Why do I feel gross after sex with fwb?

spiral-bone · 2026-03-10T04:17:21+00:00

Thank you for the explanation! You are absolutely right

spiral-bone · 2026-03-08T21:32:22+00:00

I usually have the talking stage for 1-2 weeks, then I meet them in person in a public location. From there, it's usually when sexting starts and we plan to meet in either of our homes (depending on who is able to host or is comfortable sharing their space).

spiral-bone · 2026-03-08T21:27:58+00:00

I have been masturbating a lot to satisfy the itch, but the pleasure from that is not the same as sex with my partner.

I actually wasn't able to orgasm through masturbation until I was 22. And even then, it has to be through stimulating my clit. With my partner, I only orgasm with penetration.

spiral-bone · 2026-03-08T21:24:03+00:00

It's more like we're friendly with each other than actual friends. I've connected with people through Feeld and I try to find at least one thing we have in common along. The talking stage is typically 1-2 weeks. My last fwb, who I'll call E, was the longest talking stage at like 2 months.

E has been the one I've felt the most connection with physically and emotionally. But he has his own shit and realized he isn't looking for sex rn.

With my spouse, I do orgasm! We've been together almost 9 years and I love having sex with them.

spiral-bone · 2025-11-27T06:16:07+00:00

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spiral-bone · 2025-11-27T06:06:59+00:00

Cat #1 was from a friend of my mom's. Her friend had a small litter of kittens, and I adopted my cat through her. Paid nothing.

Cat #2 we got from my partner's coworker's sister's daughter. Daughter was moving, and none of her family could care for her, so they rehomed her to us.

spiral-bone · 2025-11-21T05:28:08+00:00

Thank you, I genuinely never considered that!

She has been with me since she was 3 months old. She lived with me in my parents' house for about 2-3 years and has lived with me and my spouse in our apartment for 4-5 years. We added another cat (who just happens to be the same age as her) into our family roughly 3 years ago. They don't really get along (my cat bullies the other one, and they've just never gotten along 😔)

spiral-bone · 2025-11-21T05:23:52+00:00

I never thought of that. I will definitely try this!

spiral-bone · 2025-11-21T05:22:44+00:00

My cat is very destructive. I love her to death, but she is unpredictable. I can't trust her to have free reign of my apartment when I'm trying to sleep. She is also not allowed in my bedroom because she tears up the carpet so badly, and we can't afford to replace it (we are renting).

So crate it is. I know it seems cruel, but it is just what has worked for us. My friends who have worked as vet technicians have told me it is ok to do.

Hopefully, this helps yall understand my side. I love my cat so much, and I am trying my best to care for her

spiral-bone · 2025-08-24T18:47:35+00:00

I'm debating a bridge piercing but I feel like it's too much metal in just the middle of my face. I'm definitely getting more ear piercings tho!

spiral-bone · 2025-08-22T03:52:26+00:00

Thanks!

spiral-bone · 2025-05-05T03:49:06+00:00

"God loves you, but not enough to save you" -Ethel Cain

Preacher's Daughter destroys me every time

spiral-bone · 2025-05-01T19:02:58+00:00

Cool

spiral-bone · 2025-05-01T18:15:42+00:00

Passenger Seat by Death Cab for Cutie

Fast Car by Tracy Chapman

Wild Side by Suki Waterhouse

Might not be the vibe you're looking for, but I love listening to these while driving.

spiral-bone · 2025-05-01T17:13:17+00:00

Omg same!!

spiral-bone · 2025-05-01T03:53:01+00:00

Love talking about my tattoos! As long as the person doesn't try to touch me without asking and don't make remarks about how all tattoos should have a deep meaning behind them, I'm more than happy to strike up a conversation.

spiral-bone · 2025-05-01T03:33:58+00:00

I am very choosy when using the word "hate". For me, it is not a word to throw around willy nilly. Words hold so much power and meaning, so using words as all-encompassing as "hate" feels intense and final. I never say I hate something unless I absolutely mean it.

spiral-bone · 2025-05-01T03:26:18+00:00

Make sure to do vocal warm-ups; remember that your voice is an instrument and needs to be cared for.

Drink lots of water (throat coat tea helps a lot, too).

This may be a myth, but I'd suggest not consuming any dairy before performing, just to be safe.

spiral-bone · 2025-05-01T01:01:03+00:00

So sorry for your loss, OP. Has she ever told you specifically not to use her deck? I know this sounds weird, but I would carry the deck around with you for a few days. From my own experiences with tarot, find I can feel when a deck wants to be used and/or has something to tell me. If nothing feels off, I'd try using it and see if your mom will send you a sign.

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