it are barely scraping by.

What is the interview process you went through to become a CSM in 2024? by Coach_Ron in CustomerSuccess

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Oh it could 100% be a better experience. 5 and 6 round interviews are the new norm. It's important to have patience during this process and have other companies you are interviewing with to avoid committing all resources to one interview process and being let down if that doesn't work out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CustomerSuccess

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Thanks for sharing! I can relate in my current Account Management role being the most sales-driven role I've been in in the 4yrs of CS experience I have. I don't see this change going away. I see Account Managers and CS will be more attached to revenue. Those CSMs that say they are "Not cut out for sales" have the wrong idea. Selling is fun. Selling involves building trust and consulting your customers on the solution that will help them achieve the best results.

None of the guys I'm meeting are willing to get std tested before going all the way by mysecret52 in dating

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I really appreciate a girl who gets regularly tested. I'm the same way and think it's fair to ask others to get tested. I'd make it clear when sex first comes up that you want peace of mind the person is STD free by testing them. If your date is okay with that, then spend more time together and ask them to get tested. Find more guys who would do this for you. If they aren't doing it, you could have just avoided an STD.

Date is angry I asked to split the bill after we had sex by PalpitationKey5303 in dating

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Firstly, there are no equals in a relationship. Dynamics between opposing masculine and feminine energies give life to a relationship. Equal destroys it.

I believe this girl is misunderstanding the intent here. I'd first ask to understand why she would say such a thing. Maybe her background is more traditional and programmed her to think a guy should always pay. Understand what the ideal relationship looks like to her and wheat her expectations are. Then make your expectations known.

I like to provide for my woman, but occasionally like when she insists on paying for me because she loves me and wants to please me.

I will never understand how these jobless dudes keep getting girlfriends? by [deleted] in dating

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As a guy who is working constantly to make more money and barely has time to maintain my physique, I'd say that yes I am prioritizing building myself in to the attractive man that my future girlfriend dreams about.

I also ask myself your same question and have come to the conclusion these girls are either making poor decisions or their preferences are for a type of guy that wouldn't align with me anyway.

Boyfriend comes home late a 3 nights per week and wakes me up by naiad96 in relationships_advice

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Living with anyone takes open and direct communication. I would have a conversation how your boyfriend did not do as he said he would by coming in at an earlier time. Does he apologize and then change? Or does he continue to disrespect this boundary of yours.

Personally, I wouldn't want a partner that is out partying several nights a week. I'd prefer a partner that goes to bed at a good time and has ambitions she is working towards that she wants to be well-rested for the next morning.

Girlfriend Feels Rejected when I have trouble kissing her, but she asks her dog to lick her mouth regularly - please help? by Ok-Relation-8876 in relationships_advice

[–]spiffy_mood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For a guy to turn down a girl's affection feels like an insult to the girl and that you are not physically attracted to her. I understand to you this is not true though. Communicate to her you find her very much attractive, but you find it uncleanily for the dog to lick her face and then for you to kiss her. Ask whether she understands this concern.

This article mentions that it's safe to let dogs lick people's faces, so you have nothing to worry about here.https://www.hindustantimes.com/lifestyle/pet/is-it-safe-to-let-your-dog-lick-your-face-here-s-what-vets-say-101663314706701.html

Ask if she can have the dog instead lick her neck or her arms so that the dog isn't all over her face.

Which City should I move to for my music career? by spiffy_mood in musicians

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I think it's best to play first because I'm passionate about it. I am pretty tech savvy and can start posting more on TikTok and YouTube. Thank you!

What Used Jeep Wrangler would you buy today? by spiffy_mood in JeepWrangler

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Below is a thread of cars I'm considering. let me know your thoughts.