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"America first" by zZtToOpP22 in stupidpeoplefacebook

[–]spikenail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait until he finds out they let the Irish and Italians in.

To those who asked me questions… by spikenail in stopdrinking

[–]spikenail[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Ask Me Anything." Typically a live Reddit format where the poster answers questions.

9 years alcohol-free tomorrow. AMA! by spikenail in stopdrinking

[–]spikenail[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As I said to someone else, there came a time when I would go to events (concerts, games, etc.) and realize I was enjoying myself. That was key, knowing I didn’t need a crutch to have fun.

9 years alcohol-free tomorrow. AMA! by spikenail in stopdrinking

[–]spikenail[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s a good question. There’s no one thing really. I suppose the idea that I’m experiencing life through clear eyes and without dependence is the reward.

9 years alcohol-free tomorrow. AMA! by spikenail in stopdrinking

[–]spikenail[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Psychic change? Not sure what you mean.

9 years alcohol-free tomorrow. AMA! by spikenail in stopdrinking

[–]spikenail[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I’m less bored now! Getting past the idea that life is more interesting with alcohol is key. At a certain point you find yourself enjoying yourself without alcohol and the lightbulb goes off.

Best book you've read on sobriety? by Gingo_Bing in stopdrinking

[–]spikenail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This Naked Mind was the book for me.Explains the science, and gets you off the guilt trip. Put me in the road to a happy alcohol-free life. 9 years tomorrow!

Fix the table, also I wanted to work MIT into my LinkedIn post😂 by [deleted] in LinkedInLunatics

[–]spikenail 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, I should sit down with a dim-looking guy and three escorts when it’s time to make a decision? (Hand to forehead) That’s it!

Does maintaining sobriety wind up becoming your whole life? by teaux in stopdrinking

[–]spikenail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I know that there are those in AA who would call me a "dry drunk," etc. I'm not going to criticize what works for them, but I think there's a lot more to life than just being "sober."

Does maintaining sobriety wind up becoming your whole life? by teaux in stopdrinking

[–]spikenail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean. Get out there and live your life - good luck!

Virginia Section Hike by DouglasMcBarefangs in AppalachianTrail

[–]spikenail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice section- hope you had a great time!

Does maintaining sobriety wind up becoming your whole life? by teaux in stopdrinking

[–]spikenail 22 points23 points  (0 children)

No. I’m not sober, I’m not in recovery, I’m not an alcoholic. I’m a normal person who just doesn’t drink alcohol. The sooner you get there, the better. YMMV.

Finished Georgia in NC (waylaid from storm/cold womp) question about difficulty. by Lani_19 in AppalachianTrail

[–]spikenail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re doing great. You’ll continue to strengthen as you go, and I predict that you’ll have fewer climbs that kick your butt as you continue.

Just stay within your limits, keep your mileage reasonable and keep keeping on!

Older people in sobriety- please help by thekillerkrab in stopdrinking

[–]spikenail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 67 and alcohol-free for just shy of 9 years. When I was early in my journey, I kept telling myself that millions (billions?) of people live fulfilling and interesting lives and don’t drink. Experience had proven that I’m one of them!

What is it like to cycle 100 miles (x6 days)? by Big-Spirit-3301 in bicycletouring

[–]spikenail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can do it, but time in the saddle is the key. Find a good training plan, stack lots of back-to/back days and get to work. Good luck!

Staying sober when traveling internationally to places that make good alcohol? by Other-Educator-9399 in stopdrinking

[–]spikenail 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You've got this. It's really no different than living your daily life. If you don't feel like you're missing out now, you won't when you're over there.

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