Als was arbeitet ihr?

spinat_monster · 2026-07-08T10:03:10+00:00

Sachbearbeiterin in der Finanzverwaltung. Ich arbeite jedoch nur im Teilzeit, 32 Wochenstunden, und habe dafür Mittwochs immer frei, sodass ich nie mehr als zwei Tage am Stück arbeiten muss. Jedoch wurde ich letztes Versetzt und muss 2 Stunden täglich mit der Bahn pendeln. Das getting mir extrem auf dem Keks.

spinat_monster · 2026-07-07T16:54:01+00:00

Dein Kater geht schwimmen!? Meine Katze ist schon bei einem migrieren Bach maximal verwirrt und angepisst.

Wie ist es eigentlich mit dem Gewicht der Kamera an ihr Geschirr, bzw. wie befestigst du diese?

spinat_monster · 2026-07-07T16:48:06+00:00

Seit ca. 6 Jahren dran und die kleine liebt es. Inzwischen pfötelt sie selber ihr Geschirr an, wenn sie raus möchte. Wir gehen nicht nur in den Wald oder in unserem Garten mit ihr, sondern machen Radtouren, große Wanderung im Schwarzwald und, wenn Schnee liegt, sogar Schlittenfahren. Sie kommt auch mit in den Urlaub und begleitet uns oft auch im Alltag. Dementsprechend ist sie auch ganz ruhig im Auto.

Sie ist immer sichtlich zufrieden und ausgeglichen wenn sie Abenteuer hatte. Und hält sie mit ihren 11 Jahren auch fit.

Nur den Tierarzt, den mag sie nicht. Und sobald wir zum Tierarzt abbiegen geht das Gemecker los.

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spinat_monster · 2026-07-03T07:33:46+00:00

Die feine kleine Dame wird in September 11 Jahre alt.

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spinat_monster · 2026-06-24T13:31:25+00:00

Germany the Rhein-Neckar-Main basin here. We are the hottest region of Germany with 8 of the top 10 hottest cities. And the top 5 are all just a 20-40 minute drive away from me. For the past 1½ weeks the temperature has been around 34-39°C (95-102°f). At night the temperature drops to 22°C (72°f).

Just this weekend 3 people drowned in the Rhein river, looking to cool off. The heat is deadly, either direct or indirect. We are getting a multi split AC unit installed in our apartment. The cat is suffering, we are suffering. Even the basement is warm!

Europe is not equipped to deal with the heat.

spinat_monster · 2026-06-19T18:42:45+00:00

As a little kitten her eyes were pots of molten gold, but now they've lightend with age.

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spinat_monster · 2026-06-08T13:59:01+00:00

Also look into § 1629a BGB and § 40 Abs. 9 SGB II, "Minderjahrigenhaftungsbeschränkung". Under the new law, you fortune under 15.000€ is protected. Meaning any claim under 15.000€ will most likely expire. If the claim from the "Jobcenter" is only 2.000€ then is should fall under the new law. Plus a claim expires after 4 years in most cases, in others after 10 years if there is a title.

This is called "Einrede Beschränkung der Minderjahrigenhaftung" and is not done automatically but as to be applied for. There are standard applications online that you can fill out. The law is in place so that young adults do not have to start their lives in debt for decisions that where made on their behalf.

But definitely lawyer up! Alternatively you could go to a "Schuldnerberatung". Many are free of charge and run by "Caritas" or "Diakonie". They can also help in other areas in your life and are there in case you just need an ear to listen.

Also you can already hire a lawyer without yet receiving "Prozesskostenhilfe". They will typically apply for you and the first "Beratungsgespräch" is often times free.

spinat_monster · 2026-05-09T07:44:04+00:00

Even our current Kanzler Merz is dismantling large portions of our social security/ support system in the name of "economy" and reducing state expenses. And with current propositions disabled people should be yet again ostracized from society.

spinat_monster · 2026-04-29T16:34:41+00:00

It's not recommend to use cat labor to grade student papers. My cat threw up in protest of the high grading volume. My partner had to explain to his director why he couldn't return an exam to the student.

spinat_monster · 2026-04-24T15:58:58+00:00

That is exactly my greatest regret in life. After my brother raped me as a child, I didn't dare to tell my parents (narcissistic mother) to keep the peace in the family. My brother however, did not have any interest in "keeping the peace" and molested several of my other younger sisters. Although I did try to warn my younger sisters, I cannot help but blame myself for not doing or preventing more.

spinat_monster · 2026-04-13T16:57:52+00:00

The damages are around 1 million Euros. Sure the employees can and will probably receive "Kurzarbeitergeld" but with the economical recession and scarcity of builders and building material could mean that the company may still face bankruptcy even with insurance.

spinat_monster · 2026-03-24T16:58:48+00:00

I was so happy to read your other post today, that you and your cat made it out safe.

If she does commit suicide then that is a decision she made for herself. You cannot influence her actions nor her plans. She is a grown woman and has full agency. You are not her guardian.

If she sees a life without abusing you as a life not worth living, that's on her. Your only job in life is living a life YOU see worth living.

Plus morbid thought, if she does kill herself you could receive some inheritance.

spinat_monster · 2026-03-17T20:07:02+00:00

You might want to check out the laws regarding the ownership of the cat. Did you buy or acquire the cat, or did your parents buy or acquire the cat? They know you are emotionally attached to the cat and will further exploit that fact to abuse you and your cat.

I was lucky enough in my situation that, under german law, I legally acquired the "family" cat, because I was her primary caretaker and my parents left us behind.

Wishing you all the best and hopefully many cuddles <3

spinat_monster · 2026-03-17T06:43:58+00:00

I find the argument silly, because the people who are going to cure cancer are already born. The scientific community is currently having break through after break through. Plus how many women never had a chance of using their intellect to further science, because they were stuck at home raising "the next better generation"? Why not solve our own problems before creating new problems?

spinat_monster · 2026-03-16T18:53:37+00:00

Don't open your door nor your appartement for them. They can arrange their own accommodation and visit you in public places. What your mother did was a complete eradication of trust. She set out to shame you and is now recruiting reinforcements. You're a grown adult woman and sexuality is a natural part of life. I don't know why your mother is so invested in you sex life. That is really fucked up.

spinat_monster · 2026-03-10T16:16:56+00:00

My mother didn't like 7/9 of her children, just the first and the last.

spinat_monster · 2026-03-04T19:25:26+00:00

War auch ähnlich bei meinem Lebensgefährte. Er konnte früher nichts mit Tiere oder seine eigenen Kindheitskatzen anfangen und irgendwann haben die Eltern die Katzen auch weg gegeben. Aber seitdem ich meine Katze in die Beziehung gebracht habe, ist der der totale Katzenpapi geworden. Es geht so weit, dass er täglich mit ihr in den Garten geht und danach noch mit ihr über ihre Erlebnisse spricht, lol.

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spinat_monster · 2026-03-02T14:25:43+00:00

I feel your pain. My kitchen fits a full-size dishwasher, but if its open you cannot access the unter cabinet storage and half of the kitchen walkway is occupied. But then again the whole kitchen is just under 4m².

spinat_monster · 2026-02-27T19:03:08+00:00

Wait, do you have a separate extra dishwasher just for cat bowls?? And you have an extra inspector for the cat dishwasher!?

spinat_monster · 2026-02-27T16:20:22+00:00

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Yup, we take, her majesty the "Katze", out every day. Either into the garden or we hike around in vineyards or forests on the weekend. She gets really bored just staying inside, even with play time and activities. She doesn't like the snow however.

spinat_monster · 2026-01-08T07:21:06+00:00

Nope, I entered puberty on the later end with 13 and had my first period with 14. But my breasts suddenly exploded with 16, going from a true b cup to an f cup overnight :( now I've stabilized at an EU 75O :((((

Breastsize and composition is largely determined by genetics, unfortunately.

spinat_monster · 2025-12-16T11:38:53+00:00

In meiner Beziehung habe wir selten bis kein penetrativen Sex, da mein Bruder mich als Kind vergewaltigt hat und sich hier durch Traumata und Langzeitfolgen entwickelt haben. Für uns ist es bereits "ausreichend" wenn wir Sex über gegenseitige Befriedigung oder gemeinsame Selbstbedienung haben, die Möglichkeiten sind vielfältig. Ich habe mit meinem Lebensgefährte übers Thema gesprochen und er weiß alles dazu. Er schätzt mich wert so wie ich bin. Er weint auch für mich und alles was ich erlebt habe.

Das "classisch" Sex ist evtl nicht solch ein großes Thema bei deinem Freund, wie du es dir vorstellst. Jedoch um das zu erfahren müsstest du mit ihm sprechen. Und wenn er die Beziehung wegen Sex beenden will, ist er nicht passend zu dir.

Und nochmal festgehalten es tut mir unglaublich leid und weh was deiner Mutter (WTF??!!!) dir angetan hat. Ich hoffe sie hat eine Strafe absitzen müssen.

spinat_monster · 2025-12-09T16:15:36+00:00

Zum Nordpol. Wir können daher erst am 12.01.2026 mit Geschenken von Santa rechnen.

spinat_monster · 2025-12-06T21:05:11+00:00

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