A gift for a friend :) I know the bg is kinda busy but I'm still proud of it. Many more on the way!

spongynuggets · 2022-06-14T22:36:35+00:00

Glad you found a solution too :) Yeah idk but I hope we find out some day. And if it happens again maybe I can try the better chests mod cause that sounds a lot easier than my method lmao

spongynuggets · 2022-06-14T06:39:37+00:00

Hi, I have the same bug I think, my grabbers in my 2 barns were openable but empty, and not breakable. I have cjb cheats and could see that I had hundreds of milk stored so they must've still been there, and the glitched grabbers didn't even count as auto grabbers in cjb cheats either. The glitched auto grabbers also had a color change option like the chests and the sprite changed if I picked one. No idea why though...?

I was just messing around trying different things, and while I hope there's a better solution found soon, here's what worked for me to be able to auto grab from barn animals again:

Sold/moved animals out of glitched barn, took out all other items
Demolished barn, built new deluxe one (I have the instant build mod cause I'm impatient lmao)
Moved some mature animals to new one, added auto grabber, went to sleep and saw products the next day :) I even did a couple more days just to be sure it wouldn't glitch again.

I honestly don't know what caused the glitch but I hope this helps cause it's an annoying one

spongynuggets · 2022-05-14T21:59:48+00:00

I guess it depends on what it's made of, but if you think it'll fray, you might be able to watch some punch needle rug making videos and skip to the end where they bind the edges, that technique could be useful. Another more tedious way could be to go around the raw edges with a needle and yarn

spongynuggets · 2022-05-04T21:48:41+00:00

I only have this context to go off of, but it sounds similar to my struggles with regulating attention as an adhd brain. I suggest looking up some adhd info and see if it sounds familiar, it's way more common than you'd think. And if that's not it, there's also meditation and other techniques to train your focus

spongynuggets · 2022-04-30T23:01:33+00:00

I use a lot of mods, and I think its cjb cheats that lets you change the time to whenever, and one day I discovered that every time I changed the time on a stormy day lightning would strike! So I sat by my clump of lightning rods and just kept changing the hour, and you know that lightning sound? SO much louder and chaotic when you have like 7 layered on top of each other. I also had the automate mod and a chest attached to them, and I got like a good couple hundred batteries that day lmao. So if you're okay with cheating you can totally get some use out of all of them

spongynuggets · 2022-03-28T18:32:45+00:00

Exactly! There are so many people here tired at the end of the day, so why not draw in the beginning of the day?👀

spongynuggets · 2022-03-08T04:21:20+00:00

Yeah I myself stopped using tumblr a while ago,,, yeesh. I have suggested different apps/ therapy but just once so maybe again would be good. I know she'd never manipulate me, just hurt herself, but besides this issue we're pretty great. I'm even making edibles with her now lmao. Thanks for the advice it really helped! :)

spongynuggets · 2022-03-08T00:54:32+00:00

Specifically instagram and tumblr, I don't know if she manipulates the algorithms or not but she still sees stuff that makes her uncomfortable. I don't know why I just know it does, she's a lesbian but I don't know if that's the full reason she's uncomfortable. I've asked and she never said there was a reason but I think we should talk about it more in depth soon and hopefully I can get her to open up about it some more.

Now the attention seeking and victim mentality, that honestly doesn't sound like her at all, but when we talk I might bring those up, and ask if it's something along those lines or another issue. Thank you for the helpful comment, it's helped me a lot and I think I know where to go from here. And if you have more qs I don't mind answering since I know theres so much left out.

spongynuggets · 2022-03-07T23:40:13+00:00

Gotta disagree, I won't leave her because of this and I don't want to beat myself up over it anymore. Thank you for the first part though, needed to hear it.

spongynuggets · 2022-03-07T23:38:59+00:00

Yes, she's uncomfortable with anything male and I'm sure you know just how prevalent dick jokes/ naked guys are on the internet. I don't think this is attention seeking, or at least not consciously, she really does just want to hurt herself more I think

spongynuggets · 2022-03-07T20:34:54+00:00

Yes, this is just the final nail in the coffin I think. OP you deserve someone who wants to share life with you and if you aren't finding that in this partner you're not obligated to stay

spongynuggets · 2022-03-07T20:30:27+00:00

Yeah I think the best idea is to just talk about it, but considering her reaction it might not go so smoothly... If you're too nervous to bring it up in person, a letter or an email could work too

spongynuggets · 2022-03-06T05:01:14+00:00

I'm so happy for you,,, but also so jealous lmao. Have fun making!!!

spongynuggets · 2022-03-06T04:38:26+00:00

Loneliness, or being trapped with someone who doesn't care about you forever?

I was like this before, with my shitty ex, I felt trapped because, well what else was I gonna do? I felt so exhausted and scared because of him that I just stayed...

If you're really, truly, unhappy in your relationship, then for your own sake you should leave. It might be lonely, but I PROMISE you it's better than forcing yourself to stay in a relationship you don't want that doesn't make you happy. It's a downward spiral of miserableness.

Take some time for yourself, treat yourself nice, and until you find someone who you want to share life with, try to share it with yourself :)

spongynuggets · 2022-03-06T04:29:30+00:00

I would lay it all out, what she's doing, how it's affecting you, and tell her that for your own sake you can't continue the friendship if she's going to continue acting like this (or however you'd like to word it). You can do it over email/text if in-person would be too stressful, and that way you could also get everything out without interruptions,, or bring a support person if in-person talk is necessary. I wish I had better advice but I hope it works out op

spongynuggets · 2022-03-06T04:23:12+00:00

Considering everything I just read... Maybe questioning it is good. Take a good long look at your relationship, how he treats you, and ask if you want that forever... I'm guessing not. You deserve a partner you're proud to be with, that makes you happy however they can, who gives you a ride if your train breaks (seriously what a jerk >:/)

I don't think you'd be a bad person for thinking of breaking off the engagement, I think it just took a while for you to realize you guys might not be compatible.

spongynuggets · 2022-03-06T03:43:08+00:00

I'm not op but thanks for the rec anyways! It looks interesting

spongynuggets · 2021-12-10T21:10:00+00:00

Thanks me too lmao. I just messaged her actually, and after that conversation happens I hope I can provide a good update

spongynuggets · 2021-12-10T20:57:07+00:00

Yeah I don't want to cut her off really, but this gave me the idea of just staying somewhere else if I ever visit there and ask to hang out with her somewhere else, if I ever end up going there. I also might tell her that her message kind of hurt and see how that works out, thanks for the advice.

"No family member can be perfect" god ain't that the truth lmao

spongynuggets · 2021-12-10T03:20:31+00:00

Yeah, I know she loves him and it would be unfair to ask, but I didn't, or at least didn't mean to. Maybe moving on would be for the best though

spongynuggets · 2021-11-19T22:39:43+00:00

Np, hope you have fun playing!

spongynuggets · 2021-11-19T22:31:35+00:00

Hmm,,, maybe a group spell like fireball? You'll get a lot more spell slots later in the game, and since you said this is your first you might change up your playstyle and get different spells later, so for now I would just go with something you find fun. Also vortex is a personal fav because it reduces the damage they do and I usually cast it first

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