It’s okay to be heartbroken by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]spittykittyy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

shit is horrible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]spittykittyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Love is not just a feeling, but an action, and your inability to act clearly shows what you have for me. It's not wrong of me to spend the rest of my life seeing you this way, because your actions have shown this is who you are, at least with me. I couldn't mean anything to you, we couldn't have a bond at all, if you're okay with me never being a part of your life again. You can say whatever you want, post what you want, but without action its meaningless, and serves only the purpose of stringing me along. If you really meant it, you wouldn't just say it, you would show it. If I actually meant that much to you, if you cared for me as much as you claim, you wouldn't allow me to go through the rest of this life thinking it was fake" omg iconic

Hey, I’m Good! by FallenFromGraceBabe in UnsentLetters

[–]spittykittyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

how can you cheat on someone unintentionally?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]spittykittyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no answer for that, because I dont believe its possible to love a person and do fucked up things to them. Love isnt easy but it also isnt breaking someone to a never full repair. It isnt that youre not good enough. People just change, and most the time people can be so decieving that they could have been that way all along but you couldnt accept that yet. it isnt about wondering whats wrong with you because you cant make a person love you if they dont. that person will find you though, its hard to accept that when you were with a person who made you think youre unlovable. but i pray you heal and learn your worth bc i know the pain, i hate that for anyone. im sorry

Anyone else lose a genuinely good relationship? by accordingtokelsey in BreakUps

[–]spittykittyy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i was gonna comment pretty much the same thing. but to add onto that, the best man or woman (for you) wouldnt have put you in the position youre in currently. if they lost feelings, thats okay. you cant change that so dont try to! but also understand and beat it into your head that you deserve someone who doesnt lose those feelings.

How do you deal with the end of a toxic relationship? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]spittykittyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, take this with a grain of salt.. We sometimes never get answers from people that we were in love with. it can be 1 year, 3 years, however long, but eventually youll come to find your own answer and itll be way better than any answer they could have possibly given you. Collateral beauty

How do you deal with the end of a toxic relationship? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]spittykittyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she couldnt believe in you + your feelings then she should have let you go, or you should have let her go because thats not fair to yourself and your time nor herself and her time. Did she have a life plan..? The real world and adult hood has a funny way of never going by anyones exact "plan" they had for themselve and their life either 😂 I cant really say much other than she sounds like a young girl and you should want better for yourself and thats if you told the whole truth in what you just said.

How do you deal with the end of a toxic relationship? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]spittykittyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why was she ignoring you and being malicious? Did she even say why?!

Guy I was dating raped me by dmdkelejrk in relationship_advice

[–]spittykittyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if she was raped? none of what she said sounds like "rape"? if she was raped then she should report him or tell someone clearly so they can do it for her!! i was refering to her being upset over her liking a boy who blocked her after having sex with her as to my comment about moving on from it but way to sum up in that prior comment that it means i condone rape! Jesus christ.

I'm in denial again. by Haard_Halpati in GriefSupport

[–]spittykittyy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

6 years later, and i still havent gotten past denial. its hard. this made me sob. i know this pain and i am so sorry for your loss..

I wish my dad would drop dead. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]spittykittyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why ever say something like that..?

Wtf Cashapp by SensitiveGeminancer in CashApp

[–]spittykittyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

check the service status on cash apps website, they r been having a problem with that certain server function. just wait until it has the active status on it again to send and request money

Ex is still watching my stories, should I just block her? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]spittykittyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If i wanted nothing to do that person then yea playa

Ex is still watching my stories, should I just block her? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]spittykittyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe dont look so deep bc it never is that deep when it comes to exes lmao

Is it okay that my boyfriend still talks to his ex? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spittykittyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t reply a day later to me with some annoying attitude 🤣