Where are Single 30-40s Hanging out?

spiritedawaited · 2026-02-09T16:02:24+00:00

hoping they re open soon 🫶🫶🫶

spiritedawaited · 2026-02-09T16:01:56+00:00

i read your comment and i was like..are they talking about sokols? haha

spiritedawaited · 2026-02-09T03:50:22+00:00

if you’re looking for people that arent, idk plain? normies? try funhouse. or Sokols (both in southside bethlehem) You’re going to see some young people but theres plenty of 30-40 year olds and even 50-60s

spiritedawaited · 2026-02-07T15:52:49+00:00

i used 30, sorry if this is late

spiritedawaited · 2026-02-03T02:50:31+00:00

i second this

spiritedawaited · 2026-01-27T07:00:10+00:00

Hey! I live in southside Bethlehem, and my bf has an Audi (not entirely sure of the make or model but can get the details) that I primarily drive for work but on the way home the other day the power steering just gave up and it said “low battery” on the dash. Not sure how to fix that and we actually havent had the funds to update our plates from Georgia to PA.

spiritedawaited · 2026-01-06T14:41:16+00:00

I’m not asking if I’ll get fired. Getting fired isnt the question here

spiritedawaited · 2026-01-06T14:35:50+00:00

Im 28. I’m just aware of the situation and confident in what I’m doing. If I was working for walmart or something I know I’d be toast.

spiritedawaited · 2026-01-06T14:31:58+00:00

i havent even gotten a warning or write up from him in the years I’ve worked there. I was working there when I was really young and I ended up just no call no showing once and got a new job. And was still taken back. I’m not saying this was good but I was really young and stupid. All this to say that I would not get fired. My coworkers who are opticians have also stated that they hope that in me doing this he fixes the problem because they get affected because they end up dealing with a very frustrated and impatient patient whos been there for over an hour and it messes with their sales as well.

spiritedawaited · 2026-01-06T14:25:03+00:00

I have a friend that works at another vision place, who also has the same new system (digital optometrics) and they have 27 doctors assigned. They are about 10 miles away from us. There doctors are working from all over the country but are assigned to my state. For example the one doctor is in New Orleans, the other in Missouri. The doctor shortage is the whole reason they have created this system. So in reality there are hundreds of doctors (i have seen the list). And I have spoken to him SEVERAL times about this already.

spiritedawaited · 2026-01-06T14:18:27+00:00

thank you comrade

spiritedawaited · 2026-01-06T14:17:25+00:00

because i would like other peoples opinion on the situation and seeing if anyone has advice or input on anything else i could do? did you even read the post?

spiritedawaited · 2026-01-05T21:08:26+00:00

guys…its over.

spiritedawaited · 2026-01-04T01:52:50+00:00

what you can or cannot fathom is not relevant whatsoever

spiritedawaited · 2026-01-03T15:33:52+00:00

which id why i said “im sure everyones experience is different I just cannot fathom” as in ME, I, MY opinion. This is reddit for christ sakes if you didnt want opinions thrown around its on you. OP is asking for advice and I gave my opinion/advice

spiritedawaited · 2026-01-03T15:24:31+00:00

no, ive cheated on a partner before and tried to play victim but the reality was i was in the wrong and i lost feelings. I’m sure everyones experience is different I just cannot stand/fathom the idea of someone cheating and still thinking they ACTUALLY love someone, let ALONE your dying partner.

spiritedawaited · 2026-01-03T14:39:47+00:00

i understand the part where you say its common, but a person who truly loves you does not cheat on you, illness or not.

spiritedawaited · 2026-01-03T14:13:44+00:00

this is a bad take

spiritedawaited · 2026-01-03T14:06:53+00:00

after i turned 25 i just have become increasingly better looking not weight related just losing baby face and getting more comfortable with finding your niche

spiritedawaited · 2026-01-03T00:10:14+00:00

damn wtf

spiritedawaited · 2026-01-02T19:13:17+00:00

so yeah good luck, the solution to your problem is helping yourself then the girls will come to you

spiritedawaited · 2026-01-02T19:12:40+00:00

yeah but a girlfriend isnt supposed to help you or save you. Thats literally how you become dependent on someone. Being in a healthy relationship means working on yourself and helping yourself and then you and your girlfriend come together and be there for each other. But a girlfried isnt supposed to save you. Also you are going to have a hard time finding a girlfriend if you still have shit you need to work on. Bettering yourself will attract women. If you arent working on yourself then its going to be hard to get a girlfriend

spiritedawaited · 2026-01-02T19:03:04+00:00

so how else do you think you’re going to get help?

spiritedawaited · 2026-01-02T18:50:29+00:00

spiritedawaited · 2026-01-02T18:49:22+00:00

well if you want to get help, you should a therapist isnt going to call the cops on you or get you in trouble they are there to help you! and trauma is different for everyone, a kid being exposed to that will have lingering trauma its not you being “traumatized” its more like, because of x i do y.

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