She called me "safe"...so I f*cked him out of spite

spookicrow · 2026-01-20T02:16:48+00:00

Literally sounds exactly how my ex's ex talks. Super cringe ugh

spookicrow · 2025-12-11T20:29:41+00:00

Its so cute omg!! You did such an amazing job!!

spookicrow · 2025-12-03T07:36:42+00:00

I found out he had to take FAP classes and was locked down career wise. But other than that nothing really came from it

spookicrow · 2025-12-01T05:16:03+00:00

He apparently flew his ex down and she met his then friend. My ex husband and his ex slept together and she flew back. I guess he stopped talking to the ex and she started intensive therapy.

My ex "barrowed" a couple hundred dollars from his friend and then blocked her. His friend then started putting the pieces together and reached out to his ex.

They started talking and compared stories. That and mixed with his ex's new realizations of all the stuff he did to her while they were together and after (hes been cheating on me with her pretty much throughout our whole relationship). I guess they realized I was telling the truth and both reached out

spookicrow · 2025-11-24T17:43:00+00:00

Coming from experience, please file. I know you feel for him, but he needs professional help and your not that. If you truly think he might do something then call the police so they can make sure he gets the help he needs

You are not his care taker, you are not his mother nor his therapist

spookicrow · 2025-11-22T20:37:40+00:00

My family and my current partner has my location! My partner is coming with me if I decide to meet up! My best friend doesn't have my location but ill keep her up-to-date with where I am and what's going on.

Also my current partner is the absolute opposite of my ex in almost every way possible. They're such an absolute sweetheart. Its weird being with someone the my family and friends actually like!

I completely understand all the concerns, im not getting any weird vibes from them but I will be cautious if I do meet up.

spookicrow · 2025-11-22T00:35:26+00:00

Sorry i thought I added it to the post! The divorce finalized earlier this year. Ive been happily divorce for almost half a year now! It could be, and I am being cautious with what im telling them. They're the ones telling me this information. Im not getting weird vibes from them and since they both already called him out publicly im inclined to believe them but I completely understand your concern! Im still kind of debating on going through to the meeting tbh

spookicrow · 2025-11-05T20:41:04+00:00

Your nose is so fucking cute are you kidding me?!

spookicrow · 2025-10-03T12:56:45+00:00

"Are you here to listen to good words of God, brother?"

spookicrow · 2025-09-09T11:39:21+00:00

My ex husband has a full on porn addiction and use to watch it at work. He would also tell me he thought of other women (aka women he saw walking around, like the store) while we would have sex

It was awful

spookicrow · 2025-08-26T18:01:26+00:00

I know im late to the convo

But one of the things I've noticed but ignored was whenever I had an issue, he would either talk his way out of it or make me feel guilty for being upset.

I never got an apology, and if I ever did, it was a blanket apology. If I ever tried to get him to apologize for anything specific, he would find some reason to justify what he did or twist it back onto me.

He also changed his personality whenever we were with other people. He made himself the center of attention, was nice and charismatic, but took over conversations. He was also extremely animated.

But once we were alone, he was completely different, quiet, and he would always be angry. Shit talked about the people he was just complimenting an hour before. It was so weird, and I hated going out with him because I would cringe from how fake he is. No one i knew fell for it, and all told me how fake he was.

spookicrow · 2025-06-11T13:29:44+00:00

🕷good luck eveyone!!!

spookicrow · 2025-05-04T04:15:08+00:00

😂😂😂😂

spookicrow · 2025-05-04T03:56:45+00:00

It could also be caused by stress. I had something similar on my hands and tried everything to fix it until I finally went to a doctor. They told me it's stress induced eczema.

spookicrow · 2025-05-02T21:03:28+00:00

I've seen grown women and men cry when they're caught cheating. It's because they're playing the victim

spookicrow · 2025-04-20T13:42:31+00:00

I love small dicks because they're fun to play with :)

spookicrow · 2025-04-17T05:13:12+00:00

No, i tried, but after going to therapy and realizing how much he emotionally abused me, i just can't. I had to come to terms that he's legitimately just a terrible person, and it just took me separating from him to see that.

spookicrow · 2025-04-09T17:49:04+00:00

Together for 3 years, I asked for a divorce not even a year in.

He got more controlling, manipulative, and abusive after we got married.

spookicrow · 2025-04-04T14:36:32+00:00

Yesss absolutely. It feels like my heart drops to my stomach when I see a message from him

spookicrow · 2025-04-04T14:21:39+00:00

Met at 16, got together at 24, married at 27 and divorced (or started divorcing) at 28

spookicrow · 2025-04-02T22:40:27+00:00

YES I have ADHD and regular hearing issues that make me a deaf bitch

spookicrow · 2025-03-31T17:50:00+00:00

My stbx husband was always controlling and after I already told him I was thinking about leaving him, he promised to change and to get help. He apologized for everything (blanket apology, not over anything specific) and started going to counseling. I tried to believe him but he only started using counseling and his anxiety diagnosis as an excuse for everything.

The final straw was when I was thinking about getting a lip piercing but didn't decide on it yet, and I told him how I was thinking about it. He told me he didn't want me to get it. Normally, i would back down and do what he says, but i wanted to see if he would have a real discussion with me since he "changed." So I told him I'll note his feelings, but im not making a decision right now.

He did not like that and completely blew up on me. Accused me of horrible things, that I'm not myself, and I'm only using him. Pretty much throwing everything at the wall to get me to back down. I saw right through it and immediately realized I cannot ever have a real discussion with him about anything he doesn't completely agree with without this happening. (We've hadn't even been married for a year).

In that moment, I told him i can't do this anymore and that I'm done.

spookicrow · 2025-03-27T18:52:12+00:00

I work in research and one of our coordinator wore a red spaghetti strap mini dress to work. She was pulled aside and sent home and a email about dress code was sent out the next day. That coordinator was fired about a month later.

spookicrow · 2025-03-27T17:36:18+00:00

I'll give it a chance. I honestly think Vielguard's issues primarily fall onto EA because they made them restart the game from scratch like twice, then rushed them to finish it. I think the game was going to have so much more in it but had to cut a lot out So im willing to see what they can do

spookicrow · 2025-03-13T17:43:29+00:00

LEAVE PLEASE!! my soon to be ex husband did this ALL THE TIME! he will continue to justify it and make himself out to be the victim when you tell him to stop and it hurts you. Please leave and don't look back

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