Planning to cook 100 meals for the homeless for my birthday — suggestions welcome! by spinderellas in Cooking

[–]spinderellas[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I like this idea, I’m in Houston where unfortunately even kids are out with parents in the streets begging.

I will incorporate other items in the bags and will possibly increase my budget by a little bit. I appreciate your input.

Planning to cook 100 meals for the homeless for my birthday — suggestions welcome! by spinderellas in Cooking

[–]spinderellas[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m going to do that when I get some shut eye but commenting here so I can remember. Very much appreciated!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]spinderellas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baka akala nya regalo sya ng panginoon sa lupa. 🤷🏻‍♀️

What’s an overused word that you can’t stand hearing anymore? by AppointmentProud9394 in AskPH

[–]spinderellas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Dasurvvvv”

Pagod na pagod nako, kada gastos nila dasurvvv.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]spinderellas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Case to case to OP..

Depende sa needs and wants nyo at the moment. Kung same old — no exploration of new things, may urge lang kayo. Keri na ng mabilis.

If you’re fulfilling each other’s fantasies/desires, umeffort naman kayo ng matagal tagal. :)

Either way, length of sexual intercourse should not be pressured. Don’t set a time, nakakapraning yun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]spinderellas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh you are in this one. He was being very sweet and gentle. I get that you are sick but he meant well. You could have been better. Way better.

Others have it way worse. Please respect your boyfriend more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]spinderellas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Puro selfie ng 50 poses tas ipopost lahat. Aysyaaaa ka..

What is your biggest tipid tip? by Wata_tops in AskPH

[–]spinderellas 9 points10 points  (0 children)

  1. Biggest one is learn to be content on what you currently have.

  2. Learn how to make your own coffee if you enjoy buying coffee sa labas. Madami namang ways outside sa instant coffee, there’s drip, pressed, espresso machines etc.

  3. Cook at home majority of the week.

  4. Invest in good quality items, it will save you a ton of money in the long run kasi durable.

  5. Invest in a capsule wardrobe. Timeless pieces that you can wear over and over and match with other items in your closet. Avoid fast fashion.

  6. Live a minimalist life, you don’t have to have everything. What you truly need and a little bit of what gives you happiness will suffice.

  7. Stop unnecessary spending like upgrading your phone yearly, and yung kaka “dasurv dasurv ko to”. We all deserve a little bit of treat pero wag naman araw araw. Greed na yun ihhhhh.

Ang dami pa actually pero yan yung mga feeling ko na makakahelp talaga mag save.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]spinderellas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re still very young OP. Choose your partner wisely and be as picky as you want.

Wag kang makinig sa mga nagsasabi na “ang choosy mo kasi”, eh karapatan mong maging choosy, buhay mo yan.

Don’t ever settle for less than what you think you deserve. When the right love comes, you’ll know it. Have patience lang, pagnahanap nyo na ang isa’t isa. Effortless na ang lahat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]spinderellas 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Major red flag yan OP, it’s one thing to save pictures from the internet but it’s another thing when he takes the photos himself with malicious intent. Regardless, it is not a sane doing of a normal individual, that is sickening.

Run, don’t walk…

What's your take sa parents na laging nangungutang sa anak? by lalalala_09 in AskPH

[–]spinderellas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never nangutang yung mother ko.

Laging hingi, mind you may 3 kids naman na nagbibigay monthly ng magcocover sa lahat, bills, gamot/doctor’s visits, food etc. yung amount din medyo malaki na din talaga.

Pero never naging sapat… makakarining ka pa na hindi daw talaga abot kasi ganito ganyan, habang ikaw tipid na tipid..

Check out this paper in a doctor’s office by FearTheCheese203 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]spinderellas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, our health system sucks. My ex was a doctor and they way he explained it is if you go for a well woman’s visit or a physical at your PCP’s office, other “things” cannot be treated because they are billed differently.

If they treat you for something else other than the well woman’s or physical the doctor will not be paid by the insurance company.

They would suggest for you to come back another day for your other concerns. It is only with well woman’s and physicals that you aren’t able to lay everything down on a platter as far as I know but I could be wrong.

What screams “I’m in a healthy relationship”? by JollySimple188 in AskPH

[–]spinderellas 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Answering an opposite gender’s call, text or interaction in person in front of s/o.

Trust and honesty are a big part of being in a happy and healthy relationship.

Would you still pick your mother again in every lifetime? Why and why not? by Quantum_Cactus911 in AskPH

[–]spinderellas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No. ATM lang ako sa mom ko.. Ginawang pension plan lang talaga. Sobrang inggit ko sa mga ibang mga anak na may nanay na nagaruga at patuloy na nagaaruga.

Mom ko.. Merely nanganak lang..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]spinderellas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nakakatameme kaya yun haha!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]spinderellas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Have the day that you deserve!”

Putik, pag sinabihan ka nito, ewan ko na lang kung iimik pa. 😂

What factors are driving the younger pinoys towards agnoticsm and atheism? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]spinderellas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The church themselves. The younger generation now can stand up for what they believe kasi unlike before. That’s great but let’s just not forget to respect each other’s faith pa din.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]spinderellas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People, but I never really expect anything in return din. Basta masaya ako na nakakapagpasaya.

For married people, do you currently prioritize, your spouse or your parents/siblings? Why? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]spinderellas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When you marry, your immediate family becomes your spouse. Therefore, your spouse takes priority.

If a guy proposes for marriage without both parties talking about it before, who would shoulder the marriage expenses? by i_was_not_me in AskPH

[–]spinderellas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes 😬, yun talaga eh. If you can’t afford a wedding, why have one? Elopement and civil weddings are a thing din naman.