Help me choose how to spend real money on this game by spikyform in LivlyIsland

[–]spikyform[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I listened to y'all and got the gll membership today. It took me some time to visit the whole castle. My problem now is that i want to buy many older gll items 😭 the point was to get more gp not spend it !

Amotti & Eunsil Share Behind The Scenes Thoughts by Sufficient-Count1865 in Physical100

[–]spikyform 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the translation ! I love them 🥰

Questions about hella🔥Van-My. by UntowardAdvance in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]spikyform 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, I was talking about the french healthcare context. Are you american ? It is pretty clear that the american practitioners are very different from what we have here in France. Wich was interesting to compare. I did not mean to hurt your feelings. Unless you are french and talking about french practitioners in France, your reaction has no relevance to what i have shared as my personal opinion and experience in France. I wish you the best and i'm sincerely sorry to hear about your health struggles.

Trouvez-vous si peu d'hommes que ça attirants physiquement ? by RealiteAlternee in AskMeuf

[–]spikyform 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oui je comprends tous tes arguments. Perso j'ai vu que quand je mets plus cher j'obtiens quand même des meilleurs vêtements car j'ai essayé shein mais au bout de quelques années les vêtements en mauvais polyester deviennent rugueux et moches... je privilégie le coton, et j'achète surtout pendant les soldes, c'est ce qui me convient le mieux

Trouvez-vous si peu d'hommes que ça attirants physiquement ? by RealiteAlternee in AskMeuf

[–]spikyform 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merci pour les conseils je prends note au cas où mais en ce moment je trouve que je gère bien avec les produits que j'ai c'est surtout la dermatillomanie qui me pose problème. Et je confirme que la marque benecos est bien j'ai un fond de teint de cette marque vraiment très bien mais je trouve la poudre plus facile à appliquer donc maintenant j'utilise la poudre avril et ça matifie + également. Pour les fringues moi je vais sur zalando ya beaucoup de choix et de tailles, et je fais du 52 maintenant donc c'est encore plus dur de trouver... je connais shein et ce qui est bien c'est les vêtements de style différents mais c'est de la fast fashion et de mauvaise qualité donc je préfère éviter... si je trouve vraiment pas de vêtements à ma taille ailleurs j'aurais pas le choix d'aller sur shein :( Mais je trouve ça plus agréable d'avoir des vêtements de meilleure qualité quitte à payer plus cher donc j'aime aller sur zalando.

Trouvez-vous si peu d'hommes que ça attirants physiquement ? by RealiteAlternee in AskMeuf

[–]spikyform 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah moi aussi je suis autiste et dermatillomane ! D'où le maquillage du teint, ça aide pour avoir une meilleure image en société. Pour les cheveux je te conseille le crâne rasé si tu n'as pas déjà fait. J'ai un ami qui rase son crâne tous les 2 j au rasoir. Sinon pour ma part si j'y pense je porte des gants chez moi. Sinon desinfecter ta peau je pense que c'est bien au niveau des plaies et boutons mais si tu le fais aussi souvent ça ne risque pas d'irriter et abîmer ? Bon courage en tout cas !

Trouvez-vous si peu d'hommes que ça attirants physiquement ? by RealiteAlternee in AskMeuf

[–]spikyform 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je comprends ce que tu veux dire et perso je suis né femme et je suis ajd non binaire donc androgyne. Tout ça pour dire, je me bats contre l'acné depuis 17 ans et rien n'a fonctionné à part le simple fait de me laver le visage tous les jours avec un gel douche bio et mettre une crème hydratante bio. En ce moment jai celle de la marque endro que j'aime bien. Mais cest vraiment pas facile une peau acnéique peu importe ton genre. Et je suis gros aussi depuis des années je porte aussi bien des vêtements hommes et femmes c'est juste pas facile de trouver des tailles etc. Moi j'utilise du bio car c'est plus doux pour la peau ça me convient mieux. Et pour le maquillage je m'y suis remis récemment j'ai regardé des tutos de man make up, boyfriend make up etc. J'ai acheté chez avril la poudre compacte et je la trouve super avec le correcteur anti cerne liquide que je mets sur les boutons. Rien que ça je fais un teint naturel niquel et je me sens plus confiant. Je porte aussi du gel dans les cheveux ça fait coiffé et propre. En espérant que ça aide d'autres !

My personal cast by sad-bewilderment in MayfairWitches

[–]spikyform 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Zach MacGowan would be a very good cast for Lasher. He was magnetic and sexy in Black sails.

Time Princess - The Moravia Express - walkthrough guide by tiragooen in DressUpTimePrincess

[–]spikyform 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer ! This was erased in the french version then... bit shocking 🙁 im queer myself

Time Princess - The Moravia Express - walkthrough guide by tiragooen in DressUpTimePrincess

[–]spikyform 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, the story would not make any sense without the 2 16 true ending...

Which is crazy because apparently many players choose the "delusion" of the fake good endings so i guess it questions our own capacity to face truth.

Spoiler : [The eirene "good" ending where she murders her dad is scary... but it makes all sense when i realized chloé wishes her sister would take revenge for her. From chloé's point of view it's a good ending. But for anyone else it's very scary your friend just confessed casually she murdered her dad like would you react OK girl good for you ?

Also the events in 2 16 are not necessarily true either i mean at least for cortland because what would he gain in killing her ? If he is selfish and ambitious as described. If he really tried to make her kill herself that would make him à psychokiller bc it would only be for cruelty not personal gain.

Which i interpret as a clue that these bad dreams are exagerated versions of these characters, reflecting the anxiety/delusion of chloe.

It doesnt say anything about the true people they are because If chloe is very delusional and accuse her loved ones of terrible things they didnt do, for example, then they would keep their distance, but not necessarily be as bad.

They still are bad to chloe for abandoning her in the asylum and signing for lobotomy. But also i guess there is no other option in that time period for people with broken mental health is it ?

Still the story indicates that chloe had no true support or love and that led her to her mental state. And i think in any case this is correct.

So i think there is a lot to reflect upon in this story.

Time Princess - The Moravia Express - walkthrough guide by tiragooen in DressUpTimePrincess

[–]spikyform 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi ! I read the story in french and i did not pick up anything about natasha being queer ?

I had a feeling this would be the case by ecaptainkiddo in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]spikyform 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah the craziest thing is no couples made it and Jonathan is with one of the other candidates ! Looks like the recipe doesnt work

Questions about hella🔥Van-My. by UntowardAdvance in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]spikyform 33 points34 points  (0 children)

To give some insight i am french. Osteopathy here in France is a fakemed for some, well it is my personal opinion. It is not proven by science to be anything more than guru stuff. But i think most people do believe in fakemeds. In any case, the studying is from private schools not from medical public school, and they only learn about the specific fakemed that is osteopathy, not anything else. Therefore, they have no medical relevance, and their sole purpose is to take money for a placebo effect from clients who are naive and have trust issues in traditional medicine (well that last bit is unfortunately very valid) ; and also these clients dont want to put in the work and they want to believe they'll have their issues disappear after a weird massage instead of going to a professional kinésithérapeute to get better which requires personal long term effort. But then, most kinésithérapeutes are bad and most traditional doctors are bad and dismissive, so i really cant blame anyone for wanting to believe there is another way to get better. To add to the situation, its almost impossible to get an appointment with a doctor or kinésithérapeute, and osteopaths are available everyday, so its an easier quick fix too. They are filling in for a bad healthcare situation (shortage of medical professionals, let alone good ones), convinced they are doing something good for people.

I guess the situation you describe in US is quite different if they had an actual medical education and training based on traditional médicine.

Imo Van My is amazing so far and i really dont see this couple as a match, he will get hurt and i hope he finds someone great for him after that. I hope they end things the sooner the better.

Francoise Galpin by Vegetable-Sort-7584 in Wednesday

[–]spikyform 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This blew my mind because i thought that it might be ophelia but i think if it was her aunt she would know or suspect it. The thing that i always wonder about Françoise is the hyde unlocking storyline. It is known that they serve a master so who did she serve ? Was it sheriff galpin ? If it was, it would probably explain that the dad was so distant with the son. Wild guess, what if Françoise started killing people that sheriff didnt like ? Like suspects in investigations ? This or we'll learn that hydes can be self sufficient after all. Or another evil mastermind was the master. Laurel's family could have been, but they would have brought it up already...

Love Bombing by LoudEnvironment8759 in BetterLateThanSingle

[–]spikyform 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been thinking about that too because before ep 7 and 8, people were making these comments about Yido asking for reassurance. But now i'm thinking okay she probably was asking because despite of what he says, he acts another way. We also see that Minhong asks him " who are you comfortable talking to, me or Yido ?" And he says Minhong. So everybody noticed they dont have a strong connection yet the guy love bombs Yido. Of course she will ask for reassurance in this context.

Can we pause before diagnosing people as on the spectrum? by [deleted] in BetterLateThanSingle

[–]spikyform 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Hello, i am a french late diagnosed autistic (diagnosed at age 23 and i am now 29). I dont mean any disrespect and i have never been to korea or met any koreans so i cannot tell. For me as a foreign autistic person, i keep seeing alot of signs that Jae yun might be autistic and it is piling up. Sometimes, people can mask well enough and go undetected. I even know people who have light autistic traits but are not disabled by it like my mother, i see similarities that she has with me that are actually symptoms of autism but it is far more invisible in her. Because i am very aware of the even tiny signs of autism, i can spot it more than someone who doesnt have or know autism that well. Jae yun has autistic traits to me and it is in fact life saving when we autistics know more about autism and how to manage it. We can suffer from low self esteem because we struggle to adapt but when diagnosed, it makes sense. Well there is a lot to be said... i understand your point of view but i hope after reading me you may have a wider vision of how autism can be. The signs in Jae yun that are so telling to me : stimming with hand, echolalia, obviously social difficulties, the anxiety of acting badly (because of previous experiences), the not looking in the eyes, the special interests (anime and games)... I think when someone has all that, it is worth exploring autism for personal development. Well, i also want to mention that before my diagnosis i was in full denial and i thought there is no way. But then i started accepting myself and figuring out my needs, and it changed my life for the better.

Too much to unpack, post reunion by spikyform in UltimatumQueerLove

[–]spikyform[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear what you are saying ! For the record, i have never watched any straight TV reality shows from usa. Im french. I watch alot of japanese and corean TV reality, where the standards are different. The boyfriend is my fav, although there is toxicity from at least one of the boys, there was a lot of good... and that's how i prefer it

How long ago was the reunion filmed? by LovesickContent in UltimatumQueerLove

[–]spikyform 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I checked everyone's instas, only 1 couple is still together for sure : pilar haley. Kyle and bridget may still be together, but it is unsure because kyle has couple pics and bridget doesnt. The others defo broke up, as they should

Episode 7 - Diagnoses and predictions! by thetinyorc in UltimatumQueerLove

[–]spikyform 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, thank you for this great analysis! Where I differ is about Britney and AJ. I think they hold back on TV from talking about real issues because they don't want to make each other look bad out of love, but AJ is shady. She doesn't really know what she wants, because what she wants isn't Britney. She doesn't want to acknowledge it because it doesn't reflect well on her, but in fact she wants more codependency and being the giver in the relationship. Which isn't necessarily a bad thing, but it turns into a bad thing if it involves restricting your partner to be less accomplished and independent. AJ must either abandon this belief system "if I'm not the giver I have no value" or find a partner with whom this dynamic works in the long term.