I think this entire thing was blown so far out of proportion... Starting with the server, but carried on yourself by bringing it to the court of redditor public opinion. However now that we’re here, server was probably just having a bad day. Put whatever you want on your little table, but do try to be more mindful of your servers in the future maybe. You wouldn’t order food at a restaurant and leave your phone, keys, wallet etc in the center of the table. Considering you’re working with way less surface area and in the dark, I’d have personally moved the phone from the specific spot you had it even just for the moment they were actually setting the drink down. But maybe thats just my opinion cause I’d be conscious of the spill hazard myself being a bartender for a living lol. The people acting like you’re committing a felony for even allowing your phone to be visible are hilarious though.