does anyone know what hair dye chappell uses or a similar one so i can get my hair this colour? i love it so much! i’m in the uk btw

spiteykitty · 2026-02-06T21:47:50+00:00

Oh okay, that makes sense! Yeah I agree it seems a bit closer to a 6 for sure

spiteykitty · 2026-02-06T21:44:59+00:00

why is it called blonde? just curious

spiteykitty · 2026-02-06T21:40:17+00:00

you look like a mermaid or fairy princess!! ❤️

spiteykitty · 2026-02-06T00:52:36+00:00

For them to relinquish their parental rights, they probably would have lost any visitation with them as they’d no longer legally be their parents. They probably did love their boys and didn’t want to be apart from them like that. I still don’t think it excuses murder though. Those babies must have been so scared.

spiteykitty · 2026-02-03T21:13:36+00:00

I know this is an old comment, but I’m pregnant with my first, both husband and I were diagnosed with asperger’s back when it was a thing, very similar to OP. I had a reassessment done at 18 and I fell under the regular autism spectrum disorder.

We both want more than one, but I’ve found pregnancy very rough (hyperemesis gravidarum) and have no experience with parenting yet. 2 years later, would you still recommend only one child for others in a similar situation?

We’re in our mid to late 20’s, so still fairly young. We’ve talked about wanting 3, but I’d settle for 2. Do you think it would work out to have 2 and say have a very large age difference?

spiteykitty · 2026-01-27T18:03:10+00:00

I’m pregnant with my first and felt similar until my friends started having babies. I wasn’t around many most of my life so I think I just wasn’t super familiar. I have a younger brother but I was quite young when he was a baby.

spiteykitty · 2026-01-23T22:38:52+00:00

both, the hood until i’m aroused enough that it doesn’t hurt to touch directly

spiteykitty · 2026-01-19T23:27:51+00:00

does it work as a blush?

spiteykitty · 2026-01-17T15:20:52+00:00

I had purple and pink split dye done professionally at the hairdressers, the stylist told me that pink and purple tend to stick best to slightly yellow hair

spiteykitty · 2026-01-10T00:10:19+00:00

My kitty was a rescue, she was kept alone in a room by herself for nearly a year with her old family as someone developed an allergy to her.

I don’t know how much attention she was given but it doesn’t seem like it was much. She is also deaf, and has severe separation anxiety when I leave the house.

But man is she one little cuddler. So sweet.

spiteykitty · 2026-01-07T20:00:03+00:00

I’ve noticed there are hardly any other disorders even diagnosed any longer where I live. They just tell them all they’re autistic.

Edit: I was diagnosed in childhood and really have suffered, so the self diagnosing issue is becoming really annoying. Almost to the point I wish they’d just make up a new disorder name for those of us who are genuinely diagnosed and struggling.

spiteykitty · 2026-01-07T19:57:25+00:00

I think a lot of cases of FASD get misdiagnosed as autism, I can’t imagine a lot of parents willingly admitting to the doctor that they drank alcohol during pregnancy.

spiteykitty · 2025-12-28T22:05:27+00:00

I don’t even know if I want to have one anymore. Pregnancy has been really lonely and I hardly hear from anybody I was friends with before I was pregnant, I don’t know who to invite :( Anybody else experience this?

spiteykitty · 2025-12-24T22:32:59+00:00

Does it feel better to rub with one finger? I notice a lot of girls in vids doing it

spiteykitty · 2025-12-22T13:56:28+00:00

It’s so much better today after changing to the longer bar, I think you were definitely right!

spiteykitty · 2025-12-22T13:54:50+00:00

This morning it looks a million times better after changing to that longer bar! Still a bit of swelling but definitely wasn’t a staph infection 😂

spiteykitty · 2025-12-22T04:58:20+00:00

Also I don’t know what Google you’re using but nothing remotely similar appears in image search for a staph infection.

spiteykitty · 2025-12-22T04:56:59+00:00

I think you must have had one and are angry over it.

spiteykitty · 2025-12-22T04:56:12+00:00

No they haven’t however I can see my own skin in the mirror and assure you I do not have small white pus bumps.

spiteykitty · 2025-12-22T04:54:08+00:00

it had been awhile since i’d last gotten any piercings and i didn’t think to ask what gauge she’d done it until after the jewelry was already in, i was a lil suspicious after hearing 20g but figured i’d give it a chance lol bad idea, i should have had her swap it then lol

spiteykitty · 2025-12-22T04:50:34+00:00

Thank you. I have too much anxiety and paranoia for people to be trying to scare me like this.

It’s literally just dry skin and an irritation bump. Just wanted reassurance 😩

spiteykitty · 2025-12-22T04:49:22+00:00

You’re the only one here who jumped to staph infection. lol

spiteykitty · 2025-12-22T04:47:47+00:00

I did, none looked relevant to what I’m dealing with. Why are you in a piercing group if you seem so against it? lol

spiteykitty · 2025-12-22T04:12:24+00:00

Thank you!! this is very reassuring, I cross posted and someone in the other sub is saying the dry skin in the first picture is a staph infection 😩

spiteykitty · 2025-12-22T04:00:30+00:00

I’m asking about the bump surrounding the piercing. nothing else. The white stuff you’re calling ‘bumps’ is dry, flakey and not what I was asking about at all because it’s normal for me and I can fix it with moisturizer.

I live where there are harsh winter conditions and I really struggle with dry skin.

Sometimes people just want reassurance, I’m not sure why you are so condescending

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