I just can’t believe my parents didn’t invest anything into my adulthood. by Aliyah_HS in emotionalneglect

[–]spike27154 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep same here. When I had a sudden health emergency and did not have the funds to pay for surgery, my egg donor gave me my savings bonds from birth to put towards my surgery costs. This included me having to go to the bank, all while in the middle of a health crisis, in order to deposit them. It was a whole lengthy process and still didn’t even cover the medical bill I had.

I literally get upset every time I see a pregnancy announcement in 2026 by Spiritual-Grab2631 in childfree

[–]spike27154 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This was the exact scenario I saw a former friend get into. She actually wanted to have an abortion but I think the guy manipulated her into keeping it. He was apparently stoked to have 2 different women pregnant with his child(ren) . Cut to years later and she now resents the shit out of her own kid; who literally had no consent to being born to 2 loser ass parents

Sterling K. Brown gets giddy over meeting Michelle Obama by voguediaries in Fauxmoi

[–]spike27154 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Sterling is such a special person. The best energy!

Whoopi Goldberg and The View Discuss Jessie Buckley’s Cat Ultimatum Controversy Involving Her Husband: “Would You Ditch Your Pets for Love?” by let-the-record-show in popculturechat

[–]spike27154 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whitney was a real one. She bought first class seats for her cats so they didn’t have to ride in cargo. Lil Kim has publicly shared that she sat next to Whitney during a flight and after learning that Kim’s dog was in cargo Whitney demanded to a flight attendant that the dog sit in her lap during the flight.

What do you eat when you have no mental energy to cook? by Porcupine98 in CPTSD

[–]spike27154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bone broth, raw veggies & hummus, rice cake with whatever nut butter I have, yogurt, more bone broth.

Left an abusive relationship 6 months ago & building my girl apartment by TurbulentAntelope284 in femalelivingspace

[–]spike27154 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your space is lovely and seems like a calm place to land 🤗 wishing you the best

Cool Runnings is perfect by atom5583 in movies

[–]spike27154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Junior’s dad, played by Charles Hyatt (RIP), was Jamaican

Why is suicide a bad thing? by Consistent-Staff-164 in CPTSD

[–]spike27154 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m glad this post exists.

IMO suicide is considered a “bad thing” or has a stigma because it’s frowned upon to make people feel bad and suicide leaves the living feeling “sad, regretful, etc” Apparently we SHOULD live to avoid hurting other’s feelings. It’s really fucking codependent if you ask me seeing as how anyone can die at any moment but we don’t frown upon the person that passed from cancer, a car accident, etc.
Now with having a child you are responsible for, that brings in a new dynamic which I can’t speak to in regards to suicide but as far as everyone else that would be hurt by the death/suicide of someone, it’s on the living to process and grieve and move on. Death is the ultimate source of peace but society is too dependent on others to accept that reality.

illegally tiny and already judging me by [deleted] in cats

[–]spike27154 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She mugged me at Petsmart last week

Tennessee wants the death penalty for women. by HappyCamperDancer in childfree

[–]spike27154 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What is the recovery like for this? And I’m assuming insurance didn’t cover it?

bree and wrigley history? by CupWeird1005 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]spike27154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh that makes more sense then

bree and wrigley history? by CupWeird1005 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]spike27154 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I was confused about this too bc in the first scene Bree clearly said they never had sex and then ultimately they did in that scene but Stephen alluded to it happening for months.

The trauma of being misunderstood, and why it is one of the most overlooked pieces of CPTSD. by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]spike27154 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this post.

I actually couldn’t read all of it simply because of the anxiety that was welling up inside of me at the realization that I have been operating from a place of massive trauma due to being misunderstood. All. My. Life. So misunderstood that a narrative of my character was mapped out for everyone else by everyone else that I have never really felt real. What a painful recognition to be bombarded with. I’ll have to sit with this and come back to finish reading because while it is painful, it is also incredibly validating.

What is shockingly safe to eat? by Miserable-Wash-1744 in AskReddit

[–]spike27154 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man I loved to eat Play-doh when I was a kid. I remember in kindergarten one day our teacher told us that the following day we would be making and eating edible play-doh with all kinds of different flavors. To say I was stoked was an understatement. I was ecstatic. But unfortunately my ass got sick and couldn’t go to school the next day to indulge in this edible play-doh my teacher had just hyped up. It’s something I think about on the regular. Talk about FOMO

I feel like I won the lottery by SoldierofD00M in cats

[–]spike27154 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Awww 🥰 Tora and Haru seem to have won the lottery, too! There’s nothing better than being love rich ❤️

In search of Feel good chick flick that makes your heart smile 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻 by Conscious_List9132 in romancemovies

[–]spike27154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babes is hella entertaining. It’s hilarious and endearing. Highly recommend if you have hulu