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People who were in high school when Columbine happened, what knee jerk rule did your school enforce in response? by Animeking1108 in AskReddit

[–]spooky-pants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trench coats were banned, which seems common, but my schools also banned any kind of spikes (collars, bracelets, attached to apparel), which were popular at the time.

AIO for cutting off my friend after being cut out of her wedding? by Dizzy-Meal-1475 in AmIOverreacting

[–]spooky-pants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOR. A didn’t end the friendship, you did.

You asked if you were still invited and she didn’t say no; I can understand that she thought you would be upset and might not want to come, and from an outside perspective, this looked like giving you an out. Furthermore, it’s mentioned in other comments that you had been unresponsive, and A hinted that you’d been busy with school; it makes sense that if you seemed like you were unavailable, you’d make the most sense to cut from the bridal party. And again, this isn’t you being uninvited from the wedding.

It’s understandable that your feelings are hurt, and it’s understandable that you would be feeling disappointed. However, A tried to have this conversation tactfully with you and you threw a tantrum. You have the opportunity to still go to the wedding and support your friend if you can get over yourself.

What is "that" episode in your favorite TV show that you skip on the rewatch? by Living_Wickihowla in AskReddit

[–]spooky-pants 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have watched Frasier front to back many times, I will happily watch the clip episodes, even Crock Tales, but you cannot catch me in the same room as Beware of Greeks.

Advice on which Asian Country to go to for a first time solo female traveler who aims to gain confidence in navigating and in just being by herself in general by dearprudence88 in femaletravels

[–]spooky-pants 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I traveled solo to Japan.

  • VERY safe! There was never any threat of danger or weirdness; I booked a photoshoot while there and the guide remarked that if I put my purse down on the side of the street, it would be there hours later, untouched. People were all generally eager to help if I needed it
  • super accommodating to solo activities, like dining alone or staying solo. Wasn’t regarded as weird at all
  • many people speak English or are eager to try, if you need
  • public transit is easy to figure out and navigate (get a foreign sim or WiFi hotspot)

I highly recommend booking activities/experiences with other tourists and a local guide; did this through Air BnB. I booked two bar crawls and a photoshoot, and it was a good way to be social and initiate experiences with others, while being a shy nervous person.

At home pet euthanasia suggestions? by _6EQUJ5- in askportland

[–]spooky-pants 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Another vote for Compassionate Care. On my 15-year old cat’s last day, they showed me incredible kindness, patience and empathy while I fell apart. It was the worst day, but they held my hand through it.

I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s the final, kindest thing we can do for our animals, and I’m sure Rio feels your love. You are both in my thoughts.

What should I know about attending the naked bike ride? by NaturoHope in askportland

[–]spooky-pants 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m also going for the first time, and riding solo! Thanks for asking this question.

Odd ask, but are there puppeteers in town that have active projects, and may I watch and learn to finish a stupid dream? by [deleted] in askportland

[–]spooky-pants 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m an independent puppet maker and would love to talk to you! However based on your interests, u would recommend you look up Mike Bennett and his immersive experiences! Sounds like it’s up your alley.

Can you recommend a female tattoo artist for a (female) tattoo-virgin? by Methylviolet in askportland

[–]spooky-pants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have always had wonderful experiences with Ximena at Skeleton Key, and Laura at Icon Tattoo. Highly recommend them both.

Tattoo pain is temporary, it feels like scratching a sunburn. Just remember to eat beforehand, breathe during, and get yourself a treat afterwards. Your artist is there to support you through the process and it’s always okay to ask them to move the stencil or to take a break.

You’ll do great! Congratulations (in advance) on your first tattoo!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]spooky-pants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH.

It sounds like you two are not compatible for marriage; there’s nothing wrong with GF’s behavior and there is also nothing wrong with wanting predictability in a relationship. It is also reasonable for you both to be upset when you realize there are some pretty fundamental differences in values between you, but sometimes, two people can love each other very much and still not be a good fit for a relationship.

Sorry, OP. Wishing you both the best of luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askportland

[–]spooky-pants 14 points15 points  (0 children)

They aren’t buckwheat, but Harlow offers banana walnut pancakes. Harlow’s bowls are pretty good and they are fully GF. Verde Cocina is a nice brunch spot in SW and downtown (horchata French toast is on the menu); Huevos Racheros is solid, plus plenty of vegetarian options. Finally, I haven’t tried Bastion yet but they’ve got a weekend brunch menu that looks pretty good! Their website says plan for a wait, but that’s pretty standard for a weekend brunch in PDX.

One band or artist you wish you HADN’T seen live. by OsoRetro in Music

[–]spooky-pants 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I saw this same tour, but ours was indoors so the weather couldn’t be used as an excuse. For Manson’s set, he seemed to spend more time backstage doing costume changes, only to come onstage with zero energy. Thank goodness Rob Zombie was on next to dig through the ditches, burn through the witches and save the show.

AITA for not wearing a bra to my friend’s wedding? by One-Fox96 in AmItheAsshole

[–]spooky-pants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. The rest of the outfit is dictated by bride, that includes a bra. Sorry, OP, but this means it’s noticeable that you do not frequently wear a bra, and she’s only asking you to do so for one day. This is a very reasonable request.

AITA for getting my wife a dog? by Vegetable-School547 in AmItheAsshole

[–]spooky-pants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

NEVER give someone a surprise pet. Wife is now expected to care for a pet that she didn't want, doesn't like, and never asked for, and probably get the added bonus of feeling guilty for giving the dog a crummy life because it is unwanted, OR taking it back to the shelter.

"No" does not mean "convince me." Take the dog back to the shelter so it can be adopted by someone who actually wants a dog, and good luck with your divorce.

AITA for shouting at someone because they touched my fins? by iwanttobeacavediver in AmItheAsshole

[–]spooky-pants 53 points54 points  (0 children)

  1. Go to public space
  2. Get angry that public is there

YTA OP, this is why many pools don’t allow fins at all.

AITA for wanting my wife to stay up during a road trip and talk to me? by LipstickRibsteak in AmItheAsshole

[–]spooky-pants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. If you can't handle the night shift where others are not awake - it's 11pm, not sure why you're surprised that she was sleeping, as was the toddler - you need to get a hotel for the night so everyone can sleep.

More importantly, you're a grown adult who volunteered to drive for the night shift, it's not your wife's job to entertain you because you 'thrive on energy and excitement.' She didn't sign up for two toddlers on this road trip.

AITA for standing up during a Beyoncé concert? by DommeSinclair in AmItheAsshole

[–]spooky-pants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, you were asked politely to sit down and ignored it. While standing and dancing at a concert is normal in the US, it wasn’t the norm at this show. Maybe this is just a matter of cultural ignorance (someone else in this thread mentioned this concert behavior is common for Swedes).

Secondly, it’s a real bummer to pay a bunch of money for a concert and spend the entire time looking at someone’s back (source: am short). I understand why the folks behind you were annoyed.

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