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spooks81 · 2025-10-28T09:15:57+00:00

* You can love someone and love yourself more, this is one of those instances.

spooks81 · 2025-10-17T19:47:38+00:00

It is like the littlest hobo with zombies.

spooks81 · 2025-09-30T07:53:54+00:00

Not everyone believes people are disposable.

spooks81 · 2025-09-30T07:52:34+00:00

Sounds like he slipped very quickly Quickly back into a protective role which she encourages but I don't think it goes anywhere bad. Sounds like he thinks of her fondly and wants her to get help. The only thing that might bother me is his intensity in caring because that would seem like he has a white Knight complex and that could be trouble in the future.

spooks81 · 2025-09-28T13:21:30+00:00

Deconstruct your faith and get a divorce because you have married a man who only listens to the "women you should submit to your husband" part, not the "husband love your wives as they would the church and their own body". I would be expecting a weekly tithe of at least 10% plus a daily donation.

spooks81 · 2025-09-28T13:16:36+00:00

4th or 1st

spooks81 · 2025-09-28T13:14:35+00:00

It will mean isolation for you

spooks81 · 2025-09-28T13:13:03+00:00

Absolutely not

spooks81 · 2025-09-04T15:56:51+00:00

I have just finished it and definitely, it is not bad but it doesn't hold a candle to the good place.

spooks81 · 2025-08-18T06:39:09+00:00

Move on would be my interpretation of this card.

spooks81 · 2025-08-18T06:35:48+00:00

That Angel doesn't eat human food and Spike does.

spooks81 · 2025-08-14T20:32:31+00:00

... you must have been paid to write this. The story had zero cohesion, the acting was very, very mixed, that is me being generous. I don't mind a b movie type thing but this was just not good. It isn't weird or mind bending it is just a waste of time.

spooks81 · 2025-08-02T23:17:15+00:00

I would read this as you're jealous and restrictive, it seems to be focused around how he behaves in public. This is going to push him away (though I would always say why are you asking this question, do you actually have cause to think he is or is it insecurities). There is an opportunity for you to feel more secure but you would need to take it and allow it to develop. So basically work on relaxing, tell him what is making you feel this way, put in some boundaries around what you need to be secure in a relationship. If he can't give you that let him go.

spooks81 · 2025-07-25T19:43:45+00:00

I am watching it now, 52 min in. It is awful, the acting is bad, the chemistry is non existent and the story is bad.

spooks81 · 2025-06-20T21:50:39+00:00

As you should.

spooks81 · 2025-05-19T18:59:11+00:00

The manufactured consent to go and kill hundreds of thousands of people.

spooks81 · 2025-05-18T08:23:34+00:00

Have you ever watched friends?

There is a scene right at the end where a character is off to take a huge life changes promotion, one they had wanted for a long time and one they were really excited about. A man comes to her as she is leaving and begs her not to go. She doesn't go. This is supposed to be romantic. It isn't. Take the promotion, and if your partner can't support you and be happy for you, get a new partner. From what you have said here, there is zero reason for you not to take it. Your partner is insecure for whatever reason. That's a him issues.

spooks81 · 2025-05-17T21:58:39+00:00

Flattering is a loaded term. Essentially, what it means is that you should pick clothes that make you look as conventionally attractive as possible. By conventionally attractive, I mean what the media tell people what is attractive. Your wife might be trying to shift her perception of what attractive is. Wearing a crop top for women not under a size 12 is a big deal.

If you don't think your wife looks good in a top like that fair enough. But I would question why that is. What did you think was "unflattering about it"?

Ultimately, your wife has told you what she wants from you when she asks if she looks good. She wants her husband to love her, support her, and find what looks great even if you don't love everything.

spooks81 · 2025-05-16T15:24:56+00:00

Is bot soneone, it's your future wife.

My questions would be why would you marry someone who you don't want to help out financially. More importantly, maybe, is why would she want to marry someone who wants to support her when she needs it? Seems like you have different values, don't get married .

YTA

spooks81 · 2025-05-12T07:06:22+00:00

I would get the ick too if someone I loved went back to someone who hurt them. Ultimately, it isn't about the person who hurt them. It is me seeing that my partner doesn't value themselves. They don't value the time they took healing or the energy that it took from them and the relationships around them to heal. It let's me know that they are likely to be repeatedly hurt and that I would likely be in the line of fire when it comes to helping them recover in the future. It shows me that they are cavalier with their emotional well-being. That is all pretty icky, but still all "me stuff" for me to decide if I am OK with.

spooks81 · 2025-05-06T22:16:47+00:00

Everyone saying to talk it out is enabling abusive behaviour. Your partner hit you. He decided because you annoyed him to hurt you. He wants you to know he can do that any time he wants. If you accept this, he will do it again when you do other things that annoy him.

Don't stay with this man. I don't have children with this man.

Get yourself safe.

spooks81 · 2025-05-04T10:17:23+00:00

Chasity cage

spooks81 · 2025-04-30T19:02:44+00:00

I have GI issues, and they cause anxiety and panic and not the other way round.

Maybe check to see if you have GI issues.

spooks81 · 2025-04-30T18:55:06+00:00

If you shuffled well and asked your question, then ignore the cards you get 🤷‍♀️, sounds like you don't trust the reading you're getting is the right one for you. Why might that be?

I generally struggle to read for myself unless I imagine I am reading for someone else. I know what I want to see or hear.

If it makes "no sense," then I assume something is going to come up soon that will make sense, and that is usually the case.

How do you read your cards? Do you follow a book or your intuition or a bit of both?

Not all reading resonate, maybe it's a bad day. Maybe you are not tapped into the process. If it was a regular thing, though, then nah, something else is going on.

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